Iyintoni intsingiselo yegama elithi "ukufaka amanzi emlonyeni"?

Wonke umntu uyazi abantu abathule. Bangabizwa ngokungafaniyo. Ungatsho nokuba banamanzi emilonyeni yabo. Injongo yegama elithi "ukufaka amanzi emlonyeni" kwaye siya kuwuphonononga namhlanje kwimimiselo ekhoyo, ngaphezu koko, siya kuqwalasela ingcamango yemvelaphi kwaye sifumane isizathu sokuba abantu baqoke amanzi.

Umvelaphi

Xa umntu ehlambulula amazinyo aze ahlambulule umlomo wakhe, ukuthetha naye akunakuncedo, kuba akunakuziphendulela ukumphendula. Ibinzana ekuqwalaselweyo alikwazi ukubonisa ngokungathandabuzekiyo nawuphi na umthombo wemvelaphi yayo. Kucacile ukuba izalwe ngenxa yokubona komntu kunye nobomi bemihla ngemihla. Siyicinga ukuba akukho nawuphi na umfundi oza kuthetha ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuthetha ngamanzi emlonyeni wakho.

Ngenxa yoko, ukutolika, oko kukuthi, intsingiselo yegama elithi "ukufaka amanzi emlonyeni" -wa negama labantu abangabalulekanga. Emva koko sifuna imimiselo esele iqhuma ngamandla onke.

Umntwana okhubazekile

Umzekelo wesifundo. Le nkwenkwe yayinqatshelwe ukuthenga ithoyizi entsha, kwaye yayiyifunayo kakuhle, kwaze kwaba yinto enokuyikrakra, kwaye ke yaba yinto enyantisayo. Kodwa kuzuko lwenkwenkwe yethu, simele sithi wayengumntwana ozalwe kakuhle kwaye akazange aqalise ukuhlambalaza kwisitoreji, ukukhwaza ngezantsi ngokumemeza: "Ewe, uthenge!" Cha, akayikho. Le nkwenkwana yathula ngokuthula. Xa umama nendodana eshiya ivenkile, wambuza: "Yintoni uSasha, ufumene ntoni, wafumana njani emlonyeni wakho, kwenzekani na?" UAlexander akazange athethe nantoni na indlela eya endlwini. Yilokho okuza kubakho amandla. Yaye ityala lokungathembeki. Kukho imeko enye xa intsingiselo yegama elithi "ukufaka amanzi emlonyeni wakho" ivula phambi kwethu. Siya phambili.

Thandana

Thatha, umzekelo, iholide kubathandi. Uyazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni: usuku olubalulekileyo konyaka luya kufika, xa umfana nentombazana begubha isiganeko esilandelayo sobomi babo kunye. Akunandaba nokuba betshatile okanye hayi, ukuba betshatile, ngoko kusasa ngakumbi indoda.

Uninzi lwabasetyhini lufuna umntu ngalolu suku (kwaye ngokukhethekileyo - ngokubanzi) lwalubuhlungu kakhulu. Ngamanye amazwi, wabamba ubunzulu kakhulu amaphupha abo. I-Anniversary yithuba elona lihle lokuba imfihlelo eyona nto ifikeleleke.

Ngaphezu koko, imimiselo yomdlalo idinga ukuba indoda ibambe amaza okucinga ngowesifazane kwaye ifake iminqweno yakhe njengokuthi iphefumlelwe nguThixo. Kwabo abangaqondiyo, siya kuchaza: ukuba umfazi uxelela indoda yonke into, uya kubhala kuye iskripthi sobusuku, ngoko akuyi kukumangalisa, oko kuthetha ukuba i-buzz ayifani.

Jonga ukuxabana

Ngamafutshane, indoda icinga ukugubha umkhosi wokugubha inkumbulo ngendlela enye, ibhinqa - kwenye. Kwaye ngoku udibana naye emsebenzini kwaye uthi: "Hayi, namhlanje siya kwindawo yokutyela!" - kwaye uyavuya-onwabileyo.

Kodwa into yokuba wayefuna ukuyichitha le mini ekhaya, ukuze apheke ukudla kwakhe kwasemini, ngoko baza kuhlamba, bazalise ngama-rose petals. Iphupha elinjalo lophulo kwaye kunjalo. Le ntombazana ayifuni iindawo zokutyela, wayefuna into ehlelekile, epholile kwaye emangalisayo. Umfazi osemncinci wayethe cwaka njengoko aye e-yokutyela, edla ngaphandle kokutya, kwaye wayengabandakanyekanga kakhulu kwingxoxo kunye wakhe wakhethiweyo, kwaye kuphela kwindoda enzulu, emnyama, xa inyanga yakhanya ngefestile, wavuma kuye ukuba akafuni.

Oo, kwaye ukuba ngaba isibini sasihlangene esinye sezihlandlo ezibalulekileyo ebomini babo kunye, ukuphela kuya kuba kuhluke ngokupheleleyo, kwaye sasingaze safunda ukuba intsingiselo yegama elithi "ukufaka amanzi emlonyeni wakho" ngokukhawuleza ixhala.

Ubume begama

Nangona kunjalo ukuba phantse nawuphi na umntu unokukhawuleza ukuvelisa ububi, kunye nomsindo, kunye nokuhle, ngokufanayo, inqaku eliqwalaselwe ngqalelo alihloniphekanga. Ngokomzekelo, loo mfana wayengenakubuza intombazana ukuba kutheni athathe amanzi emlonyeni wakhe. Ngelo xesha, unina womntwana wayebuze ngale nto ngokukhululekile.

Ngaloo ndlela, nabani na ongashenxela emlonyeni wamanzi (i-phraseology), kodwa kungekhona wonke umntu onelungelo lokubuza ngokuthe ngqo ngalo. Ukususela kwimimandla ecacileyo ukuba kufuneka kubekho umgama othile kunye nolawulo oluphakathi kwabantu.

Ngokomzekelo, utitshala ovela kumfundi unokubuza ngamazwi akrakra: "Wathini na emlonyeni wamanzi, ngaba uphukisiwe?" Kakade, utitshala ontle akayi kwenza njalo, kodwa, ngokuqinisekileyo, oku kunokwenzeka. Ngokuchasene noko, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngumcebisi ombi kangakanani, akunakwenzeka ukuba sibe nomntu omncinane kwi-hierarchy evumela loo nto. Kwaye kubonakala ngathi, inkulumo ethi "amanzi emlonyeni uyayibhalela", intsingiselo yayo ilula, kodwa nakuyo unokufumana intsingiselo yentlalo, ukuba, ithabatha, ibonakale ilungileyo.

Indlela yokuziphatha

Ngokuqhelekileyo, kunzima ukuhlukanisa umyalezo wokuziphatha ngokubambisana kwamagama, kodwa ukuba uthembela kwintsimi kunye nokunyaniseka, ngoko sinokuthi abantu baseRussia abayithandi ngokunyanisekileyo. Unento enokukrokra, ebumnyama nangendawo kwabanye.

Nangona, ukuba sisengqondweni, ngokomoya kwimpucuko yasempuma, kwaye kungekhona entshonalanga, mhlawumbi isimo sengqondo siya kuhluke, asiyi kuthatha ukushicilela okubi. Sifanekisa ibinzana elithi "ukufaka amanzi emlonyeni wakho," isiphakamiso sanyulwa ngegama elibi. Emva kwakho konke, akukho masiko aseRussia ayiyi kuza engqondweni ekuhlalutheni intetho yokuthetha.

Kwaye mhlawumbi kungenye into - ukuba abantu abayithandanga xa kukho ukuhlambalaza phakathi kwabo, kwaye bazama ngokukhawuleza ukuyinqoba ngandlela-thile kwaye, ngokuthetha ngomfuziselo, bawaphule eli litye.

Ngenye indlela, kwaye akufanele ukhubekiso - ayivelanga. Ulwaphulaphulo luvutha ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu kwaye lidla umntu ngaphakathi.