Le ndoda - a ngokwasentlalweni. Awasebenzisa ukuhlala kuluntu angakhululeki kwaye uba wedwa. Xa iiyunithi uthambekele ukuzila, nangona wonke umntu kufuneka isithuba sabo kwaye hayi ukuba ahlasele kuyo amazwe. Kodwa ke ukuhlala kuluntu kwaye ukhululekile kuwo akunakwenzeka. Ngenxa yokuba sonke idityaniswe imisonto ezingabonakaliyo esicacileyo kunye nabanye abantu abaninzi: nezalamane, abahlobo, esibaqhelileyo, oogxa, yaye kwanabo Alibonileyo amehlo ngempazamo itshixiwe esitratweni okanye zezithuthi zikawonke.
Basics emphakathini wabantu
Malunga nendlela yokwakha ubudlelwane nabantu, kubhaliwe kwathiwa eninzi isikhokelo. Kwaye sonke siyazi iMithetho-10, yaye yintoni kwabanye kufuneka ziphathwe ngendlela esifuna ukuba thina. Noko ke, ukuthetha ngothando kunye nokunyamezelana njengoko migaqo ibalulekileyo ulwalamano oluhle kunye kakhulu ngokomoya, silibale ngayo omnye njengoko kungekho ebalulekileyo ngaphantsi nakwimigangatho ebalulekileyo. Luxanduva - phambi umntu nento. Kodwa kusekelwe kulo lonke: usapho, umsebenzi, ubomi, umsebenzi. Kwaye hayi kuphela ngamnye kodwa kwi sabantu. Kutheth 'ukuthini ukuba ngumntu onoxanduva? Zama kukhanyisa umba kwiikona ezahlukeneyo.
Ukusuka kokulula ukuya koko kuntsonkothileyo
Okokuqala, mhlawumbi, ukuba ukuba kunyanzelekile. Khumbula kwintshayelelo ngayo: "! Akuba banikwa ilizwi - azigcine" Ngoko ke, hlalani izithembiso, onoxanduva amazwi akhe, ukuba batshatise, Musani ukukulahla emoyeni - loo nto ithetha ntoni ukuba umntu onoxanduva. Kwaye kumayelana ezinkulu nezincinane! Ngeembopheleleko kufuneka bafundiswe esemncinane. Umzekelo ubalaseleyo oko kuthetha ntoni ukuba umntu onoxanduva: unina intombi yakhe ukuba bashiye, yena wathembisa ukuyenza, kodwa waqala ukudlala, ndilibele. Ngokuhlwa, betyelela bengalindelwanga, yaye igumbi ngumbhodamo. Ngubani owayeza neentloni? Oko kulungile, mama. Ke saa, nentombi, yakhe, ngubani na wabadlali umdlalo izithembiso. Kwaye ukuba abantu abadala ubambe emva kweso siganeko umntwana intetho emfundo kuya kukunceda ukuba uqonde yayikukuba yena wabeka zonke bekwimeko ebangela iintloni - intombi isifundo kulo kuthetha ntoni ukuba umntu onoxanduva, emazifunwe kwakanye bonke.
Isazela nokuziphendulela
Ukunyanzeleka kufuneka nje ukuba agonye abantwana kwiintsapho apho kukho abantwana eziliqela okanye abe abagulayo, izalamane ukuzenzela nto. Ukuzifudumeza nikhonze iti gogo, fumana iiglasi kwabatshabalalayo, thatha umzalwana ukusuka egadini okanye luphe ludle isidlo, khangela ukuba izifundo oodade - izinto ezifanayo abazali babeke kakuhle abaneminyaka engama-10-11-zabo.
Umntwana ngokukhawuleza liyayiqonda into yokuba kuthetha ukuba umntu onoxanduva, ukuba uya kuxhomekeka into ebaluleke ngokwenene kuye. Kulo mzekelo, nangona kunjalo, eqondakalayo close kuya kuba ludidi yokuziphatha efana isazela kuye. Ke ukuba elivisayo uzama ixesha ukuba aphume esikolweni kuba abazali zarugayut, kodwa ngenxa yokuba indlu yakhe ulinde umakhulu wam, ngubani yena akazange aphume efrijini ukutya, okanye inja, ufuna nokuhamba - ngoko ke akusekho mfuneko yokuba ukuchaza ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuba umntu uxanduva ophezulu. Kwaye emva koko, njengomntu omdala, akoyiki ukuze athwale elugcinweni izalamane okanye abasemzini. Kwaye ukuba baphile ecaleni kuya kuba oluthembekileyo.
Tale - amanga?
I "Little Prince" Antuana Ekzyuperi libinzana elisuke elide kakuhle ezinamaphiko, "Thina banoxanduva abo mbuna." Inxulumene ngqo ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuba noxanduva ukuqonda kwethu. Exupery hero washiya umhlaba, waya kuba ucatshukiswe Rose - intyatyambo entle, kodwa sibalise kunye noko amnye ebantwini ngokungaqhelekanga. Prince wayecinga ukuba Rose - abanxaxhileyo lokuzingca, akuthethi uyiqonde into yakhe nengqalelo, zixakekile kuphela. Akazange ukuqonda inyaniso elula: Xa ufuna - oku ntsako lowukulu. Wavula amehlo akhe zonke hero izilumko Fox. Wachaza ukuba kwihlabathi, nangona abaninzi wabona iNkosana rose, kodwa olukhula kwiplanethi yakhe - nangoku ezizodwa. Ngenxa ozithandayo nje kuphela. Kwaye nabo basengozini, zizinikele, ubunzima ngokuphazamisa. Kwaye yakho oyithandayo usoloko wabuya. Ngapha koko, wena bazithambisa bona - nawe. Kwaye Prince undizela ekhayeni lakhe, ngokuba akukho sikulinde waphakama, bube nje, ukuba akukho namnye ukuze anyamekele wakhe! Yiyo loo nto kufuneka ube ngumntu onoxanduva: omthembayo, undilalanise awukwazi omthembileyo, unalo ilungelo. Kodwa sobulumko encinane yolingo sampha yasebukhosini ngokwenene. Ucebisa ngamaxesha ubulolo kunye ndilangazelela badla khangela phezulu esibhakabhakeni, khumbula: apho, phakathi inani olungenasiphelo leenkwenkwezi kukhanya, kukho enye - loo planethi Little Prince. Kwaye nge isikhulu naye, naye, ekhangele esibhakabhakeni, ekhangela uthuli igolide phakathi Umhlaba, ecinga wakhe umhlobo-pilot. Kwaye impungutye. Kwaye xa usazi ukuba kwenye intliziyo ukuba uyakuthanda - uyeke ukuba ulilolo!
Nantsi indlela uyahambelana uxanduva, nesazela, ukhathalelo kunye nothando, benza ikhowudi yokuziphatha yomntu ngamnye.