Indlela ukufumana umsebenzi kumntu wonke.

Ubusazi na ukuba i-80 ekhulwini labantu kwilizwe lethu oye wavuma kuye ukuba azisebenzi nge ubizo? Ewe, le meko ngokwenene nomphefumlo-uthatha. Esengumntwana, sonke dream ukuba umntu, ukwakha amathemba eqaqambileyo abantwana bethu, amaxesha amaninzi ukutshintsha umsebenzi elizayo ngokwasengqondweni. Emva koko kufike ixesha ungakhathaliyo esikolweni. Kanye kwaye uyazi ukuba yintoni ekufuneka ukufunda, kodwa oko akucaci kakhulu. Kufutshane kwiiklasi zabafundi abadala baye baqonda ukuba impendulo yombuzo "Indlela ukufumana umsebenzi olungileyo?" Kuxhomekeke ukukhetha eyunivesithi ukuqhuba izifundo. umsebenzi wakho elizayo kuya kuchaphazela ubomi bakho bonke. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuba uyazibuza ukuba indlela yokukhangela umsebenzi ngokokuthanda kwakhe, zama ukuqonda ukuba kukho kuwo umphefumlo ngokwayo lwenzeka.

Kukangaphi na ukuva: "Oko kuya kufuneka ukwazi indlela yokwenza imali elungileyo, kodwa ukufumana uyolo kwinkqubo." Awu, kwiimeko ezininzi ayisebenzi. Izigidi zabantu ehlabathini lonke yonke imihla ukuya kwi inkonzo ndithiyiwe, sandivusa njengomntu agwetywe eKalvari, kodwa akazange afune ukutshintsha. Okunye ngqo ufuna, kwangaxeshanye bebangisana iminyaka kwezinye iindawo ubonakala ngokwabo nendlela ukufumana umsebenzi kumntu wonke. Yaye phi yonke le kwiingcamango smart, xa uthe wakhetha ziko kunye ngumpheki?

Ngoko ke, ukunceda abafundi eliphezulu isikolo ukuba senze ukhetho oluchanekileyo kwaye ukuqonda iitalente zabo kunye nezakhono ngaphakathi? Kakade ke, kukho abafundi ngubani na onokumxelela ngokucacileyo, yintoni ukwenza ntoni ebomini baye ephupha ngale ukususela ebuntwaneni ndiziva ubizo lokwenyaniso. Kodwa ke, ngelishwa, iyunithi onjalo.

Kuqala kwinto zonke, wena unako kufuna iingcebiso ezivela kutitshala. Nawuphi na umfundi na utitshala, abanemibono uyayiphulaphula kwaye uyawondla imbeko. Kodwa ke icebiso ezinjalo ukuphulaphula kuphela mawuxelwe kwimiphetho osezingqondweni, uze emva koko ukuze aqhubeke nezifundo zakhe.

Okwangoku, kukho inani elikhulu abasebenzi abanako ukunceda xa ukhetha umsebenzi. Kufuneka uqhagamshelane kwengqondo, umphathi abasebenzi kunye namashishini nomqeqeshi. Baya kufunda iimpawu zobuntu bakho kwaye umalathe ukuba kumgca efanelekileyo amanyathelo. Kukho ezinye imisebenzi efuna iseti ethile kuphela ubuntu, kunye nokunqongophala kwabo kule kwiminyaka embalwa abasebenza kwindawo engalunganga uya kukhokelela ngesihelegu engqondweni.

Cinga ukufumana umsebenzi onjengawe, unako kwakhona ujonge iinkqubo ezikhethekileyo uvavanyo ngayo. Kodwa ke akukho mfuneko ukuba usebenzise zonke iintlobo iimagazini, iincwadi kunye namanqaku ngokwabo. Kungcono ukuba sifune uncedo abantu baqonde ukuba ngubani lo kwaye bakwazi ukutolika ngokuchanekileyo iziphumo.

ngovuyo Abanye abafundi baphulaphula iimbono abazali, abasoloko olungele ukufumana umsebenzi kumntu wonke. Kulo mzekelo asifanele, silibale ukuba ukuze kuhlala njongo. Ngamaxesha amaninzi abanye abazali, ngaphandle kokubonakala oko, abantwana ukubeka amaphupha abo kuzaliseka kunye neminqweno. Kuyenzeka ukuba unina, abalangazelela kuba ngumdanisi edumileyo ehlabathini, kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile kumqhubi ibhasi isebenza, unqwenela ukuthumela intombi yakhe esikolweni ballet, nangona yena eneneni kakuhle kakuhle zenzululwazi ngqo. Iindaba ezimbi kukuba maxa wambi abantwana abakwazi ukumelana ngokwaneleyo kwaye yiya kwi malunga iminqweno yabazali. Akukho nto iya kuza kwalo, njengokuba umthetho, ayisebenzi. Ngoko ke, amacebiso abantu abasondeleyo kufuneka aphathwe ngokuqaphela.

Nokuba kuyenzeka ukuba nina nizinyulele uvumo engalunganga, xa anifumananga nto, ukufunda kwi zeli ziko, okanye kakhulu kamva musani ukoyika utshintsho, hayi. Yinto kusefashonini ezinye ngemfundo yeekholeji, kwengqondo ukucebisa ukutshintsha nqanaba komsebenzi kweminyaka esixhenxe. Ngoko ke, akukho mda bafezeke.

Ukuba unesifo lokuba ngomso ukuya emsebenzini, ngoko ke nje akuthethi zikufanele. Nceda sizimisele ukuqalisa ukwenza. Awunako ukucinga oko uvuyo yokuziphilisa into ayithandayo!