Dream Ukutolikwa ukuzala okanye ezinxulumene naye ngamaphupha leyinene

Kukho iphupho nje incwadi akafumaneki kwi Internet! Kukho incwadi iphupha evuselela inkanuko yesini, ekuzaleni, intetho njenge sisibonakaliso ubutsha, evula ulwazi umgangatho omtsha ubomi kwihlabathi lethu endala. Oku kunjalo xa ukubona lokuzalwa kwabo. Kwaye xa ubona umntu - ke ukulinda ukuba imbonakalo ebomini bakhe umntu omtsha. Ngenye indlela - nesithunywa isiphelo. Kukwaxhomekeke mnandi kangakanani okanye hayi nice yaba Herald yephupha. Iimvakalelo ezenzekelayo xa ulele, nako kubalulekile. Njengazo zonke amaphupha, imvakalelo uvuyo ohamba ukuzalwa, sesona utshintsho kuba ngcono kwaye bazise ubunyani wokuva ubunzima.

Ngokubanzi, sonnik ephatha kwisizukulwana ngokuqhelekileyo lixabiso elilungileyo. Le ndlela jikelele. Noko ke, ndadibana nesinye isibini zezincomo xa kuthathwa ozalayo ephupheni ukulungiselela babi, kunye nokuthatha ububi ukwenza ububhanxa. Ezizezi: umntu lowo waphupha yokuzalwa, kufuneka ubeke isihlangu emahlelweni lwenani engange ezintlanu banxibe de intombi yakhe intle kummangalise oko. (Mhlawumbi uya ingxelo ukukhulelwa. Kulungile, ukuba akazange lover).

Kuba umfazi, incwadi iphupha egezayo uxela umhlaza webele, kwaye ukukhusela oku kungenzeki, icebisa ukuba ugalele ioli umbona xa ikofu (!) Yaye ukunyhibhela lo mxube esifubeni wesihogo ngaphambi kokuba uye kulala. I wonder xa kukho eninzi yamadoda kunye dimes phantsi isithende kwaye ingaba kukho abafazi abanjalo, umandlalo kulala nekofu ibhotolo ukutya neoli ingqolowa. Ndifuna ukuba ukholwe ukuba ukho. downers ezinjalo akuyomfuneko ukunikela ingqalelo, kungenjalo ufumane bayagula. Ke bona abanye, ukutyhilwa kwephupha elo ubona ukuzalwa njengesiganeko entle ephupheni, nto leyo nayo nempembelelo entle ikamva leyinene.

Ukuba phupho abone umfazi okhulelweyo, ukuzalwa iya ngokukhuselekileyo ndawo, yaye umntwana baya kuba sempilweni. Kodwa nantsi i usasazo ubuthongo abangatshatanga malunga ekulahlekeni ngobumsulwa (ngokubanzi, kukho isiganeko esibi kuthathwa ixesha elide kakhulu). Inye kuphela ebhungeni kukuba ukulahleka ngobumsulwa ayikwazi babe moya emzimbeni, kodwa ngokomoya okanye eziphathekayo. Oko kukuthi, umntu, kule meko, intombazana eselula onokubonisa emfamekile okugqithisileyo kwaye ulahlekelwe yimali okanye kudana.

Ke ezinye unyango inenimba iphupha eyakhayo ukutyhilwa kwephupha elo ithatha njengophawu elungileyo wekamva, ememezela isicombululo kule ngxaki umthwalo: amaxhala, iingxaki, kunye nezinye inyaniso rhoqo ukuba wabaleka ebomini bam. Kwaye ngoku, ekugqibeleni, inkululeko. Xa uphupha umntu unikezelo zinkonzo, ixabiso zinokuba nomahluko. Kuba namankazana, oku kuthetha ukuba ivuliwe ngesiquphe kwi ubukho bemihla into emangalisayo. Jonga into eneshologu, kungabonwa ukuzama imo yekona entsha. Mhlawumbi kuya kuba fan elide ngubani wakwazi nangoku akholwe ukuba ukutshata naye.

Kuba abanye abantu ndiyilungisile ethi iphupha. Ukucaciswa Dreams, ekubelekeni ezenzeka kuye (oko kukuthi, xa umntu ebona ekuzalweni yakhe), ukunika wona ithuba uqale ubomi babo, hlaziya ze ufumane isigqibo entsha, oluchanekileyo. Bekuya kuba bhetele xa ezibanjiswa maze eyenzeka le ndoda wavuka kusasa hayi ngala mazwi: "waphupha loo ububhanxa efanayo!" Kwaye ukuba uhlaziye ubomi babo baza baqonda ukuba nqanaba elitsha apho ukuhlala size senze ngokwahlukileyo . Kungenjalo, akukho nto ifana wahlala kude kube ngoku.

Kuba kokubini amadoda nabafazi badla eliphupha ukutolika ukuzalwa kwiimeko ezininzi zingathathwa isiqalo esitsha, izicwangciso ezintsha nomnqweno utshintsho. Uphawu yotshintsho ubomi umbono omtsha iingxaki ezindala, izisombululo ezintsha. Xa uphupha ubona ukuba azale ngokukhuselekileyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ebomini uya kuba abancedisi abatsha, ngubani oya kuthatha inxaxheba nokunyamekelwa ngokwabo kwaye uya kuba nexesha free xa ungakwazi ukuphefumla gidi.

Ukuba ebuthongweni uya kukwenza uthathe ukuzalwa umntu kaThixo, akukho mathandabuzo, bayahlelwa walungisa iqabane lakho egqibeleleyo. Thina nje kufuneka ukuba uthathe bayijonge macala kwabo abalandeli ukuze noku. Mhlawumbi yena umnini isafobe ezemidlalo, kodwa umphefumlo wakhe onesisa kunye nentliziyo elungileyo.