Umthandazo Sinelnikov "kumila kumbi" - iindlela ezintsha ukuphucula ubuntu

Kumashumi eminyaka akutshanje, nendlela kunye ithandwayo kwizikolo ezahlukeneyo ekukhuleni kunye nophuhliso self. Ukujolisa kwiingcebiso uGqr Carnegie ukusebenza Luizy Hey kunye nezinye abaqali abaninzi be-ebizwa ngokuba "psychology positive", iinkokeli zabo waliseka yonke indlela. Kwindlela yayo basebenzisa iintlobo olulandelenayo Oriental, nezingqiniso, ukucamngca, ukuzeyisa ngomlingo, nokuthelekelela. Uninzi zaziwa ngoku iinkosi ezifana N.Pravdina, A.Sviyash, N.Norbekov, V.Sinelnikov.

A amagama ambalwa malunga ukucinga izinto ezakhayo

Ntoni "psychology positive" yaye "iingcinga positive"? Ukuthetha ngendlela elula, xa umntu uyayeka ukuba "cheat" ngokwabo, ukuba umzuzu nomzuzu zonke iingxaki kunye yamashwa, lungisa yokuba "akazange ukusebenza." Ngokwahlukileyo koko, iqalisa phinda:. "Mna uphilile", "Ndingumntu nethamsanqa," "Ndivuya", "ndiyamthanda abantu kunye ageza uthando lwabo, njengoko elwandle efudumeleyo" Ukuyenza ibonakale ncono, khumbula kanye hit bhanyabhanya eSoviet: "abathandi ngokuzithandela kwabo" yaye "Eyona nto umtsalane kwaye inomtsalane." Kakade ke, lo sebali kubo kunokuba ahlekisayo. Kodwa ingcamango esisiseko zifakiwe bakhonza oyinyaniso kunene: ukutshintsha umgangatho wobomi bakho kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuphucula kuyo, ukuze babuye evela nevezunchik esibulalayo (goof - kukho ikamva) xa umntwana imbuqo wethamsanqa ufuna kancinane: ukuba reprogram iingqondo zabo, ukufunda ukulawula ingqondo yakho ienjini, ukulawula iingcinga ungavumeli umfanekiso onganambithekiyo ebonakala esibhakabhakeni izimvo zabo kunye neminqweno.

Imigaqo ngokuvumelana

Enyanisweni, ezifana "ukukhanyiselwa" baqale ukuphila ngokuvisisana ngokwayo kunye nehlabathi ngaphandle, nendalo, ndawonye yonke. Ingaba elikhulu, akunjalo? Angabikho buhlungu, khangela ngokubenza abaselula, bencumile ububele, imbonakalo yakhe iphela ziveza owakhayo kunye vibes ezintle. Ubomi bakhe eziyilwe ngabo, yaye zonke kufuneka, ukususela indawo yokupaka lula yaye isixhobo nawokugqiba ukuba ulonwabo lobuqu, njengoko iya ngokwalo. Kubonakala ukuba ezingqondweni zabantu waba uhlobo wand umlingo kunye nokudala kubo kwenziwayo. Kodwa akukho nto ehlabathini amaphupha kunye neminqweno, kwaye kwihlabathi lethu eziphathekayo. Njani ukufunda ngayo, ukutshela umthandazo Sinelnikov "Inguqu", kwakunye iincwadi ezipapashwe yi phantsi kwegama elifanayo.

Ngokwakhe bili

Kakade ke, naziphi lenyengane inzululwazi oqinileyo. Kunye namacebo ukuqonda lophuhliso ngokomoya nemfundo ayikho lula ngakumbi, umzekelo, isifundo ngamandla izinto, isicelo physics okanye uhlelo iilwimi. Ukubandakanyeka kwinkqubo nentelekelelo, kwaye zininzi imizamo eqinile-athandileyo; ngqongqo ukuziphatha kakuhle, kunye logic. "Umphefumlo kufuneka asebenze" - oko kukuthi isimo sentlalo echanekileyo, ekufuneka ukufunda nokusebenzisa enye gqolo abakhetha ukuqala ubomi obutsha, ukuba uhambe ngenye indlela. Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, oko akuyomfuneko ukuba ngcono ukulwa ukusinda. Indalo ngokwayo nagnot phezu kwentloko cornucopia yakhe, uthando kunye nolonwabo. Ewe, igama iqhosha apha - uthando. Oku kuyafana a priori, apho umthandazo Sinelnikov "kumila kumbi" yakhiwa.

Eli mthandazo

Esathi sidla ujonge izicelo kamnandi? To bukaThixo, ihlabathi engqondweni, i-Higher amandla. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubizo - kubalulekile ukukholelwa ngokwenene. intsingiselo Deep kaThixo yaye yanikelwa nomthandazo Sinelnikov "kumila kumbi." Inxalenye yokuqala inxulunyaniswa ukufunda kaKristu. Ukuba kubonisa ukuba umbhali, wayethetha ngokuza ebomini "intlungu nokubandezeleka", undoqo apho - libhekisela amava ukuba bahlule imiphefumlo yethu, kwakunye ienjini. Kubalulekile, ke igqirha, kubani na Valery ukwamkela kunye nothando neemvavanyo ukuba umntu ngamnye eyehlela. Kwaye ndaqonda ukuba - umphumo kwiingcinga nezenzo ndoda ngokwayo. Umthandazo Sinelnikov "kumila kumbi" kwenza kucace ukuba emva ukwamkelwa nokufezekisa kwinyathelo elilandelayo kufuneka inguquko. Ntoni? Ngaloo iiyunithi ebuhlungu ngokwasengqondweni, apho thina ngokwethu kumisa, apho aqale ababengakholwa, nokuba ngubani babuyele lahlwa wethu, intshabalalo. Kodwa lwenguquko ke akwanelanga - kufuneka babanikele, kunye nokuzimisela ukuba umntu angakwazi.

Uguquka nje ngokutsha

Yintoni umoya creative uye uMthandazo "kumila kumbi" Sinelnikov? Text kubonisa loo manyathelo yophuhliso ngokomoya kumsebenzi phezu ngokwayo, apho abantu kufuneka badlule. Oku ukuveza ezimbi nje kuphela kodwa kwakhona xa ooyise, kulo lonke ngohlobo lwayo. Ukuxolelwa kakubi kwabo. Msulwa engqondweni yabo ubudala, ngokusekelwe ubukrakra kunye neengcinga ezimbi neengcinga ngaphambili kweliso mntu. Kwaye ke uluhlu kwindawo imodeli entsha sezingqondweni yokuziphatha. Ngokutsho umbhali, Valery Sinelnikov, umthandazo "kumila kumbi 'ukuba libizwe yi le ndoda, ngubani wagqiba ukutshintsha Isiphelo sakhe, kwaye ngokunxulumene nabagxeki zabo. Oku elivumelana isiko lamaKristu.

Sebenza phezu ngokwakho, ubomi bakho, ukutshintsha, waba eqaqambileyo, ngokuzolileyo, umntu onwabe!