Uthando At Liberty

Uthando. Yiloo nto yindlela kwaye okona kubalulekileyo, kutheni isenzeka, akukho bani waziyo ukuba kwenzeka njani, kodwa macala onke ibango elo sakubona ubuncinane kanye ebomini. Ngoko ke njengoko unako ndithi, oku Uthando lulapha, engazi nto ngaloo nto? Impendulo ilula - nto. Thina sonke apha ekuhambeni sokuwa yobomi bakhe ngothando, sidibana, ukuhamba, njl, nabo bantu kuyo ukuba umphefumlo asitsala sisuke, ibe yinyaniso! Ngapha koko, ukuba umphefumlo onibizela kufuneka ulandele oko.

Abaninzi kuthi engapheli funda njengoko ihlabathi liphela ukuba yaphula intliziyo yabo, bamtyabula, laza lawunyhasha yokuba olu thando ayikho yimpumelelo, kwaye bonke ilize, kuba akukho ntlungu, akukho lusizi, iintlungu ithatha imizuzu-12 kuphela, elandelayo self-hypnosis. Kuyinto self-ngomlingo kuzo ukuze ulahle kwaye iingcinga ukuba bonke wenza uthando. Akukho amanxeba entliziyweni, kwaphulwa ishawa kunye nenye imfucuza. Kukho self-ngomlingo nokuphoxeka amakhono abo. Abantu ndiva intlungu "yawo kanye ninjani kodwa bathandekayo indoda kubo yayidilikile, bakurholela into engcono kunokuba kwakunjalo, uze kungena play ityala eziqhelekileyo uthelekiso kuthiwa Yintoni na le ndiyenzileyo? Musani ucinga?. Kodwa akukho, umbuzo kufuneka oku: "Mhlawumbi (yena) ingcono kwaye ufanelwe?" Injalo loo nto, hayi ngenye indlela.

Kunzima ukubamba umntu othe esindile phantsi "Uthando" lwakho, akuzange kufuneke yena, andifuni ezo mvakalelo ukuba ngaphambili ngenxa yokuba kwakukho entsha, enamandla ngakumbi noneengenelo. Naziphi na izisongelo, ukugrogriswa, izityholo kunye neemeko akunakwenzeka ukuba babuye umntu umva, oko kuzoba lincinane obungako nesibakala sokuba umntu ngoku.

Kaloku, ukuba Ucinga ukuba (yena) is back? Iyintoni na intsingiselo yalo? Isibini sokuqala kwemihla niya kuba ngokuphawulekayo kakuhle, ukuba le ndoda yabuya, kodwa ukuba uya kuba kuhle kakhulu xa iza unganokutshintshela uze umthande omnye umntu? Kulungile, ube uphume kuyo? Oku ku hlula njani umzimba womntu kunye umphefumlo wakhe, kodwa ke umzimba ngaphandle umphefumlo uya kukuvuyela kwaye akayi kuba noyolo, uze kusithuthumbisa wena kunye omthandayo (kwimbono yakho) umntu kamnandi kakhulu, kwaye amanqaku enikwe kwixesha elizayo, ngokuqinisekileyo nawe akuyi kuba noyolo .

Ngamnye wethu unelungelo lokuba ezamahala emzimbeni, emphefumlweni kunye neengcamango, kodwa le nkululeko kuphela ngokuvisisana ezi zinto zintathu. Hayi ngenye indlela.