Ungayifumana njani le mfo nobukhwele xa ndiqhawule ulwalamano phakathi kwakho

Ungayifumana njani le mfo nobukhwele xa ndiqhawule ulwalamano phakathi kwenu? Ukuze siphendule lo mbuzo, kukho izizathu ezininzi, mhlawumbi izizathu ezi ebalulekileyo, yaye mhlawumbi hayi kubaluleke kakhulu ke kuni. Kakade ke, ikhwele - yinto embi, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, kwiimeko ezizodwa kwaye iluncedo njenge uhlobo unyango.

Qwalasela iinketho, kunokwenzeka njani ukufumana mfo onekhwele;

1. Ukuba ngaba ubomi bakho ngoku kubhetele kakhulu ngaphandle phambi kwakhe ex-mathe, ngoko ninoyolo. Kwaye ukuze abonise le ulonwabo ngoncedo olugoso nokuhleka, Kakade ke, kuyimfuneko ukuba wonke, kuquka ex yakho.

2. Ukuba ukhe wadibana ixesha elide yaye wakwazi ukufumana abahlobo aqhelekileyo, qiniseka ukuba kube close contact. Hlangana nabo rhoqo kangangoko, kufuneka badlale indima ebalulekileyo ebomini bakho, oko kukuthi, indima njengabathunywa ngqo, phakathi kwakho kunye ex yakho.

3. Indlela ndifika ndinekhwele ukwenza ex-boyfriend ukunxibelelana social networks - ungaze ukuthumela imiyalezo kwaye be isiqulatho ngxelo imbi ukuba uziva ulusizi, ulilolo, okanye ukuba une intliziyo eyaphukileyo. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, ukongeza kwiphepha lakho kangangoko umculo fun kwaye musa ukulibala ukwabelana okuvelayo zakho, njani kakuhle wachitha veki kwi club okanye imovie umhlobo omdala kunokuba mnandi.

4. Ukuze ube kwintlanganiso ithuba wayezisola Ekwahlukaneni, kufuneka usoloko ekulungele ngalo naliphi na ixesha kule ntlanganiso. Nokuba uthe waya kuthenga izonka kunye nobisi evenkileni okanye ngonyezi, ehamba nenja yakhe, ungazikhangelela okusemandleni akho. Hayi, Kakade ke, asithethi thina malunga ilokhwe ngokuhlwa kwaye wenze-up kubangele, kodwa kakuhle abanembeko, zicoceke, kufuneka uhlale.

5. Enye iinketho ukufumana indlela guy nobukhwele - nto ifana isidlo yothando omnye wabahlobo bakho efanayo. Kwaye ukuba lo yayiza kuba ngabo yena lowo yamkhweletela ukhe ngaphambili, cinga umsebenzi ugqityiwe. Akukho ixabisa kakhulu ukudlala ngomhla, yiba nobubele nefudumeleyo kwakwanele.

6. ithuba Xa ex yakho, ukuba uphendule yonke imibuzo yindlela kuyimfuneko prosaic, ngokungathi ndidlulayo. Ukuba ucela, umzekelo: "Unjani?" - Impendulo ngokungathi phantse na andazi. Asimele ukuphosa amehlo languid, bayancwina buhlungu kwaye ubonise ukuzisola zabo.

7. Xa uthetha nomntu wakho ex rhoqo kubalulekile ujonge ngaashi, ayisoze inibulale ndinganikhumbuza ukuba kakhulu kwexesha, makhe baqonde ukuba ukwazi njani. Mhlawumbi ziyakhawuleza ukuba intlanganiso nomntu othile, mhlawumbi ngqo limncedile yokuba nangokuhlaziya ubuhlobo kamva.

8. Musa ukuba nobutshaba okanye akanankathalo, oku kwakhona kuphela ukugxininisa into yokuba unayo nangoku olityelweyo, kwaye ubangela ukuba ube ezininzi iimvakalelo. Kwaye ukuba uziphathe phambi kwakhe ekhululekile kwaye likhululekile, uyaqonda ukuba eyona ukuthi akumkhathalele.

9. Indlela yokufumana lo mfo nomona xa omnye umfana omtsha wabonakala ebomini bakho? Kulula! Qiniseka ukuba bazifunde kubo, kwaye musa ukulibala ukuba adlale lover entsha phambi kobokuqala, kodwa ukumodareyithwa, musa aziphathe ngendlela anento yokwenza nokuziphatha kakubi. Ke ukuba yangaphambili ubuza into ethile, uze uphendule kuphela kwinqanaba ngqo, ukuze ukuziphatha yakho akuzange Babonakala wayenza.

10. Kuzo zonke ezi zingentla Babaqhathanisele ngothando nomntu phambi kwakhe. Incoko, iliso zoqhagamshelwano kunye nomphunga uchukumisa emagxeni okanye ngesandla iza ex-boyfriend akubona ukuba uyavelana enye.

Ungayifumana njani le guy nomona? Yeyiphi kwezi ndlela luphumelele ngakumbi? Kakade ke, phezulu kuwe; kuba akukho namnye unako wazi ex-athandana olungileyo kunawe. Noko ke, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni na isigqibo indlela 'kumnyumbaza "imizwa Asinini enanyula kuye, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ukuze ziqondwe - akukho imijikelo kuyimfuneko ixesha elidluleyo. Impilo iyaqhubeka, omninzi umdla ezizayo, ngoko unyathele iqinelwa siqinisekile abakudingayo phambili kuphela.