Indlela ukuphendula krwada kwabasebenzi nabaqeshi

Namhlanje, abaqeshi ezininzi, ehambisa uluhlu iimfuno abasebenzi ezinokwenzeka, ziboniswe isithuba, phakathi kwezinye izinto, kunye asingomkhwa cute ngoko indlela yokusingatha ntshikilelo. Kulo kunokwenzeka ukugqiba ukuba luvo wena vytreplyut kule msebenzi. Xa kunjalo, zama ukwenza oko. Kwaye baqhubeka ziqwalasele uzinzo ngengqondo kwi-ndlebe lokuqala: ukubuza imibuzo ezingafanelekanga, ilahle amabinzana erhabaxa, ukunyusa kwithoni yelizwi, njl Kwaye kufuneka sinyamezele, sitsiba, bahlale bepholile, ngokuba umsebenzi yinto ezifunekayo. Kwaye kakuhle, ukuba emva ndlebe onjalo uthatha ukuba kukho uxinzelelo umsebenzi phezu.

Kodwa akusoloko kuyenzeka. Amaninzi ukuba nabo kunye wayengumqalisi lokuqala ukungathandi zama indlela ezisindayo kuphela emsebenzini enokubakho. Ukuba umsebenzi omtsha ukuyidla ugwencele amazwi akhe, uyayazi indlela oza kusabela ngayo krwada. Kuthekani umntu ngemvelo ezifayo kwaye ontununtunu lula xa "ityhefu 'bakhe? Kulapho kwezo zihlandlo, ude ayilibale igama lakhe, singasathethi ke Eneneni, ukunika impendulo eyaneleyo krwada. Onke amagama ukubhabha nje entloko, yaye "ukukhanya" livela kuphela emva kokuba "baiting" ophezu okwexeshana. Yaba kweli thuba obuchopho aqale akahexa iingcamango krelekrele. Skrolela amaxesha million engqondweni yam imeko yangoku, umntu uqalisa ukufumana ngequbuliso ezininzi iinketho, indlela ukuphendula ubukrwada, yaye buhlungu kakhulu kangangokuba akakwazi ukwenza nantoni na 'ngalala' ebudeni uhlaselo. Njengoko isisho, "a ingcamango clever kuza emva."

Kodwa ukuba ukuzimela yena njengento kuyimfuneko. Awukwazi masithatyathwe ngomnye ngokokuziphatha
kuhlekisa ngabo. Kwiimeko apho umntu akakwazi indlela ukuphendula luhlaza Kwangokunjalo, iisayikholojisti Siyaleza babhenele ubuchule ekuthiwa-ukuzithemba. Le ndlela kucingelwa ukuba yenye yezona kakhulu, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, elula ukusombulula phantse naluphi na ungquzulwano. kubume bayo usendleleni yokuba umntu yathotyelwa kuhlasela njalo, ngexesha ilondoloza unflappable ngokupheleleyo, ezolileyo, kwaye nkqu ukungakhathali, kufuneka uvumelane zonke iingxelo kwi kwidilesi yakhe. Akuyomfuneko ukuba ukubonisa nayiphi ndlongo, nokuba ukumngxolisa kuwe. Umzekelo, wena basi- yokusilela ukucwangcisa. Nina ayibonisi nayiphi na imvakalelo, ukungakhathali uyavuma, bathi, Ewe, ngenene ndinetyala, andizange ukuzalisekisa esi sicwangciso. Welinye icala olindele ukukhaba basabela ngendlela eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo, ufumana i "ipateni ikhefu" yokwenene ungakufumani impendulo. Ekubeni ekumangalelweni ngamnye omtsha bayavuma nje igama negama ngokuthetha ngokuvakalayo oko kuwe. Maxa wambi, kodwa omnye umntu uya kukuphatha ukuthetha "irekhodi eyaphukileyo", yaye iza kuwa emva.

Ngoku uyazi indlela yokuphendula ongazithandiyo abantu abakrwada. Kodwa nomphathi ukuba balumke ngakumbi kancinane, nangona akuyomfuneko ukuba woyike. Makhe ememeza, igquma abaphose amaxwebhu akho - Unjengokuphola wakho wobulali nentshiseko yakhe. Kwaye xa ekugqibeleni wadinwa imikhwazo yakhe, imvakalozwi ezolileyo kwaye siqinisekile, cela ukuba bangabi sathetha kuni ngale ndlela. Xa kungekho tyala musa ukwenza ukuzithethelela, cela nje umqeshi ngoku thetha izinto ezifanayo, kodwa ngokuzolileyo ngenyameko, ngaphandle imvakalelo okungeyomfuneko. Ukuba umlawuli waqalisa ukuba nibambane kuwe neqela, uthi kuye: "amadlozi Semenovich, njengoko ndiyaqonda ukuba, lo mba iinkxalabo kuphela umntu wam kunye nani. Kutheni na ukuba uxoxe ngayo kukhangelana ebusweni? ". Ngoko ke musa ulahlekelwe nayiphi na ubuso bakho, akukho intlonipho nabaqeshi.