Isibakala sokuba awukwazi ukuthetha nabantu ongabaziyo, elowo unina uxelela umntwana wakhe esemncinane. Kodwa ke, nangona eli silumkiso, inani "zinyamalale" ku iinkcukacha zamapolisa, yaye yonke imihla zabafileyo kwizixeko ezikhulu bazisa umzimba ukuya 'imiqondiso yokuba ukufa, "kwandisa unyaka wonke. Indlela sikuphephe ukuba zizilu- lixhoba lolwaphulo-mthetho, yaye eminye imithetho elula ngaba ngokwenene ukunceda ukwandisa ukhuseleko lobuqu?
Reminder yonke imihla
Yithi kanye, akukho iindlela kunye neendlela ukuze uzikhusele ukuqonda omnye umntu-mthetho kunye njengeziqinisekiso. Kodwa ukuba ube balumke ngakumbi, kwaye iza kulandela imigaqo elula yokhuseleko yonke imihla, ukuba nokwenzeka ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni kuwe into ukuhla embi. Ngoko ke, lo mthetho lokuqala: ukuza ekhaya kwaye eshiya indlu, soloko uvale ucango nqaba. Musa ukubonisa ngaphandle umhlobo nje izinto eziphathekayo kunye ezixabisekileyo, zama ukuthetha ngayo imali kwiindawo ezixineneyo. Enyanisweni, impendulo yombuzo indlela yokuphepha ube lixhoba lolwaphulo-mthetho, omnye - kuwe nje kufuneka njalo qwa. Ukuba kufuneka ubuyele ekhaya kamva, khetha iindlela ezizuzwe ngenxa yale ndawo ngokuqaqambileyo ovuthayo ephithizelayo. Lahla ngamaxesha ezinjalo ukuphulaphula umculo headphone, uze uzame ukungena nakwesiphi incoko nabantu abangabazi.
Indlela sikuphephe ukuba ube lixhoba lolwaphulo-mthetho, isikhumbuzi abantwana
isifundo School "Basics of Safety Life" ngokwemveli njenge "esiyimfeketho" yaye isicelo. Kodwa enyanisweni kwathiwa kwinkqubo yayo ibandakanya zonke izakhono okuphila eziyimfuneko kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje. Kodwa ke eneneni agonye yakho imithetho yokhuseleko umntwana abazali esemncinane kufuneka. Kubalulekile ukucacisa ukuba umntwana wakho ukuba ukwazi ukunxibelelana nabantu abangabazi. Abantwana ngokwemvelo liyaphendula yaye ukuthembela, zama ukuchaza ukuba, ngaphandle ulwazi abazali abakwazi ukuya naphi na abasemzini okanye ukuzama ukubanceda. Enye ulawulo ebalulekileyo ukuba angamchukumisi izinto esitalatweni bengahoyekanga, kwaye hayi ukwamkela naziphi na izipho ezivela abasemzini. Xa umntwana eqalisa ukuba aphume, cela ukuba bakubize rhoqo kwaye ingxelo uphi zabo. Zama ukuba achaze oko akwanelanga ukwazi ukuphepha ukuba ube lixhoba lolwaphulo-mthetho, kubalulekile ukuba bagcine ngokwenene le mithetho elula kwandule ke kwenzeka into embi.
iingcebiso eziluncedo for girls
I sex fair kuya kuba luncedo ukwazi ukuba malunga nama-90% amatyala olwaphulo zodlwengulo luqala imigca exelela indlela ixhoba wahlala emotweni ukuya ngumdlwenguli. Ngako oko, umthetho wokuqala aphephe: akazange avume ukuba afuna ukuya khona, yaye musa ukuhamba nabantu abangabazi kunye nabantu angaqhelekanga. Phambi komhla wokuqala Beau entsha, luncedo ukuba sibulale umntu phezu isaziso apho kufuneka ukudibana kwaye xa uceba ukuhamba. Nceda ukhethe kwakhona i "ingqina" ulwazi oluninzi malunga umhlobo omtsha. Yaye khumbula ukuba ukuphanga ukuze obenziwa intombazana onengqondo kakhulu, uyakuphepha abazana ezintsha kunye neentlanganiso nje. Kwiindawo ezixineneyo, hlale zexabiso apha emehlweni. Yiba uhambe Lumkela kwindawo ezinokuba yingozi - nomnyango emnyama, isango kunye ikheshi. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, cela umntu odibana naye apho ukuba sibuyele ekhaya emva kwexesha.
Zizonke kwangaphambili, kodwa ungazama!
mthetho Street kwenzeka kwizixeko ezininzi kwilizwe lethu rhoqo ngokwaneleyo. Abantu abaninzi abaye ubunzima kwiimeko ezifanayo bathi phezu olwandulela lesiganeko, bona ngokoqobo va ingozi. Musa ukoyika ukuthemba ngeendlela zakho, ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba umntu sitshutshiswa esitratweni, uye kungena nayiphi na ivenkile, cafe okanye kwelinye iziko / arhente. Ukuphanga zingenzeka kuphela ezitratweni kodwa indlu. Zive ukhululekile ukuba ukuvula abasebenzi emnyango kweenkonzo zoluntu kwaye amapolisa, ukuba uqinisekile ukuba akukho mntu obizwa. Ungaze ulahlekelwe zigcinwayo, kwaye baqhele imithetho ukhuseleko lobuqu babo ababathandayo. Siyathemba ukuba iincam zethu endlela onokukuphepha ngayo ukuba ube lixhoba lolwaphulo-mthetho apho unganceda oku!