Cazelo of phupha. Yintoni amaphupho abazali abafileyo?

izazinzulu Uphando evela California Association of International Studies amaphupha lubonise ukuba malunga ne-60% amadoda nama-45% yabasetyhini kunye njalo umona waphupha ezi okanye nezinye izihlobo oswelekileyo, ngokukodwa, abazali abangasekhoyo. Yintoni amaphupho abafileyo ngabazali? Baya kuza kuthi amaphupha ukwenzela ukuthintela ingozi okanye ukubiza ngokwakho? Siza kuzama ukuphendula ngokweenkcukacha ngoku kule miba, ngokusekelwe izimvo zabantu ezahlukeneyo.

Kutheni baphupha abafileyo ngabazali? UKelli Balkeli

UMongameli we-International Association for the Study of Dreams UKelli Balkeli uthi ukuba izifundo ezi amaphupha kuyafana. Umzekelo, abantu badla babone xa zibhabhela kwi-moya okanye ukhwele uloliwe nabazali bakhe umfi. Emva koko, yonke into ukuphuhlisa meko omnye: lo mphuphi isuka uloliwe okanye inqwelo-moya, yaye inyaniso abafileyo umntu iyaqhubeka ukuhamba ngaphandle kwawo. Bulkeley wathi kwisiqwenga ephupheni konke ayibalulekanga, ngokuba bonke bephela - uphawu ubavuselele ngaphezulu. Umzekelo, ukuba uyise okanye unina waphupha bachwayita sonwabe, kwaye eneneni phakathi umntu ukulala kunye nezalamane zakhe ophilileyo kuba konke kulungile zonakala.

Ngokutsho bengqondo

iisayikholojisti Modern ukunika ingcaciso eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo yintoni amaphupha abazali abafileyo "nantoni na!". Wena weva ekunene. Izazinzulu benza uphando lokuqonda koluntu, ukubaqononondisa lo mkhuba iyunithi le engqondo nawenkumbulo, kodwa akukho ngaphezulu. Abantu abaninzi emva yokulahlekelwa nezalamane ixesha elide akakwazi nazigqibo ukuwa kwabo. Bahlale sikhathazeke ngayo. Umsebenzi engqondo nawenkumbulo kuqhutyekwe amava kunye iinkumbulo, kwaye iqhubeka ngexesha ngamaphupha. Kwaba ngelo xesha zikhoyo ezo zehlo ezayo leyinene kanye engqondweni. Ngenxa yoko - iingcinga rhoqo malunga abafileyo, kodwa ephupheni.

Kutheni abazali abafileyo ephupheni? incazelo Abantu

Kutheni baphupha umzali oswelekileyo? Abantu bathi loo maphupha wathembisa utshintsho olukhulu kwimozulu. Apha uyakwazi kuqwalaselwa nemiqondiso yesizwe: eze uyise obhubhileyo kunye nonina - usinda imvula. Kakade ke, asimele sikholelwe kuyo. Kusengqiqweni ukukholelwa ukuba oku kwenzeka nje. Nasiphi na emozulu iplanethi yethu - luyinto kwaye kuxhomekeke imikhosi omxhuzulane kwendawo yonke. amaxhwele zithi ukuba umama kamfi, abeza ephupheni umntwana wakhe, athwala isilumkiso ukusuka ikhomishini ngezenzo ezahlukahlukeneyo yokugula-ingqalelo. Amaxesha amaninzi, lithembisa izinto ezintsha.

Abefundisi bathi abazali abangasekhoyo, abeza ngamaphupha abantwana babo, ndiyabazisa iindaba evela emazulwini. Abefundisi nobaba ongcwele bakholelwa ukuba abazali ngendlela ethe ngqo enjalo ukucela abantwana babo ukuba ukukhumbula kuzo ngokubeka isibane ebandleni lwabafileyo.

Kutheni ange aphuphe abazali abafileyo ubomi? Kangangeenkulungwane kukho abantu kukukholelwa ukuba - umyalezo ovela kwelinye ehlabathini. Kukholelwa ukuba lokwenyaniso ukufa babo emva kuyo ukunxibelelana nehlabathi lethu kangangeentsuku ezingama-40. Kwangaxeshanye, umphefumlo wakhe uya kufumana akukho bebeba, lo gama ophilileyo lingenako ukuhlangabezana nasiphi na isicelo lokudla kwakhe ubomi. Yamaxhwele Siyaleza ukumamela amaphupha ezinjalo.

Amaphupha abazali kwabafileyo. Dream Ukutolikwa Tsvetkov

Interpreter amaphupha Evgeny Tsvetkov inika ingcaciso kancinci. Xa uphupha lokuphila abazali kwabafileyo, kufuneka uzame ukukhumbula kangangoko kunokwenzeka iindawo ezahlukeneyo yaye yonke into awayibonayo. Ngokomzekelo, abazali, waphupha kwindawo efudumeleyo, amele kakuhle ukuba ebomini labucala kunye nozinzo emsebenzini. Ngenxa yoko, ukuba unina okanye uyise oswelekileyo yabonakala ephupheni bethukwa nezisongelo, kucacile angakholiswa yabo ehlabathini. Kuyabonakala ke, musa kukholiswa ezinye ishishini lakho. Thetha nabo ephupheni - uncedo lokwenene ngokwenyani.

Oko sithi Wang?

I edumileyo umprofetikazi Vanga uphendula lo mbuzo: "Yintoni amaphupho abazali abafileyo?" - Nge imfihlakalo yakhe nemidlalo yeqonga. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu waba nguyise sele wabhubha, ngoko ke kufuneka ukuba uzigqale. Mhlawumbi ukuzisola lo mphuphi ukuba ukuvuka. Ukumelana nabo kuya kukunceda ukuba baguquke. Wang icebisa izono, balahle iimvakalelo ezingakhiyo, "liqwenga" elele ngaphakathi.

uyise ongasekhoyo nga Ndinephupha, yaye kwimeko ukuthingaza Bathi mphuphi emva ngaashi, uphambuke phindo lweempazamo. Uyise onephupha kuza ukuphembelela unyana wakhe kukungakhathali. Ukuba intombazana iye waphupha unina ezigugileyo, inyaniso uyeza inkohliso ukudla ngakwicala nesithandwa sakhe. Umama ngokungathi ulumkisa intombi yakhe ukuba eneneni lijikeleza umntu kwakhe ukuwathetha awona kwaye ndini ofumana naluphi uncedo evela intsebenziswano. Wang licebisa ngamandla ukuphulaphula icebiso umama umfi kunye noyise, kuba abazali soze kucebisa abantwana bam abaziintsizana!

Kutheni iphupha abazali kwabafileyo. dream Miller

wengqondo American UGustav Miller uyavumelana amaphupha izalamane kwabafileyo kufutshane ibe ngamaqela amabini:

• amaphupha, wabona xa abazali besaphila;
• amaphupha, emveni kokufa yawo.

Okubangel 'umdla kukuba, kuzo zombini iimeko, Miller akaboni nto iphosakeleyo ngaloo nto. Ngaphezu koko, wafa ebuthongweni bakhe, kodwa ngokwenyani abazali baphile - ngumqondiso elide elizayo. Lo ngumboniso Gustava Millera.

Esoteric Book Dream: Abazali abafileyo

Ngelishwa, le iitoliki incwadi iphupha asiphoxe. Inyaniso kukuba loo maphupha, ngenxa yazo, kuzisa kuphela iingxaki imbandezelo kunye nezempilo. Amaxesha amaninzi aphuphe abazali abafileyo kubalulekile kwixesha kozinzo kunye nomntu professional hexa. Yaba ngeli xesha, abantu abaninzi besemngciphekweni ukusilela kunye neengxaki.

Ngokomzekelo, unina waba iphupha ukuthembisa izifo kunye izifo ezahlukeneyo. Kodwa ke iya kuba kuphela xa iqala ukuthetha nawe. Xa kungekho tyala akakwazi ukuya emva kwakhe ukuba uza kubiza kuwe! Kungenjalo, kusenokuba uyagula, ukuba ingozi, njalo-njalo. D.