Umqondiso wabantu "izihlathi zitshisa" - kutheni?

Imiqondiso yabantu ebomini yabantu baseRashiya baye badlala indima ebalulekileyo. Kwaye abaninzi abantu bathatha oku. Yingakho namhlanje kuya kuba malunga neempawu zabantu, nokuba kunjalo, ezinye zazo. Ngoko, umzekelo, uphawu "utshisa amatama" luvakalisa inani elikhulu labantu. Makhe sizame ukwanelisa inqwenela ininzi kwaye sisaphendula lo mbuzo, ukuba izihlunu zitshisa.

Enyanisekileyo, ukuba uziva ukuba izihlathi zakho ziyavutha, ngoko kufuneka uqaphele. Inyaniso kukuba lo mqondiso wesizwe uthi unomntu onamandla kwaye unenzondelelo kulo mzuzu nje. Yaye yintoni eyona nto inomdla kakhulu, ngokungakhathaliseki ukuba ungahambi phezu kwabo bonke abagulayo, izihlathi ziya kuqhubeka zivutha ngomlilo.

Isibonakaliso "sitshisa amatama" kubantu singaphathwa ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ukusuka kwimithombo eyahlukeneyo kwaziwa ukuba phakathi kweenxalenye zezizwe ezinjalo uphawu lubonisa ukuba esikhathini esizayo esisondeleyo uya kulila. Nangona kunjalo, oku kungagwenywa. Kwanele ukuhlamba ngamanzi angcwele, kunye neenyembezi ziya kukugqitha.

Kodwa, kwaye akunjalo. Abanye abantu bathi umqondiso othi "utshisa amatama" kuthetha ntoni ngaloo mzuzu othandekayo akukhumbulayo.

Uninzi lwabantu luqinisekile ukuba ukuba uyayithobela imiqondiso, unokuphepha ingxaki enkulu. Mhlawumbi oku kunjalo. Kodwa kuthekani malunga nokuba iimpawu ezininzi zichazwe ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ngoko, isibonakaliso "sitshisa amatama" asikapheli isisitye sayo sonke.

Kukho ezinye iinguqulelo zolu hlobo lwengqondo, oko kukuthi, ngemihla yeveki. Ukuba ngoMvulo izihlathi zakho zivutha ngomlilo, ngoko kwixesha elizayo elikufutshane uza kuba nolwazi olutsha. NgoLwesibini, izihlathi ezivuthayo ziqikelela ukuxabana nomntu othandekayo. Kwaye ukuba oko kwenzeka ngeLwesithathu, ngokuchasene nomhla wokuthandana. NgoLwesine, uvakalelwa ukuba izihlathi zakho zivutha ngomlilo, ngoko uza kudala wenze into oyithandayo. NgoLwesihlanu, iindaba ezibuhlungu zeentlanzi zeendaba, kwaye akucaci nokuba kuya kuba kuhle okanye kubi. Ukuba izihlathi zakho zibamba umlilo ngomhla weMigqibelo, ngoko kule ndawo awukwazi ukuphepha umhlangano ongazilibalekiyo. Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ubukho balo mqondiso ngeCawa buthetha ngokuzonwabisa konyulo kwinqanaba labahlobo.

Njengoko ubona, kukho uphawu olunye, kwaye zingaphi iindlela ozikhethayo. Ngokomgaqo, unokuthembela kuzo zonke iinguqulelo eziqhelekileyo, esizixoxe ngazo ekuqaleni kwesi nqaku. Kodwa, kwakhona, kwakukuphela kokutshisa izihlathi.

Kwaye ukucinga ntoni kwimeko xa ubuso bubushushu. Olu phawu luyaziwa ngabantu abaninzi. Emva kokubheka inani elikhulu leemithombo ezahlukileyo kakhulu, ezikuzo zonke ngokubambisana zinikezela ukuchazwa okunye, kwacaca ukuba uphawu olunjalo lubonisa ukuba umntu ukhumbula. Inomdla kukuba unokufumana ukuba kulungile okanye kukulungile ukuba ucinge ngako. Kwanele ukuba ubambe intsimbi yegolide ukusuka phezulu ukuya phezulu. Ukuba iqela elisele liqaqambileyo, ke iingcamango zomntu ozicingayo ngawe azinakunqandwa nantoni na. Ngaphandle koko, unomdla kwiingcinga zakho ezimbi.

Mhlawumbi omnye umntu akazi, kodwa kukho enye uphawu efana neleyo esele siyiqwalasele. Kwenzeka xa umlomo utsha. Ewe, akubona zonke iimpawu ezibonisa iziganeko ezilungileyo kuphela. Kodwa, kwimeko yomlomo, konke kulungile. Akungabazeki apha. Abantu bathi: ukuba imilomo iyatshisa, ithetha ukuba kungekudala uzanga. Ewe, nangaphezulu kwaye ucacise: umlomo ophezulu uvutha, ngoko uya kumanga nomntu, umlomo ophantsi utshaya ngomlilo-u-kiss uya kuba kunye nomfazi okanye nomntwana. Kwimeko apho zombini imilomo iyatshisa, ngoko uya kubanga nesibini esitshatileyo.

Zizo, ziyiyo, imiqondiso yabantu. Kwaye kukho nenani elikhulu kubo. Baya kuthi bevela kwiindawo ezinzulu. Yaye makangabethembi abanye, kodwa, njengokuba kuboniswa ngumsebenzi, iimpawu zabantu ziyasebenza. Kwaye oku kubonakaliswe ngaphezu kweyodwa!