Ukuba ufika emva kwexesha emsebenzini: iphazamise okanye uphawu uphawu

Kukho abantu luphawulwa kokulibazisa ukusebenza kuyo iholide. Ngelo xesha linye baziva bekhululekile, khorwisaka wonke umntu ukuba zabo phawu, ngoko ke kuya kufuneka ukuba kunye nayo, baye kudala azakhele ayeka ukoyisa le ngxaki. Abanye abantu emva kwexesha emsebenzini kubonwa ntlekele, bade ubunzima kukwazi ukuba le nto yenzeke, ndibohlwaya bona kwangaphambili kunye benetyala, uzisola kunye namava iimvakalelo. Udidi sesithathu sabantu - ke ngabemi ngesiquphe baqale ukuqaphela ukuba sobhedu rhoqo emva kwexesha kwindawo ethile, nangona ngaphambili ukuba abazange uqaphele.

Ngoko ke akukho ngaphantsi kuzo zonke iindidi zabantu ukuba emva kwexesha emsebenzini Labour Code enelungelo lityala loluleko, ie ukusebenza ngokungafanelekanga komntu bakhe imisebenzi ezisebenzayo (Inxalenye 1 Inqaku-192 loMgaqo-LC RF). Ngelo xesha ukulinganisa ifuthe kulo msebenzi emiselwe yintloko, ngokuxhomekeke amaza ukwaphulwa komthetho, kwenzeka iimeko phantsi kwayo, yaye ubudlelwane umqeshwa ukuba enze imisebenzi yabo (Icandelo 5 Inqaku-192 loMgaqo-LC RF). Xa imo imibutho emininzi yabasebenzi zifumaneka ngoku imeko yengqondo, ngubani na kunceda ukuqonda oonobangela yokwenene ukulibaziseka kunye nabasebenzi ukunceda wonke umntu ayifumane indlela yabo ukuphelisa le engxakini.

Izizathu ezinokwenzeka kolibaziseko:

1) Xa psychoanalysis Freud babe imbangela ulibaziseko zabantu njenge iinjongo ndizilibala, ngamanye sebenzisa yethuba lityhale ukuphunyezwa amanyathelo ayimfuneko. Umntu ukuphuma (ukulibala) ukuzalisekisa iinjongo ukuba injongo yezenzo zakhe uya kuba yakho ngokunzulu nengqiqo kuye. Umbhali iceba kukuhlalutya kwimeko ukulibala umfana ngomhla. Ukutyhubela iminyaka, akazange avumele ukuba isenzo esinjalo, kwaye ngesiquphe kukho izizathu injongo ezahlukeneyo ezithintela ukuba eze kule ntlanganiso kwangexesha. intombi yam endiyithandayo ndingatsho ukuba iye ukubabela ngaphantsi ukuya kwiintlanganiso, mhlawumbi nokuba niphambuke kubo. A meko efanayo inokufumaneka kwiimeko apho emva kwexesha emsebenzini uba rhoqo, xa umntu akafuni ngaphezu ukusebenzisa ixesha lakhe lokuba olu hlobo lomsebenzi, xa umsebenzi liyayeka ukuba ukumkholisa. Ulibaziseko uba uhlobo ingqumbo ngobunkokheli, nto leyo eye ukuba kuchithwe umqeshwa ngokusilela ukwenza imisebenzi yabo yesiqhelo. Mhlawumbi ngendlela nje ngexesha ukubuyisela umsebenzi yomazalelela imisebenzi nomtsalane ngakumbi?

2) emva kwexesha ukusebenza okanye ukufunda kunokuba yindlela ukutsala ingqalelo ngokwabo abantu abangakwaziyo yokuzilungiselela kwiqela ngenye indlela. On latecomer pay umfundi ingqalelo bonke abakhoyo, ezo ababekho baphazamise ntetho, shifts ingqalelo. Doctor of Education A.S.Belkin e izifundo zakhe ingxelo emva kwexesha kuvunyelwa kuphela ukuya kungena kubaphulaphuli, ukuba obalisa bhalo olunentsingiselo amnike ukutyhilwa zokufundisa. ie umfundi kade ukuba ucinge kusengaphambili ngalo hayi njengesizathu sokuba ukucothoza yakhe, kwaye ukucinga into abeya kuyithetha nendlela isakhi kunye ubachazela. Iqela umfundi akwazi ukunceda ofunda, ie umdlalo wajika waba uhlalutyo umdla ngeemeko zokufundisa. Ngaba wonke umfundi akwazi ukufikelela kuzo ukusuka abahlohli kunye nabo? Ngubani akwazi - kufika ngexesha.

3) Ukuba ufika emva kwexesha emsebenzini okanye ekhaya emva kwexesha emsebenzini inokusetyenziswa ngabantu njengendlela enamandla nempembelelo ngokweemvakalelo kwabanye, kodwa isetyenziswa ikakhulu nabantu esibathandayo abo lokuzibonela lowo akazange angene ixesha endaweni emisiweyo. Le ndlela idla ngokusetyenziswa elivisayo, okubangela abazali ukuba bakhathazeke, ukuba neminqweno, ukuba ukhathazeke ngomntwana wakho. Ngoko ke sizama 'ukubuyela' abo bazali ababekunye nabo ngexesha leminyaka kokuya esikolweni: ziwubazele, nenkathalo, ungusomandla, ngubani ayesoloko kufutshane usana kwiimeko ezinzima.

umntu omdala, emva kwexesha emsebenzini kwaye ndicinga ukuba intloko, njenge inani umzali, iyakukhathalela, okudla engalunganga. Head ukhathazekile, kodwa ngaphezulu - ingqeqesho, ukusebenza kunye nozinzo lweshishini.

Ukuba ufika emva kwexesha emsebenzini inokuba kuba yinto nje efane nje. Kodwa ke nawuphi na umcimbi ubomi sizathu. Kubalulekile ukuba ukuhlalutya yintoni isizathu sokuba ufika emva kwexesha emsebenzini eli xesha: nokungafuni ukusebenza kwiqela ungquzulwano, ukudinwa, izifo, umnqweno ukubonisa ngokwabo okanye bazenze Ungakhathazeki ngayo abanye abantu. Mhlawumbi lifikile ixesha lokuba bakhule, ukuqala ukujongana unobangela sifo kunokuba iimpawu zayo?