In search of okulungileyo nokubi: izafobe malunga inyaniso ngobuxoki.

Ucinga ntoni, ngaba kusoloko kuyimfuneko ukuba uza kuthetha inyaniso? Beselula abantwana bafundiswa ukuba ukuxoka akulunganga. Kodwa kuza ixesha lokuba bakhule, yaye baqonde - bonke ukukopela. Leyo yindlela abantu kunye noluntu ukuba eziyingqongileyo kuyo. Kwaye njengoko ngoku ntoni? In search of impendulo yalo mbuzo kunokunceda amaqhalo ngezi inyaniso ngobuxoki.

UMgwebi ngokuba wena, ukususela kwixesha lakudala, abantu ceba amazwi ezahlukeneyo kunye namaqhalo, osichukumisayo phezu inyaniso. Kwaye nangona abaninzi kubo ngaphezu kweminyaka engamakhulu omnye, ubulumko efihliweyo kuzo iyasebenza namhlanje.

Indoda ecinga okulungileyo nokubi

Ngesizathu esithile, loo nto ixela ukuba zobuxoki ububi kwicala elinye ngothango, nalowo ukukopela, kubi ngokuzenzekelayo. Kodwa ukuba achaze indlela ngoko amazwi "omnye ubuxoki"? Ezi zango kwi kwimbonakalo ixesha elide baye baqalisa ukuba babe nomdla ezingqondweni zobulumko, ebanyanzela ukuba bachithe imini yonke ufuna impendulo efanelekileyo.

Kusenokwenzeka ukuba le ntetho ngenyaniso kunye amanga nje iziqhamo efanayo yale vangama. Kunye umahluko esincinane ubuqambi wabo wenziwa ukuba umntu othile, kunye nabantu. Kwaye, eneneni, yintoni umahluko? Kuyinto kakhulu ebaluleke ngaphezu umxholo ngaphezu ilingana.

Kunye behlabathi umtya

Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba le ntetho ngenyaniso nobuxoki babethandwa kuwo onke amazwe. Ngoko ke, le ngxaki sifanelekile yonke, kunye nemilinganiselo yokuziphatha ifana kuzo zonke iingingqi zomhlaba.

Ngoko ke, lo mzekeliso Arab ithi: "Kulungile kukuxelela inyaniso, kunokuba iminyaka emana ehlabathini ematyholweni." Ngenxa yesi sizathu, kokuba kuchazwe ukuba ingqibelelo waba ngumqondiso umntu onesibindi. Xa elele kula mazwe iye yavalwa. Yeyiphi kuqinisekisa enye ubulumko Arab, ethi: ". Ngaphambi akhohlise interlocutor, smazh yobusi ngencam kolwimi lwakhe '

A uluvo efanayo ibanjwa kunye Chinese. amazwi abo kunye namaqhalo ngenyaniso kukhokelela ingcamango yokuba inyaniso isoloko umehluko. A ubungqina kakuhle eli ilizwi Chinese: ". Inyaniso inobuso ezininzi" Kodwa amazwi abo endimthandayo, "Ukuba inyaniso ngecala lakho, uya kusoloko impikiswano."

IMizekeliso ngenyaniso kwaye ziye zithandwa baseYurophu. Umzekelo, amaJamani wathi: "Ngubani na owaziyo amandla inyaniso, kodwa ungathanda kukuxelela." A British pedantic weza kunye nenye ethi: ". Amazwi amaninzi kakhulu ugqiba inyaniso"

IMizekeliso ngenyaniso eRashiya

Oobawo zixabisekile yokuziphatha ukuqinisekisa ukuba ziyazithobela kwinzala yokuziphatha. Kungenxa yoko le nto abantu Russian noluhlu omkhulu izaci nezafobe kwizihloko ezahlukeneyo. Kuquka inyaniso ngobuxoki.

Xa phambili, kufanele kuqatshelwe ukuba nokuxubana kakubi waqonda ubuxoki, ngokuba 'inyaniso ngobuxoki kwiqela elinye akayi. " Abazange akholiswe ukukopela amaxoki wabacekisayo. Xa ubuKristu weza eRashiya, ngoko Zisekwelo zichongwe nobubi. Nawo onke amaxoki, ngokutsho inkolelo ethandwayo, kwafuneka ukuba aye esihogweni.

Imbali elide yabantu Russia wabeka ngaphezu kwekhulu imizekeliso. Khangela, yaye ngakumbi ukufunda kubo bonke akunakwenzeka. Ngoko ke, siza kuqwalasela le mizekeliso iqhelekileyo malunga inyaniso ubuxoki, nto leyo ukufikelela ukuya ngoku:

• "Inyaniso ifana intlungu engxoweni - nokuba ukufihla kaninzi kangakanani na, kodwa ngaphandle baya kuphuma."
• "Yonke istleet, omnye kuphela inyaniso iya kuhlala."
• "Ngubani uyambeka inyaniso, ukuba uYehova uya kusivuza."
• "Inyaniso kungekho manzi, akukho mlilo akoyiki."

Kodwa kukho eRashiya, izaci nezafobe, leyo evakalisa ingcamango yokuba oluxokayo akusoloko ezimbi, kodwa ke inyaniso - hayi ixabiso elililo. Umzekelo:

• "Wonke umntu inyaniso yakhe."
• "Inyaniso endleleni, kodwa ulonwabo kungcono".
• "Ukuze ndinixelela inyaniso - ukuze bonakalise ubuhlobo".

Uphi na inyaniso?

Kwaye njengoko ngoku isigqibo sokuba uxelele inyaniso okanye inkohliso nangoku kwamkelekile? Ngelishwa, impendulo yokugqibela lo mbuzo akukho wumbi. Apha, wonke umntu uya kuba ukukhangela ngokwakho, iphi na inyaniso efihlakeleyo kuyo.

Okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba indalo kukho enye mthetho ongabhalwanga: "Inyaniso isoloko uyaphuma." Kwaye nantoni na iingcinga ukusuka abantu bahlanganisana akamntu ukuba athethe amanga, wayesoloko kufuneka akhumbule oko. Nasekuvezeni nje yonke imiba - ukwenza ukhetho lokugqibela.