Figure My Perfect

Ngoko ke namhlanje siza kuthetha ongunaphakade esobukhomokazi isifundo - nani efanelekileyo.

Ndiyacinga, ngokuba niya kuba yokuvulwa into yokuba ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo imilinganiselo mzobo ezintle angamabhinqa eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo. Yenza uphando kwi imifanekiso Internet "figure ababhinqileyo" Renaissance amagcisa, iifoto imifuziselo 50-60s, imifuziselo Twiggy-hlobo, imodeli mihla Tara Lynn. Kwaye - kuphela ingcamango Euro-waseMelika ngokomzekeliso omhle. Kodwa kukho nezinye amazwe, amazwekazi - izizwe Asia, amaNdiya Bushman ...

Kwaye kusekho ngamnye lizwe-lizwekazi unibizele.

Ngapha koko, oko kusengqiqweni kuphela ukuba zonke inkcubeko, uhlanga, ubudala, umphakathi ukhetho lwabo. Ngaba kubi? Nawe, kufuneka ibe zomzimba wakho uphumelela.

Ndifuna ukunibuza umbuzo ongundoqo: "? Kwaye yintoni umzobo ngathi kuwe".

Apha, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, akayi kuqhubeka abanye sihlandlo. Ukuba yanamhlanje njengesiqhelo eqhelekileyo 90-60-90 nangoku ubunzima phezu kwakho, ungahambisa bucala ngenxa eziliqela iiyure.

Fumana impendulo yakho ngokwayo. Indlela yokwenza oko - ukubona umthambo practical.

Ngokunyanisekileyo, ukuba sele sonwabe ebomini xa lilonke, kwaye ukuba inani ukuba kufuneka ukuba wonwabe. Apha kusebenza imfihlelo eziphambili - yonke into esinayo - ilungele ubomi ukuba akhokele. Akucaci? Yenza kungabikho mpazamo. mzobo amavila kwaye akuthandeki kuvela ebomini bakho ngenxa yezizathu ezimbalwa:

- ufuna ukuba abonakale ngakumbi kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba anikele ingqalelo kuwe (umzekeliso efanayo "indoda elungileyo kufuneka ibe ningi"). Ayikwazi avume, kodwa awunalo ulwamkelo kunye nenkxaso kwabanye, awufuni ucinga igunya ngezangqa ezithile. Kwaye ayikabikho akwazi ukuphumeza indlela ngezinye iindlela. Ke umzimba kunceda wena - emzimbeni wakho kuba buqapheleke, ungasenako kubethwa ngoyaba.

- xa awufuni ukwenza izihloko zawo kakhulu nebalulekileyo ngokwenene entlokweni yakho umbuzo omnye kuphela: "yakhwela okanye hayi kule ilokhwe?" Ke ukuba anithanga nonke ngabanye yakhwela - yonke !!! Ubomi ukusilela, kwaye ngokucothayo yaye okubuhlungu lufikelele esiphelweni .... Yintoni umahluko kukuba inkunzi akuthethi ziphakishe ( "oku kuba kwemilo emabi, ubunzima bomzimba"), nto leyo ixesha elide akukho nto umdla kakhulu ( "tolstyachka ayifanelanga ukuba") ebomini, kukho intombi ethile wabaleka abashiywe ( "nabo isafobe!"), kunye nomama wakhe ixesha elide kwi imiphefumlo akalithethanga ( "bekuya nangoku ondle kum"), umsebenzi olungileyo ukufumana ( "oya kwale"). Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - "indlela ukuncipha?"

Ngaba ngokwenene ucinga ukuba zonke iingxaki zakho ngenxa abatyebe kunye nezinye olinganise? Kaloku, ukucinga ngaloo ndlela, umzimba uya kukunceda, oko akuyi kuba zayincedayo ukwehlisa umzimba - kufuneka ngokuba le ngxaki iphambili, ukulwa apho uya kuthwala ubomi bakhe bonke!

Le - sezizathu eziphambili kutheni kukho akayi ndawo kwaye utyebile. Kukho abanye abantu abafuna dig kuwe ngokobuqu.

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukuba isilinganiso zakho kunye nemiqulu cebisa inimba nokukhwankqiswa, simele siqonde hayi ejimini kwaye ekhitshini, emihle yonke - kwindawo yolwamkelo kwi ngengqondo. Ngapha koko, le ngxaki enzulu kakhulu. Uyakwazi izmochalit ngokwakho kwi obuqinileyo naabo ababathandayo, wafela izidlo ezininzi nobunzima kakhulu, kodwa ubunzima uza kubuya. Ukuba akukho utshintsho entloko. Kungenxa yoko le nto kuwo onke amaziko ekunciphiseni apholileyo ukuba ngokuyintloko wayebhekisela ngengqondo.

Noko ke, kukho omnye Ngaphezu ebalulekileyo.

ubunzima wakho kufuneka kubangela iingxaki ezisebenzayo kunye nezifo zomzimba.

Kufuneka ube ezinjalo ukuba ubomi bakho kwaba lula yaye ulungile. Kaloku, ayilolongezo entle ekusebenzeni esempilweni zonke iinkqubo kunye namaziko, ukuze izihlunu kwimali, amalunga zisempilweni, ulusu luya kwaye ilastiki, iinwele luyakhazimla kunye lalingqingqwa, iinzipho kunye namazinyo abazange kuyaphula yaye akafuni ziba ...

Kuzo zonke ke ndiza kukunika iingcebiso kwimihla ezayo, kodwa okwangoku ...

Yintoni onokuyenza ngoku?

Exercise ukusebenza ubunzima wakhe olinganise

Ukuphawula wena ixesha elithile. Hlala yabo eziqaphelekayo, inkcubeko, uluntu. Jonga imifanekiso kwiimagazini nakwi-Internet, mamela wena uze uphendule umbuzo - ungathanda ntoni mzobo ngokwenene? Zama ukuba ukuwutsala (ubuncinane ngokwalo) ephepheni.

Ngoku jonga wena esipilini. Indlela ezifanayo? Vala? Kulungile, ngoko ube ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi ngokuvisisana emzimbeni wakho. "Yaye ke olandelayo amanga?" Cingisisa - nguwe ngokwenene ngendlela phezulu nani, okanye namanje nefuthe fashion, okanye somnye izicwangciso?

Kwaye makhe sifunde ukuba njongo ngokwayo.

Thatha iphepha elikhulu lwephepha (neetshati isibini esifanelekileyo). Dibanisa kwi eludongeni wena uze uzobe umaki wakho ngal. Ngoko buyela kolu luhlu uze ucele umntu akuncede - real yakho itshayelwe ukumila komzimba aya isiphawuli ngombala owahlukileyo. Ngoku jonga indlela ehambelana neminqweno yakho malunga iifom amahle leyinene. Kaninzi siye sizinikele betyebile, ngaphezu thina ngalo kanye elo tyala.

Zama kwaye ubhale kum oko kwenzekayo.