Yezingxoxo. Njani ndingayiphucula?

Ubugcisa yenkqubo thethwano kukhokelela ukuphumelela kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zezinto ezenziwa luluntu. Imigaqo thethwano zoshishino siqinisekiso kwimpumelelo yoshishino.

uthetha-thethwano lobuchule kufuna ukuphunyezwa engqinelanayo la manyathelo alandelayo:

a) lamiswa ukuqhagamshelana abaxazululi;

b) lichazwa 'imithetho yomdlalo ";

c) indawo eliqikelelwayo iqabane;

d) asaphuhlayo enye meko pre-yenzelwe;

d) ikhutshwa phandle "kwifandesi", wabeka minyinyiva;

e) uthetha-thethwano isisombululo esamkelekileyo esihlanganyelweyo.

Iindlela beqhuba thethwano zoshishino ejoliswe ukuvelisa iziphumo kuba eyamkelekileyo onke amaqela. thethwano abanjalo kubizwa ngokuba umgaqo kunye noyilo.

Ngenxa yoko, indlela isisombululo wophendlo jikelele ebangela uthelekiso iimbono-nxaxheba kwi-thethwano kunye izithakazelo, ukwabiwa kwindawo isisombululo iyonke.

Le ndlela inika kwizibhambathiso amahlulelana ukwenza umnyinyiva kwimeko umahluko unresolvable.

Indlela ingxaki ngokwahlukana iya kunceda ukusombulula ingxaki xa uwonke kwaye ngokuyinxenye. Kulo mzekelo, kufikelelwe kwisivumelwano eminye imiba, amacandelo ingxaki.

Uthethathethwano kufuneka zijolise wokufikelela kwisivumelwano. Noko ke, impumelelo Akusoloko kulula. Ubuchule thethana unxibelelwano kubandakanya ukusetyenziswa amaqhinga ezahlukeneyo ukuphendula izenzo kunye neengxelo le interlocutor. Ukukwazi alungise indlela yokuziphatha kwabo ukuziphatha iqabane - kukukwazi ukuqikelela kunokwenzeka 'ukuba ... emva koko ... "kwinkqubo yonxibelelwano.

imizekelo:

Ukuba ngenkani ngokugqithisileyo, ngoko ndiya kumnika ukuba baqonde ukuba iimeko ezinjalo zithi zixoxwe.

Ukuba they sukela nge xesha, ndiya ndicacisa oko nga kwamkela nokunikelwa kusuka namanye amaqabane.

Ukuba unike izibakala ezingaziwayo kum, iingxoxo, ngoko ndicela qondile umthombo, funda yokuqala.

Ukuba babangela amagama ezingaziwayo, cela ukuba uchaze ngokucacileyo intsingiselo yazo.

Ukuba kukho uphazamiseko, uya libongoze ukugqiba intetho yakhe.

uthetha-thethwano olusebenzayo kuxhomekeke ekubeni ngubani othatha inxaxheba kwiingxoxo: ummeli omnye okanye iqela. Yaye eneneni, kuzo zombini ezi meko zikhona iingenelo. Xa uxanduva thethwano kuphela na umntu, le wocingo akakwazi buthathaka sikhundla ngenxa ukungaboni ngasonye phakathi kwiqela. Nangona kunjalo, eli qela, eliquka abaziingcali kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo, kuya kuba ngaphezu inkcaso ekrakra xa kuyimfuneko. Enoba kwenzeka ntoni na, xa kanye ekuqaleni thethwano igunya iqela ngalinye kufuneka angenise ifomu ebhaliweyo.

thethwano Business - kukuthi, ngaphezu kwabo bonke, sothethathethano ngokulinganayo. Ngoko ke, ithetha ukuba i ngumnqweno kakhulu ukunyanzela iqabane ukuxoxa kuphela kwizikhundla zabo kwaye umamele kuphela uluvo lwakho.

Yezingxoxo lubandakanya kokurhoxa evela ubudlelwane (azithandayo, nongazithandiyo) kunye sostredotochenie kwimiba ishishini kuphela.

Ezinye iinkcukacha bakwazi ukuphucula impumelelo yenkqubo thethwano. Umzekelo, kwimeko thethwano elide, kuyimfuneko ukuba ukuthatha ikhefu okanye ukuyi- okwethutyana.

Kufuneka sikuphephe umnqweno ukuqinisekisa interlocutor, ubungqina falsity isikhundla sakhe. I-asayinimenti ingangumsebenzi wesakhono iqabane zifanele ukuba zingathathwa ngokuba ubuthathaka, kodwa umnqweno ukusebenzisana.

Le isahlakalo isiphoso njenge "thethwano lwangaphakathi" phakathi kwamalungu kunikezwa efanayo. Ukuba ufuna ukuxoxa ngayo nayiphi na umba, kungcono ukucela ikhefu.

ekwenziweni kwezigqibo kuxhomekeke kwimigaqo ye nendlela kuphunyezwa isisombululo. Iindlela ukuphumeza izisombululo kufuneka ibe ezininzi.

Kuyimfuneko ukuba bakuthathele ingqalelo awohluke zonxibelelwano kunye nokuziphatha neqabane kwelinye ilizwe.