Kutheni ufuna uyikhulekele umntwana

Abantwana - are ziyagungqa. Kuba yinyama yonyoko Kubalulekile ukuba kuthi ngenxa ukuhamba, njengoko sele umntwana asabile, ize ifakwe iinyawo zakhe ngokukhawuleza, yiya injongo umda. Nendlela umzamo ingqalelo kakhulu kufuneka usana xa evenkileni okanye emarikeni! Malunga ukuthenga nga kulityalwa. Kakade ke, kubalulekile ukuba ukulahlekelwa umthengi ukwazi, kwaye akavumeli ukuba alahlele, niziqhekeze okanye ukwaphula izinto elele ezishelfini kunye ezishelifini. Ngokubanzi, oomama bona ingxaki abanayo nabantwana noko amnye ebantwini. Kodwa akukho ngalo. Namhlanje uyakwazi ukuhlangabezana abazali babo esitratweni, nabaphila abantwana babo leashes .... Kuvakala ngathi etyeni, akunjalo? Emva kokuba zonke leashes zenzelwe izilwanyana. Kodwa musa ukutsiba kwizigqibo. Sinikezela ukufumana phandle. Loluphi uhlobo lead abantwana yaye yintoni eyona njongo yayo iphambili?

Amanyathelo okuqala kwi ngomnxeba

Makhe siqale ibali why kungafuneka uyikhulekele umntwana, ngubani kutshanje bebabi ngeenyawo zakhe aze aqalise ukuthabatha amanyathelo kuqala. Xa usana azinamdla ukukhasa, uvuka nokufunda ukuhamba. Inyathelo lokuqala - ukuwa yokuqala, umvumbo wokuqala kunye ukukhala elikhulu. Bonke uhambe ngalo. Ngaphandle ukuwa, ngelishwa, akafundi ukuba singqishe kwi kwingoma. Kodwa yonke unina oluqhelekileyo uzama ukukhusela umntwana wakhe, ngexesha ukubamba ukuthintela ukuwa ngokucindezela. Vuma, besilela ngokufuthi ukuthintela ukuwa. Kwaye yonke ilimaze kusenokuba nzima ukuba nijike kuba Explorer kwintsimi encinane ayaziwa. Yaye kwiimeko ezinjalo, oko yaqanjwa uyikhulekele umntwana. Wakhuza igudla umntwana ukuze umzimba, kunye nomama wam ngayo uyakwazi ukulawula amanyathelo, ngaloo ndlela wasindisa umntwana evela amaqhuma kunye zandikhathaza. Le fowuni nje ukukhusela usana, kodwa ukwakhusela umva sikanina. Ngapha koko, yena ahlale angamarhoqorhoqo, Zityede umzimba wakhe ukuqhuba le ukuphatha i ngenyawo kancinane. Kodwa elikhokelela uwuyekela, kwaye ikuvumela ukuba esweni imeko ugcine somzimba.

Nivele njengendlela lolawulo

Abaninzi bayazibuza ngento enye idinga ngomnxeba? Ukuze ukufundisa lohambo umntwana - oku kuyaqondakala. Ukukhuselwa ukuwa kunye nokwenzakala - enkulu. Kodwa ezi iifitsha kule divaysi zingatsalelwa kuphela. nivele kujongwa - kukwayinto entle ulawulo olukhulu isixhobo abaphandi noko amnye ebantwini. aziwa abantwana abancinane ukuba ukwazi kakhulu. Bona ezitsalwa izinto eziyingozi kunye emdaka, izadunge kunye zinemingxuma, esikuthintela kunye izivingco ezivulekileyo. Encane nimble ayikwazi ukugcina umkhondo. Kwaye ke uncedo uza oomama wonder ngomnxeba. Kufuneka ube nje itakane ekunene ukuya kwicala emhadini, njengoko Betha unina esihlahleni ngobunono kodwa ngokuqinileyo itsala umhambi benelungelo kunye nokuthintela inkathazo. Ke ukuba bathi bonke ngequbuliso kwabakho imoto, ibhayisekile okanye inja? Yintoni ukwenza ntoni? Ukungxola okanye ebiza umntwana phantse ngamampunge, kuba impendulo kubantwana abaselula ulihlwempu. A nivele ukuba umntwana unako ukumelana umsebenzi onjalo, Musani ukubaphatha kakubi umntwana kwalimala. Umama nje 'isantya "abaphalaphalayo.

Thina sibaninzi, kunye nomama wam yedwa

Khawucinge ngale meko. Umama wam, nabantwana ababini okanye abathathu. Omnye uhleli kwindawo stroller, okanye balele ezingalweni zakhe, yaye amanye isitampu zabo phezu kwingoma. Indlela ukugcina umkhondo yonke into? Othile ngokubaleka emva ibhabhathane, ezinye zibalaselisa igqabi elimdaka owe emthini, aze ayithumele emlonyeni, ilele wesithathu ngoxolo ezingalweni zakhe, kunye nomama wakhe - nye. Kulo mzekelo, kukhokelela ekubeni umntwana - nje into efunekayo. Inokukunceda ukulawula ephethene intshukumo kunye nokuthintela inkathazo.

Pro con

Ixoxe ukuba uyikhulekele umntwana - yinto engenamsebenzi ngokupheleleyo. Bamelene bakhonza ikakhulu abantu abadala. Bakholelwa ukuba bakhokele umda inkululeko eyoonyana intshukumo kwaye ikuvumela ukuba ngenkuthalo ukuhlola ihlabathi, kwakunye nefuthe elibi psyche yomntwana. Yintoni kahle! Umntwana nakanjani free. Nivele-izintso umntwana inkxaso kuphela, musa ukubophelela izandla nomzimba, musa ukubeka uxinzelelo phezu entanyeni kunye lomqolo. Umntwana unako ukuhamba ngokukhululekileyo kwirediyasi kuvunyelwe, lo gama umama usoloko kwi siphaphile yaye ngoko nangoko usabela kwaye bophula xa kuyimfuneko.

Nokuba ukuba abe uyikhulekele umntwana - wonke umzali isigqibo ngokuzimeleyo. Ekugqibeleni, kuphela umama kunye notata wam uyazi oko kulungele umntwana wabo.