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Intsapho njengeqela elincinci
Yintoni intsapho? I-Social Institute yezona ezine zikhulu. Kukuvumela ukuba uzalise rhoqo abantu. Lo ngowokuqala. Kwaye ngelo xesha, intsapho njengeqela elincinci isisele esomeleleyo nesomeleleyo yoluntu. Kulo lonke ubomi bakhe umntu unako ukutyelela amaqela amaninzi ngexesha elinye, abanye bayeke, abanye bahambe, babuyele. Kwaye kuphela intsapho ehlala yinto engazange ilahle. Ingcaciso elandelayo iyakwamkelwa ngokubanzi. Intsapho njengeqela elincinci lisekelwe emtshatweni, okanye ngohlobo lwegazi. Amalungu ayo axhunyiwe ngumbini ukuya kwii-2 ngosuku, uncedo oluhlangeneyo, uxanduva kummandla wokuziphatha kunye nomthetho komnye nomnye.
Ukongezelela, intsapho njengeqela elincinci linomsebenzi obalulekileyo njengokwazi ukubuyela kwisizukulwana esitsha. Ukususela kubhaliso lomthetho womtshato, luzalelwa, kwaye luphela emva kokubhaliswa ngokusemthethweni komtshato. Oku kubonisa ukuba intsapho njengeqela elincinci lentlalo liqukethe imijikelezo emininzi yobomi. Le ngxowa yeziganeko ezilandelelanayo ezibalulekayo, ukusuka kubhaliso lomtshato ukuya kutshatyalaliswa kwawo. Umzekelo wokugqamisa iinqanaba ezenza umjikelo wobomi, izazinzulu ziyiintsapho apho abafazi abazange baqhawule. Ukuba le nto yenzeke, kunzima ukwakha le sikimu.
Ukubhaliswa komtshato - oku kuluhlu lokuqala lweentsapho, okubizwa ngokuba ngumgangatho wokukhula. Kuhlala de kube ngumntwana wokugqibela azalwe.
Kwinqanaba lesibini, intsapho njengeqela elincinane lihlangabezana nokuzalwa komntwana wokugqibela. Iphelisa ngokutsha kwakhona komntwana wokuqala othe wanquma ukudala intsapho yakhe.
Ukutshatyalaliswa kwabantwana abakhulileyo kuyaqhubeka kwisigaba sesithathu. Ubude balo buxhomekeke kummahluko phakathi kweminyaka yobudala phakathi kwabantwana. Ubaba nomama baba ngeli xesha umkhulu nogogo, bahlala behlala kwimfundo yabazukulwana. Ubude besigaba sesithathu buxhomekeke kwilizwe apho intsapho ihlala khona. Iphela ngokuhamba kwabazukulu kwindlu yootatomkhulu.
Isigaba sesine sihlala kude kube ngumhla wokufa komnye wabafazi (okanye zombini). Ngeli xesha, indoda nomfazi baphinde bodwa, njengokuba ngexesha lomtshato.
Kwakhona, ngokusekelwe kwimiqathango ethile, iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeentsapho ziyahluka . Okokuqala, ziyingcali (zendalo), eziqulethwe ngezizukulwana eziliqela, kunye neokryukliya zanamhlanje, ezizizukulwana ezimbini.
Ngokombolo yabantwana abazalwa, baninzi, bengenamntwana, kunye nomntwana omnye.
Omnye ulwahlula intsapho yemvelaphi (umzali) kunye nokuzonwabisa, okudalwa ngabantwana abadala.
Ukuba umyeni wakhe uyamlawula, yintsapho yasaphosapho, ukuba umfazi ungumzali wesibini.
Ubunkokheli bendoda ebantwini benza uyise, umfazi ungumntwana. Ukuba intloko ithathwa njengababini bomtshato ngokulinganayo, ulingana.
Kule nqanaba lokuphuhliswa koluntu, intsapho yiseli yayo, leyo, njengomthetho, iqukethe abazali kunye nomntwana. Kubizwa ngokuba yenyukliya, kuba abazali kunye nabantwana babo yiyona nucleus ejongene nokuvela kwesizukulwana esitsha. Eli liziko leentsapho. Bonke abanye - ootata, oomalume, oogogo, oomkhulu-sele bekhona. Intsapho apho izizukulwana ezininzi zihlala ndawonye (ezintathu okanye ezine) kuthiwa zandiswa. Kwaye amasebe omalumekazikazi, abantakwabo abangekho basekhaya abangekho apha.
Iqela elidibeneyo lenziwe zizizukulwana ezimbini. Xa abantwana bekhula, bahlukana, bazenzela iintsapho zabo. Emva koko abantwana babo bakhula kwaye bahamba, kwaye oku kuyaqhubeka lonke ixesha. Ukuba abantu abaselula bahlala nabazali babo, intsapho eyongezelelweyo ifunyenwe. Kwiimeko zombini, iintlobo zeentlobo ezimbini ziyaziwa:
1) Iiprayimari (umzali);
2) Isekondari (esandula ukusekwa).
Intsapho yenyukliya ikhona kuphela kuluntu apho abantwana abadala banethuba lokuzinza ngokwahlukileyo.
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