Zindlela ezingaphi iinyanga abasafunda ukuhamba kunye nendlela onokubanceda ngayo umntwana wabo uthabathe amanyathelo kuqala?

amanyathelo ezimeleyo abazali itakane kuqala, njengokuba umthetho, nilindele kunye namonde olukhulu. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba abantwana bayazi sele gingqi nzima ngeenxa zonke endlwini, kukho umbuzo ubhalo: "Kuba zingaphi iinyanga abasafunda ukuhamba kwaye ukuba usana lwam na barhuqe emva kuphuhliso?"

Oku kwenzeka eneminyaka malunga omnye nonyaka. Noko ke, asimele silibale ukuba yonke kid eyahlukileyo. Umntu uvuka kusasa imilenze ngawo ngenyanga yeshumi yobomi kakhulu ukuhamba eqhelekileyo, kwaye umntu uzama ukwenza oko kwixesha lokuqala unyaka neenyanga ezimbini okanye ezintathu. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba akukho impendulo enye ukuya umbuzo othi, abantwana baqala zingaphi iinyanga ukuhamba, ayikho.

Ukuba umntwana wakho zange aye konyaka okanye emibini, asimele kwangoko aphakuzele. Abanye abantwana ngokwemvelo ezolileyo ngakumbi, becinga ihlabathi ngokokuthanda kwabo ngoxa ehleli, kodwa ngokwemiqathango intshukumo zako nje gaqa. Abanye abantu, emva kokuphulaphula izalamane nabahlobo, ucinga ngathi kid akafuni ukuhamba, ukufunda uya kuthetha akathandi olukhulu. Noko ke, oku akunjalo - kukho abantwana abeza ukudibana kunye nabazali intetho yi iinyanga 11-12 kwaye uqale ukuhamba emva konyaka. Xa ilizwi, apha sonke ngabanye, kodwa ngenxa yabo bonke bahlole indlela efanayo nje akunakwenzeka. bezifo Jikelele lonke ihlabathi phezu umbuzo, abantwana baqala zingaphi iinyanga ukuhamba, ukubiza amanani ususela kwisi-9 ukuya kwi-15.

Indlela yokunceda umntwana wakho uqale ukuhamba? Okokuqala samyeka ukuba olu isakhono ebalulekileyo. Akukho mfuneko zamothusa, ndileqeka kwiimvuthuluka lonke ixesha, kamsinya nje uyawa. Umntwana kufuneka afunde ukuze soyise nobunzima ukuba ukwenyuka emva kokuwa, bakhwela phezu eliphantsi.

Igumbi lingamiselwa izixhaso, ephethe ukuba umntwana uza kuba lula ukuhamba (umz izitulo). Ngcembe kwandisa umgama kufuneka ibe phakathi kwabo. Kuba isivuseleli, ungahlela yakho kwiimvuthuluka yokudlala oyithandayo kwi iindawo apho kuya kufuneka ukuba bahlukane kude inkxaso ukuze nabo. Unakho ukuthenga esinamavili ekhethekileyo okanye imoto tolokar-: uyibambile umva, umntwana wakho uya kuba nako yahlaba yokudlala kwaye ushukume. Kodwa i walker kufuneka kushiywa: zibe nzima ukuhamba inkqubo yokufunda.

Uyakwazi ukwenza yokuthanjiswa ukuze umntwana waqalisa ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza. Indlela yokwenza umyalezo, unako xelela wabantwana bakho.

Noko ke, ukuba kukho umbuzo: "Yintoni ntoni - umntwana akabi ukuhamba, kwaye wayesele iminyaka 1.5?", Okanye umntwana, waqalisa ukwenza lilinge lokuqala ukuvavanya ihlabathi, ihamba phezu imilenze, ngesiquphe wabashiya - oku sisizathu qiniseka ukuba uqale ukuxhalaba. Waba yintoni elidityaniswe kuyo?

• ukungabikho kwindawo eyayiza kuba kwabeka usana ukuba ngokuzimeleyo ngoncedo beenyawo;
• nezingafezekanga;
• neemvakalelo ezingakhiyo ukuba usana xa kuqala wazama ukuya;
• sebenzisa iindidi ngeendidi zokuhamba (leentsana ngaba niqhawula asetyenziswa ukuya ukuba kukho inkxaso ethile, Akaboni imfuneko yokuyenza ngokwakho);
• lihleli kwindawo limited (umzekelo, kumabala emiboniso);
• yofuzo.

Kuyo nayiphi na yezi meko, isisombululo enengqondo yaye kusengqiqweni ukuba bafune uncedo leengcali abaya kunceda ufumane engcanjini ingxaki nokusombulula ngayo.

Ke kaloku, ukuba uyazi, abantwana baqala zingaphi iinyanga ukuhamba, kwaye ukunceda usana lwakho ngokukhawuleza ukwenza amanyathelo yabo yokuqala kweli hlabathi omkhulu!