Ingxabano

Impixano - isayensi ukuba ufunda iintlobo iingxabano, ubume babo, kunye neendlela zokuthintela kunye nokusonjululwa.

Kunokuthiwa ephikisana okanye ingxabano ziyinxalenye ebalulekileyo ebomini bethu. Ngamanye amaxesha bayakwazi ukuba ndimaphule deadlock ubudlelwane uyekile ukusebenza. Bona ekudambiseni sempi nokuba ukususa imiqobo yonxibelelwano.

Noko ke, inkoliso iingxabano zibe kwiingxabano enogonyamelo, utshabalalisa unxibelelwano, ingakumbi xa kufikwa ubuhlobo ukusebenza.

Cinga iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ziingxabano kunye neendlela ezenza ulawulo impixano kakhulu ngempumelelo.

iintlobo ezimbini ukungavumelani

Isiseko salo naliphina kubo yintswela phakathi neminqweno kumacala ahlukeneyo.

Ukuphikisana kuba ngaphakathi lokuqonda koluntu (ubukho usukelo esahlukileyo okanye iminqweno). Kule meko sithetha ngayo zongquzulwano intrapersonal.

Kwakhona ukuphikisana nga phakathi kwabantu okanye kuvela amaqela asekuhlaleni. Ke sithetha ungquzulwano lwentlalo.

ungquzulwano Intrapersonal ngamava esinzulu ngokwanelisayo ezimbi, esekelwe kubudlelwane ezingquzulanayo nehlabathi ngaphandle. Ngenxa yoko, abantu bafumana ubunzima kunye nesigqibo nje xa ukwimeko ukhetho esibuhlungu.

Nempixano intrapersonal iisayikholojisti, ukunceda umntu deal with amathandabuzo aze enze isigqibo esifanelekileyo.

ungquzulwano ntle kwi intliziyo ngezikhondo zamehlo ezinzulu okuthe kwavela phakathi kwabantu.

ulawulo lwempixano lwentlalo - sisakhono esibalulekileyo yinkokheli nayiphi na, ezinomsebenzi kukudala umoya ukusebenza kakuhle kweli qela.

Ukuphikisana kunokuba zombini okwethutyana lwelovane. Xa kuziwa iingxabano lweshishini ukuze nezikhubekiso kakhulu kwinkqubo yokusebenza.

Ngaphandle kokuba umkhaya uxabana ngamanye amaxesha ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuchonga izikhalazo ababeyiqwebile kunceda ukusombulula ingxabano, kokuvutha rhoqo ngokweemvakalelo phakathi amaqabane ingakukubetha ukupholisa wobudlelwane. A ukungqubana kwemihla rhoqo phakathi kwabazali nabantwana kuba nefuthe elibi kakhulu kuphuhliso lomntu lokugqibela.

Ngenxa yoko, ukukwazi ukulawula ungquzulwano kubaluleke gqitha kubomi bemihla ngemihla nasemsebenzini.

Iindlela ukungavumelani ukulawula

Ubume impikiswano ukunyuka kancinane uxinzelelo ngokweemvakalelo, ngexesha apho umntu ukhangela umntu ityala, ukuze amkhulule neemvakalelo ezingakhiyo.

Xa ombane ufikelela kwincopho kwenzeka flash ngokweemvakalelo, apho umntu uthatha iingxoxo kwabanye. Ukholelwa ukuba amalungelo abantu bonke yaye kukhubeka sikweni. ngeziqu Eminye iqala ukuncipha, yaye ngokuthe ngcembe nganye ezinga malungu abantu karhulumente.

ulawulo lwempixano kufuneka athathe ingqalelo awohluke yokuba kwazo.

Kukho iindlela ezintlanu iingxabano ekusombululeni, iyileyo ingasetyenziswa kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo.

1. Ukuphepha. Le ndlela isekelwe phezu iphelile. Umntu ngokomzimba amagqabi okanye incoko kwenye isihloko, ezama ukuphambukisa ingqalelo ukusuka kumdlali welinye icala kwisihloko buhlungu. Ayisafani ukuba elifanayo mxholo ungquzulwano ayikho kubaluleke kangaka, kwaye idini ngenxa ubudlelwane obuhle. Ngamanye amaxesha le ndlela kuphela ukunqanda umlo xa kukho ukuqhambuka kakhulu emphefumlweni kwelinye iqela.

2. Ukulungiswa apha naphaya. Le ndlela iquka ukwamkelwa lilonke okanye olungaphelelanga omnye amaqela wayebambene leyesibini Party. Ngamanye amaxesha umntu ngathi kuphela ukwamkela imiqathango ukufumana ikhefu. Le ndlela isebenza kuphela xa elinye iqela longamele olunye okanye unawo amandla afanayo. Umzekelo, ukuba kukho ungquzulwano phakathi owayamileyo kunye kunathi.

3. "Impi bullet wokugqibela." Esi sicwangciso ngenkankulu indlela ukusombulula ingxabano. Kunoko, le yindlela yokuziphatha ngquzulwano, xa impikiswano kakhulu kubalulekile ukuba macala omabini, yaye abanako ukwenza umnyinyiva. Kulo mzekelo, ulawulo impixano lwenziwa liqela lesithathu, okanye disputants bengavumelani, ukuhlala abaqinisekanga. Xa umtshato ngale ndlela yokuziphatha amaxesha etshabalalisayo kakhulu kwaye kunokukhokelela mtshato.

4. Compromise. Esi sicwangciso ibandakanya bavume. Ingasetyenziswa ukuba amaqela ungquzulwano kwikhompyutha ngokwasemoyeni kwaye bathi kuluvo lwabo. Enye yezona ndlela isebenzayo ukusombulula iingxabano.

5. Cooperation. Kulo mzekelo, omabini amacala kufuneka siqaphele ukuba abandakanyeka ebangela, kwaye sele ngokusekelwe oku, ukusombulula ukungaboni. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba bakwazi ukuhlalutya izizathu ngezenzo zabo. Zombini elinye iqela kufuneka uzame ukuqonda ngamnye siyekele ukuthatha icala njengoko utshaba. Kulo mzekelo, apho kuya kubakho ukuqonda ngokupheleleyo efanayo.

Ngoko ke, ulawulo impixano kubandakanya ukusetyenziswa kwenye yezi zicwangciso kuxhomekeka kwimeko ethile. Kwaye entsatsheni inkampani, nganye kwezi ndlela kunokukunceda ukuba boyise ungquzulwano ukubuyisela imvisiswano kubudlelwano babantu.