6 "inkohlakalo" iinkolelo ezingonakalisa umsebenzi wakho

Ukubhalwa kwe-Sabotage akuyimfuneko kwaye kuyonakalisa. Ithumela kuwe engezantsi yomngcipheko wemvakalelo, apho kunzima khona ukuphuma.

Ukuthetha nathi, sizifumanisa entolongweni kwiingcamango zethu kunye neenkolelo zethu, kodwa oku kudlala indima ebalulekileyo ekukhuthazeni, ukusigxotha okanye ukusilahla ithemba.

Njengoko kwathiwa uG. Ford: "Lowo ukholelwa ukuba unako kwaye ukholelwa ukuba akakwazi - zombini alungile."

Xa iingcali zeTalentSmart zenza iimvavanyo ukulinganisa umgangatho weengqondo zengqondo (EQ), ngoko, emva kokuvavanya abantu abangaphezu kwesigidi, bafumanisa ukuba i-90% yabasebenzi abalungileyo banomgangatho ophezulu we-EQ. Ulwaphulo lwengqondo luyakwazi ukuqonda kuphela, kodwa nokulawula iingcamango ezimbi, ezikunceda ukuphumelela.

Ngokomzekelo, umvuzo omyinge wabantu abonise izinga eliphezulu le-EQ-28,000 yeedola ngonyaka. Kwakhona kwaziwa ukuba bahlala bekhuthazwa. Ukongezelela, ukwanda kwinqanaba leengqondo zengqondo ngenye ngqa kuhambelana ngokunyuka kwimivuzo engama-1,300 eerandi.

Xa kuziwa kwi-self-study, ungayifumana ezintandathu eziqhelekileyo, kodwa zikhona "iinkolelo" ezinokuthi zibambe abantu kunabanye. Khumbula ngabo, kuba banokutshabalalisa umsebenzi wakho.

Impumelelo ingapheleliswa kuphela

Iphutha libhekiselele kwimvelo yabantu. Ukuba ufuna kuphela umphumo olungeleyo, sidumala ukudideka: uya kuhlala uhlala wedwa kunye nengqiqo yokungaphumeleli kwaye ekugqibeleni uya kuchitha ixesha lakho ukucinga ngezinto ongazange uzifezekise.

Ukuqhathaniswa

Abantu abaninzi banamathela kwiingcamango ezingenangqiqo ukuba zilungele ukuphumelela okanye ukuhluleka. Kodwa a lunganga. Ingxaki yakho isesandleni sakho, kwaye ukugxeka okanye ukubulela iphela izipho kunye nobunzima kukuzama ukuphepha uxanduva lokukhetha. Ngamanye amaxesha kwindlela kuya kuba nemingcipheko emininzi, ngamanye amaxesha uya kumangaliswa ukuba zininzi iintonga ziya kuba semikhono yakho. Kodwa kuphela ukuzimisela kwakho ukuzifumana ngokwakho, ungayithobeli ingqalelo indlela iimeko eziza kuphuhlisa ngayo, misela impumelelo yakho enkulu okanye ukuphumelela. Uyabona ingxaki? Sombulula. Uyabona indlela yokukhulula? Hamba phezu kwayo uze ukholwe kuwe, kwaye kungekhona inhlanhla yendawo yamathambo.

"Njalo" okanye "Ungaze"

Ukwahlula ihlabathi ibe ngumnyama nomhlophe "inkohlakalo" inkolelo. Enyanisweni, akukho nto ebomini eyenzekayo "rhoqo" okanye "ayikho". Yonke into inokwenzeka! Unokwenza izinto ezithile kaninzi okanye wenze into enye okanye ezimbini, kodwa ukwahlula zonke izenzo "rhoqo" okanye "akukho nto" kuyisizathu. Yenza ukuba ukholelwe ukuba awuyikuzilawula ("Ndandisoloko ndiba nalo mkhuba, ngokude ndikhumbule") kwaye ungalokothi utshintshe ("ngumntu wam, andinakwenza nanto into"). Unganikeli kulo.

Ndiphumelele, ukuba kukho ukuvunywa kwangaphandle kwempumelelo yam

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba abantu bacinga ngani ngethuba elithile, into enyanisekileyo: awunjani okanye ungalunganga njengoko uzama ukubenza baqiniseke kunye nawe. Akunakwenzeka ukucima ngokupheleleyo ukuphendula kwakho kwimbono yoluntu, kodwa ungathatha le ngcamango. Yicoca, kwaye ungadluli ngokwakho kwifomu ecocekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo ungaboni kuphela wena, kodwa nakwezinye iingcamango zomntu. Naluphi na indlela, ukuzithemba kuluhlobo lwangaphakathi omele uyeke ukwenza ukuxhomekeka kwizinto zangaphandle. Nguwe kuphela owaziyo ukuba ungubani ngempela.

Iimpazamo zexesha elidlulileyo maziphindaphindiwe

Emva kokutshiswa kwaye akasayi kusondela kumlilo. Izandi eziqhelekileyo? Ukuphindaphinda ukuhluleka kunokunciphisa ukuzithemba kwakho nokwenza kube nzima ukuphumeza umphumo ongcono kwixesha elizayo nje kuba wena ngokwakho awuyi kukholwa kuyo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ezi ziwayo zibangelwa kukuba abantu basengozini okanye bazama ukufezekisa into engelula ukuyifumana. Khawukhumbule nje: impumelelo ikukho kumandla akho okuma ebusweni bokungaphumeleli. Yonke into efanelekileyo yokufumana iya kufuna ukuba uthathe ingozi ethile. Awukwazi ukulawula rhoqo into eyenzeka malunga nawe, kodwa awukwazi ukuyeka ukukholelwa kuwe.

Oko ndivakalelwa kukuba yinyani

Kwincwadi ethi "Intelligence Intelligence 2.0" kukho inkcazo ecacileyo malunga nendlela yokufunda ngokuvisisanayo iimvakalelo zakho kunye neemvakalelo kunye nokwahlukana kwezinto ezivela kwiingcamango zobugcisa. Ukuba ufunde lo msebenzi, sele uyazi indlela. Ukuba akunjalo - qi niseka ukuba ufunde, unokufuna ukuba usebenze ngokwakho. Ukuphazamisa ingqiqo yenyaniso, iimvakalelo zithintela, kude nokuvulwa kwamandla kunye neetalente ezikhoyo.