Nokuba kuyimfuneko kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba abasetyhini abakhulelweyo ukuya ecaweni?

Pregnancy udla kuxoxwa evela kumacala ahlukeneyo: ukusuka ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokwasengqondweni, izinto. Kodwa abafane kwangaxeshanye okhankanywe ukuba nabantwana nenkqubo lokomoya kuphela izandla neenyawo kwiinyanga ezilithoba mfutshane asakhulayo esiswini sikanina, kodwa kukho lokusekwa umphefumlo, oko Sisiseko wabeka ubuntu bomntwana.

Kuba ukukhula eyiyo amathambo baby adle sisi, iiprotheni kufuneka ukuze kwakhiwe ancedisana izihlunu, nentsimbi inika hemoglobini baby imfuyo. Indlela ukuphembelela ukuyilwa yomphefumlo, abantu bale mihla andazi. Eyona kuphela amathandabuzo: Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba abasetyhini abakhulelweyo ukuya ecaweni, kubalulekile ukuphulaphula umculo?

njani ukuyilwa komphefumlo? Umphefumlo umntwana siyinikwe nguThixo ebamba. Omama wathwala abantwana ubuncinane abathathu abakwaziyo sele ukuqinisekisa ukuba nkqu nabantwana kwesisu ukuziphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Abanye umoya, maxa wambi nizityhala wazalelwa kwexesha, ezinye - ukutyhala ngamandla kakhulu emva kokuzalwa bekhathazekile. Kweli nqanaba yokuqala yemfundo nangoku akunamsebenzi, ke ngoko, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba kukho amava ethile, nto leyo ifunyenwe phambi kokuzalwa, ngoko kukho into ochaphazela umntwana phambi kokuzalwa yayo.

Okokuqala, isimo unina. Yena uzolile okanye luvo? Ngoxolo ukuseta okanye ingxabano? Indlela yokuphatha usana lwakho? Oku kubalulekile ngexesha lokusekwa ubuntu komntu encinane. I-luvo kwenzeke usana ukuba umama fixated ukudla okunempilo, nokuhlanganisa oko, ibe yintoni na ukhulelwe. Ukuya ecaweni kwimeko enjalo, njengoko umthetho, akukho xesha.

Kakade ke, ukuba umfazi iingxaki zempilo, ukuphumla emiselweyo ebhedini, kubhetele ukuba mithi, umbuzo wokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba abasetyhini abakhulelweyo ukuya ecaweni, ndagqiba kweli tyala negative. Uyakwazi kuthandaza ekhaya. Ngokomzekelo, ikhaya mema umbingeleli enze umthandazo okanye wobudlelane. Kodwa kuphuculo karhulumente kufuneka ufumanise esuka kugqirha, unesifo ukuba abasetyhini abakhulelweyo ukuya ecaweni, ukuba eme phaya, okanye ukuhlala. Ukutyelela ibandla - asikokuphela ngokwalo. Ukuthobeka, inguquko lwezono zabo, uxolo nabo bonke, nokuthandaza ngenxa umntwana - yiloo izibonelelo ezibalaseleyo eziya kuba eqhelekileyo, usana enempilo.

Abantu Orthodox ngokuqhelekileyo bagcine uzilile, emi ngeenyawo zakhe elunqulweni, ekwenzeni caba. Kodwa yonke umfazi omithiyo ayikho kuthi. Sele enze umsebenzi omkhulu, ynashivaya umntwana, ngoko isithuba ngenxa wathamba kakhulu, inkonzo, uyakwazi uhlale phantsi kunye caba zizodwa. umoya ongaphakathi Church Orthodox kuthetha okungakumbi ngokubonakala yangaphandle yokuhlonela. Ngoko ke, xa kusenziwa isigqibo sokuba abasetyhini abakhulelweyo ebandleni, eyona nto iphambili injongo yomfazi. Ukuba ufuna ukuthandaza ngenxa thina umntwana, ngoko kuza etempileni kunokwenzeka kuphela, kodwa kuyimfuneko.

Kodwa xa ibandla lisetyenziswa kwindawo kwezinye izithethe, umbuzo wokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba abasetyhini abakhulelweyo ukuya ecaweni ukuze kujongwane kakubi. Ezi ngcinga etempileni kufuneka beze phantsi kwayo nayiphi na imeko!