Iphupha likaMiller: liphi iphupha esibuko?

Akusiyo into yokuba abantu bathi akukho nto yokugxeka isibuko ukuba akukho mgudu. Okokuqala, isibuko into yendlu, kwaye ke kuphela-ukucinga okubonakalayo kwenene. Akusoloko umntu ekulungele ukuqonda nokuvuma le nyaniso! Kukho uluvo lokuba ezi zinto ngamanye amaxesha zingaphazamisa into eyinyani. Kukholelwa ukuba ihlabathi lokujonga iglasi liyimfihlo kwaye liyimfihlelo. Ekukhanyeni kwezi ganeko, abantu babehlala bebuza ukuba isibuko sasiphupha ngani ... kwaye ukuba siphule na? Masifunde ngokukhawuleza! Ukuchazwa kweMiller

Umbhali wezengqondo ugunyazisiweyo uGustav Miller uthi isibuko esiphupha sisishenxiso semfihlelo somntu, iingcamango zakhe, amaphupha kunye nethemba elithile ... Ngoxa uncedo lwakhe, umntu ephupheni uyakwazi ukuzibona eyinyani, ubone ubunzulu bakhe, iimpembelelo zakhe kunye nokungaphumeleli kwakhe. Ngomqondo obanzi, ukucinga komntu siqu kubonisa njengesilathiso somntu omnye okanye elinye iphupha lomphuphi, kunye nezinye iinguqu ezilungiselelwe kuye. I-psychologist yaseMerika inika enye yeyona nto ibonakalisa intsingiselo yento esibubuko esiyibonayo.

Utshintsho olumnandi ...

1. Ukuba uthanda ukucinga kwakho, ngoko iphupha lithembisa ukuba lilungile. Zonke iinjongo zakho ezifunwayo kunye neengcamango ziya kuzaliseka. Ukongezelela, luhlobo "lomoya" lweenguqu ezilungileyo!
2. Ukuba uyazichukumisa ukucinga kwakho - kukuvisisana kwakho ngaphakathi, kunye namandla enamandla omzimba.
3. UMiller ungomnye wabasosayensi abambalwa abachaza isizathu sokuba isibuko esinomfanekiso olahlekileyo siphupha. Kulula, bahlobo! Ukuba awuboni ngokwakho uvuyo okanye usizi, ngoko kwixesha elizayo akuyi kubakho iinguqu ezifunwayo.

Isexwayiso ...

1. Ngaba uyaphupha ngokubonakalisa kakubi kwisibuko? Ibonisa iingcamango zakho ezifihlakeleyo, izibi kunye neengcinga ezimbi!
2. Ukuba ukwesaba (okanye ungathandi) ukucinga kwakho, ucinge! Ukulala kukuxwayisa ukuba iinjongo ezifihliweyo eziyimfihlo ziya kukulimaza. Ukongezelela, uMiller akacebisi nantoni na kwixesha elizayo ukutshintsha ubomi. Ngamanye amaxesha eli phupha linokuxwayisa ngokugula okukhawulezayo.

Khangela i-ZERALA!

1. Abanye abantu bavame ukuphupha, njengoko befuna nje ukuzibona ngekristra. Baqhakambisa ukuba bajonge apho ... UMiller uthi xa ukucinga kwakho ephupheni kukudala kunokuba bakho okwenene, ngoko ubomi bukulungelele iimvavanyo ezinzulu. Ukudlula kubo kukufumana ubulumko namava.
2. Ukubona ephupheni umfanekiso wesirhawu somnye umntu (ubuso obungabonakaliyo bomntu) - kunokumangalisa kakhulu. Enyanisweni, utshintsho luyeza, apho ungalungiselele ngokupheleleyo. Ingaba ezi ziinguqu ezintle okanye cha, zigwebe ukusuka kwintetho yomntu owabonile.
3. Ukuba isibuko singcolile, siqhekekile okanye siphukile - izibilini zakho ezimbi zizenza zizive. Isibuko esibulekileyo kumaphupha ethu sisimboli esifanelekileyo, njengobomi! Usizi, ukudabuka nokulahlekelwa kukulindele wena ...
4. Miller, ewe, kungekhona uFrud, kodwa ekuchazeni oko esibuko esikuphuphayo, kukho inqaku elincinci elincinci ... Ukuba uphupha ukuba ubona ubuso obuhle bhinqa okanye ubuso obuhle bomntu - lungiselela ukukhukhumeza. Uza kuba nesondo esinomdla kunye nesiphango esinomntu onokungazi nhlobo!