"Ikufuphi engqinibeni, kodwa zikutye" utoliko mzekeliso,

imizekeliso Russian zidlala indima enkulu ekubunjweni ungubani yesizwe. Kuyinto bakhaya bethu edumileyo ubulumko okukhulu, umfutho kakhulu kunye nokukwazi ukoyisa iingxaki. Mzekeliso uthi, "ikufuphi engqinibeni, kodwa zikutye" Andazi, mhlawumbi bonke. Oku ezisetyenziswa kwiimeko apho ufuna ukubonisa interlocutor ukuba sele ezilahlekileyo ixesha.

Ukuba uzama ukwenza isenzo yobucukubhede kungekudala kakhulu aniqondi ukuba akwenzeki. Eyona nto inomdla kakhulu kukuba engqinibeni kubonakala ukuba usondele ngokwenene ngokwaneleyo, kodwa ukuba ziziswe emlonyeni wakhe, yaye ngakumbi niyagrenyana kuyingxaki kakhulu. Eli nqaku lichaza iintsingiselo ezahlukeneyo eli binzana olumkileyo, baba ezimaphiko.

Ukungakwazi ukuba alungise le meko

"Engqinibeni likufuphi, kodwa zikutye" lithetha ityala apho imeko ethile sele yenzekile kwaye zingenakukwazi ukuba zibe zezichanekileyo. Ukuba umntu ivakalisa ibinzana odumileyo, ngoko ngokuqhelekileyo wazisola oko kwenzekileyo, ufuna ukulungisa naziphi na iziphumo, kodwa aninako ukuza kwesi senzo. amatyala anjalo ngendlela enye okanye ngenye xa into eyenzekayo kuwo wonke umntu. Kwaye apha eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukufuna indlela ukuba zibuyela ngokwabo. Ngapha koko, kuyo nayiphi na imeko kubalulekile ukuba bazobe isifundo HIV, ngoko ke nentembelo ngakumbi malunga elizayo.

Mzekeliso "ikufuphi engqinibeni, kodwa zikutye" evela kumaxesha amandulo xa abantu abazive ngayo urhulumente ekruqukile, hayi ukuba kukho into engasebenziyo ukungoneliseki neqiniso. Ngamanye amaxesha zilungisa ethile imeko enzima kunzima kakhulu, kunye neenzame ezisisongezelelo ziyafuneka ukwenzela ukuba oku. Ngamnye kuthi kufuneka sihlale sikhumbula ukuba nanini na ubomi bakhe angakwazi ukwenza isenzo angawokubhuda. Kuyimfuneko kuphela ukuba abe nako ngexesha ukubona impazamo yakhe ukulungisa njani, akukho mfuneko ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba ukuzisola kuyo kwixesha elizayo.

Inkohliso of kufutshane into

Ngamanye amaxesha umntu ucinga ukuba abanye njongo kulungile kanye phambi kwamehlo akho. Ubona kwanele ngokucacileyo ukuba babe nako ukwenza umthambo. Kodwa ukuba siqala ukuba bayikhangele loo mnqweno nzulu, lokuhlolisisa iinkcukacha, kuvela ukuba lula ukuphunyezwa - oku ukungaqondi inkulu. Ixabiso "ikufuphi engqinibeni, kodwa akazange nomntana," isusela emva inyaniso ukuba maxa wambi baqonde ezo imiqobo kunye nemiqobo ezivelayo ebomini bethu. Iimpazamo kunye nokusilela - ezi zifundo kufuneka ukuba uhambe.

Yoyisa imiqobo - ukuze ube namandla, ulumke. Ngamanye amaxesha oko kwakubonakala kufutshane kakhulu kwaye zifikeleleka, ngoko kubonakala kunzima ukufezekisa, ukuba kunako ukwenzeka, ke ngoko, uthi, "ikufuphi engqinibeni, kodwa ezilumayo." Ixabiso mzekeliso ebuyela ixesha lokuba bakwazi ukuqaphela iimeko ezinjalo.

kwenza ubudenge

Sona ke abantu. Ngokuba ezinye izenzo yabangxamayo ke kufuneka ukuba uhlawule ubomi. Ngamanye amaxesha asiyiqondi sinako into bazisole kamva ukuba kumaxesha anzima umntu akamncedisanga, wala ukuba nenxaxheba, akazange athi igama uhlobo. Xa bathi, "ikufuphi engqinibeni, kodwa nomntana", njengokuba umthetho, ukuthini ngokwabo, iimpazamo zabo elidlulileyo kunye nokusilela. Ngapha koko, le elidlulileyo alina kuba kutshintshwa, ayikwazi kulungiswa, oku ukwamkela kuphela.

Ukuze ukugxeka wena ukuba ezinye isiganeko esiphambili kufuna kuhlaziywe elidlulileyo kunye ucazululo olunzulu kweemvakalelo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu bathi kubo: "ikufuphi engqinibeni, kodwa ezilumayo." Ixabiso Imizekeliso kule meko olulandelwa ngabo bonke: abadala kunye nabantwana.

endaweni yesiphelo

Ngolwimi Russian kukho imizekeliso emininzi amazwi ezibonisa ezingqondweni yoluntu. Bonke ngendlela yabo entle emangalisayo, uzaliswe nentsingiselo ekhethekileyo. "Engqinibeni likufuphi, kodwa zikutye" - la magama ngokuqhelekileyo ndithi kuwo umphefumlo wam, abo bayazisola indlela ekhethiweyo ebomini. Ngabandwendwisi na babantu, nokuba nakakhulu kuba yintoni ngaxa lithile ukulungisa iziphene ezahlukeneyo kakhulu emva kwexesha. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, nonke nina kufuneka wenze ngelo xesha. Kamva, njengokuba umthetho, kukho iimeko ezahlukeneyo ezinokuba aphazamisane noko echanekileyo kwenzekileyo. Ukusuka umntu kwimeko enjalo kufuna umonde omkhulu kunye nokusebenza nzima woxolo.