Ingaba Kuyenzeka ukutshintsha i nomlinganiswa kunye nomgangatho umntu?

Ngamanye amaxesha siva esi sivakalisi silandelayo: ". Ndingenza ntoni, ukuba umlinganiswa enjalo" Abantu badla ngokungathembeki, wonqena passive zithande ukuba babhale off iimpazamo zabo "umlinganiswa, obehamba kwasekuzalweni." Kodwa thina ukuyenza loo nto? Yintoni ubuntu? Ndingawutshintsha na ke ukwenza ubomi babo (okanye ubomi kwabanye) yomgangatho ongcono?

Uhlobo womntu - yinto iseti iipropati ezizinzileyo ngokwentelekiso psyche, ukuchaza ubuntu svoeobychie, ukuziphatha kwalo kunye nobudlelwane kunye nehlabathi ngaphandle. Oku kugqiba umlinganiswa mfanekiso nendlela yobomi, ukuziphatha, zengqondo.

Xa intliziyo yendalo iimpawu zobuqu. Ke ngoko ukuchonga amaqela ezine eziphambili eyenza umlinganiswa.

Iqela lokuqala luquka ezifana iimpawu zomntu njengoko sengqondo malunga yoluntu, abantu emhlabeni. Ingcamango collectivism, entsha exabisekileyo, novakalelo-novelwano, zizwana, ikheswa hayi ngokuba nje iimpawu umntu othile, kodwa ikakhulu ukuqinisekisa isimo sengqondo nesangeenxa zonke kuye.

Iimpawu adityaniswa yesibini ebonisa ubudlelwane phakathi umntu (umntu) iqela ukusebenza. Bathi abanxaxhayo, ukusebenza nzima, a Ukuthanda umsebenzi wesiqhelo okanye umsebenzi wokudala, inyathelo okanye passivity, uxanduva kunye ingqibelelo.

Iqela lesithathu leengcaphephe oluntu umgangatho zidibene ebonisa indlela ubhekisela ngokwayo. Ezi ziquka ukuzithemba, ikratshi, ukuzeyisa ugxekwa, ukuthobeka kunye izichasi zabo: ngokugqithiseleyo, uburheletyo, nokuzeyisa bodwa kwaye nokuzingca, ukuba neentloni.

Ekugqibeleni, last kodwa okungakuncinananga, iqela elibalulekileyo zefilosofi kunye kwengqondo oludibanisa iimpawu okuluphawu ubuhlobo yomntu iimpahla eziphathekayo kunye nezinto. Slovenliness kunye nokuchaneka, yokungakhathali kunye Need kuba nempembelelo enkulu ubomi babantu.

Ukusuka kule KABLOOM kunokuthi kubonwe ukuba umgangatho naluphi na uhlobo inokuguqulwa. Kodwa kuphela elinye elikhethwe njenge ayinakwenzeka; bonke bephela zihlobene. Umzekelo, awukwazi balahle mendacity bakhe ubukrwada, ngoyaba sengqondo kwabanye, belungavuleki kwi egocentrism yakhe.

uhlobo Human inokuba ebalulekileyo-gingxi okanye gusty futhi impikiswano. Ezi iimpawu zabantu. Kodwa ukutshintsha uhlobo kunokwenzeka umsebenzi yenkqubo kuwe.

Ukuze kucacisa uhlobo umntu, enze impendulo yakhe, iingcali zefilosofi ekwabelwana yokuziphatha iimpawu umntu ngokwamaqela eziliqela.

iimpawu emihle:

• Nobuntu, ubuntu - ukuhlonitshwa kwamalungelo oluntu, isidima, ngokunxulumene nawuphi na umntu njengoko inani eliphezulu.
• Ukuhlonipha, isazela, ububele, kunye nezinye yeendima zentlalo ezinxulumene novavanyo ezintle zobuntu.
• Ubulungisa - umlinganiselo amalungelo kunye nemisebenzi, ihambo kunye nembuyekezo.

ezimbi zokuziphatha:

• Swagger, sokugxeka, ukweyisa - ukutyunjwa kwindawo yokuqala iimpawu zabo, isimo ubajongela phantsi kwabanye.
• Parasitism - umnqweno kuhlala ngeendleko abanye.
• Okanye ukungabi - ukwalela ukukhula ngokomoya yaye enkcubeko, meaningfulness kobukho bomntu, i-non-obonakalayo nawuphi na igunya okanye imigaqo.

iimpawu ekuhlaleni luncedo yokuziphatha:

• Will, ukuzimisela - ukukwazi ukwenza izigqibo, isenzo, walathise iingcinga zenu, izenzo, namabhongo.
• Wisdom - ukukwazi ukuvavanya umgangatho wabo, ukubalisa ukuba bafumane amava kunye nolwazi.
• Iinkolelo, ubuzwe - ukuzimisela ukubheka iimfuno lokhokho kufuneka, ukulungela zizinikele ngenxa iLizwe loobawo.

Ezi kunye nezinye iimpawu somntu kwaye zimisela umlinganiswa. Ukusebenza kwi umntu bakwazi ukuhlakulela umlinganiswa yabo.