Yintoni na umyeni udade wam lo gama? impendulo

Ukuba ngenene Nantso amaqhina entsapho

Le mini imyoli ebomini zonke sibini, Kakade ke, lo mtshato. Izalamane neendwendwe nijonge phambili kule mini, ke, njengoko umtshakazi azilungise. Yiloo nokufika yentsapho entsha kusoloko umbuzo ukuba kubiza njani ezi elisandul zibandakanyiwe usapho lwabantu. Kakade ke, wonke umntu uyazi ubukho ku-mthetho, uninazala, unina-in-mthetho. Abaninzi baye mhlawumbi beva la mazwi bezinye iintlanga, njengoko umzalwana-in-mthetho, isihlobo. Kodwa mhlawumbi bambalwa abantu baqonde ukuba igama umyeni udade wam. Kwaye igama anako, kodwa yintoni ntoni xa elinegama elifanayo umhlobo wakho okanye umhlobo nje, kwaye ufumane ngumbhodamo. Emva koko kwenzeka ukuba kufuneka wazi ukuba ubume usapho lwakho ayizuzayo. ngcono kakhulu xa abahlobo nezalamane ukuba bambize into ngokwenene wena. Ukuba kuphela ukuze ubonise off erudition yakho kunye nolwazi lwamagama ukuzalwa.

Njengokuba indoda nazyvetsya dade?

Eyona nto ephambili ukuba wabhideka nangakumbi. Ngoko ke, fumanisa ukuba yintoni na igama umyeni udade wam. Abaninzi yenza ubunzima kokucingelwayo, ngokufuthi embiza umzalwana-umntakwabo-, kodwa bambalwa siyazi ukuba umyeni udade wam ebizwa-mthetho. Ewe, ewe, injalo loo nto, nangona hlobo oko umama notata wakho. Vumelanani, into engaqhelekanga, kodwa indoda ozithandayo, unique, unique (kwaye, mhlawumbi, hayi nje kuphela, njengoko omnye abaninzi) noodade - zonke-in-mthetho; ke nina, kunye notatomkhulu zakho kunye nabazali bakho. In-mthetho - indoda wathembisa kuhlala udade wenu. Izicwangciso ukukunika abatshana, abazali bakho - abazukulwana, nootatomkhulu - nabazukulwana. Ngoku uyazi kakuhle ukuba yintoni na igama umyeni udade wam.

Kodwa ukuba - umfana, indoda kwincopho yobomi, kwaye mhle, unique, udade wenu onyuliweyo omncinane zitshate kwabona emangalisayo, ngokoluvo lwakhe, lo mntu kulo mhlaba yesono, ukuba kubiza Hay 'uyolo kuye. Kwakhona umbuzo umbuzo, ababengengabo wonke umntu afumane omnye ngasekunene, likhulu pesenti, kwaye impendulo oyinyaniso, umntu umyeni udade wam umzalwana 's. Ndiyavuma ukuba oku kwakhona wayengekafiki ngaphandle ingcamango yesibini, kwaye okona kubalulekileyo - impendulo echanekileyo, ngokufuthi ngoko nangoko. Ngoko ke kufuneka ngokuba indoda umzalwana udade wakhe .... In-mthetho, nabo. Okumangalisayo kukuba, yebo?

Kule, umntu uthi kuphela ukuba impendulo kwimibuzo emibini, yintoni na igama lodade umyeni udade wam kwaye ke wabiza kwakhona ukuba lo mzalwana, lo gama enye - e-mthetho. Njengoko ezingaqhelekanga etyeni oko kuvakala unakho, kodwa mhlawumbi nootatomkhulu bethu nje akazange abe nomfanekiso ngokwaneleyo ukuza into ngakumbi umdla ngokubiza izalamane Lusanda ukusuka udade wenu.

Ngenxa yoko, emva kweli nqaku, kufanele ukuba ahlale amathandabuzo phezu nokuba igama umyeni udade wam. Yinto elula. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ungubani na, abenako, udade okanye umzalwana, umyeni udade lokuba uya kuba umncedisi wakho iphambili, umntu lowo ungasoloko ukuxhomekeka (at best), kwaye uya kubiza kuwe - ku-mthetho. Uyavuma, nto ke ayithethi nzima kwabonakala ekuqaleni. wena ezintsha izihlobo Okuninzi kunye nokwandiswa kwamaqhina entsapho!