UMama lo mbuzo: indlela ukufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlale phezu yabo?

Xa ndandineminyaka eli-malunga ezisibhozo iinyanga yomqolo kunye nezihlunu umva nesifuba umntwana ukulungele ngokuqhelekileyo ukuqinisekisa ukuba obu buchule kubalulekile kakuhle njenge isihlalo. Ngaba kufuneka ukuba ukunceda umntwana kwi nokufunyanwa obu buchule? Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlale phezu yabo? Le mibuzo ibalulekileyo iza kuphendula inqaku yethu.

Qala ulungiselela usana esihlalweni kufuneka hayi iinyanga ngaphambi kwe ezintlanu, ukuba unalo inkwenkwe, hayi kwiinyanga ngaphambi kwe ezintandathu, ukuba unalo intombazana (ukuba uqale ekuqaleni, kusenokubakho iingxaki wesibeleko).

Kukho umthambo ezikhethekileyo ukunceda abantwana bafunde ukuhlala. Kufuneka uqale imithambo nge umyalezo kuthoba: uhlikihla isisu sakho, emva, iingalo kunye nemilenze. Emva koko ke xhoma usana lwakho kwi eqinile, tyaba - ngoko kuya kuba lula ngakumbi. Ngoku sele ukulungele ukuba umthambo - ukufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlale phantsi.

Thatha imvuthuluka izandla ukutsala kancinci kuni ide phantsi. Makhe Ndihleli imizuzwana embalwa. Emva koko, icinezele intloko yakhe, wayibeka kwindawo yayo yoqobo. Ezimbini ukuya kwiiveki ezintathu zoqeqesho - kunye nonyana okanye intombi yakho, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuhlala!

Xa ebuzwa abazali abaselula kunye nabazali babazali lo mbuzo: "Indlela ukufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlale ngokwabo", badla ukufumana impendulo: "Uze uzaleke umqamelo yomntwana wena." Eneneni, ngenkxaso enjalo, umntwana uya kuhlala, kodwa hayi ngokwakho! Le ndlela inokusetyenziswa kuphela ekuqaleni. Kwaye ngoko ndifuna ukuphinda - musa ukuqala ekuqaleni kakhulu! Kwakhona khumbula ukuba bonke abantwana babe ngabanye - umntu ngokukhawuleza ukufunda ezahlukeneyo izakhono, umntu kamva.

Musa ukunyanzela umntwana wakho ukuba enze into ethile ukuba akakho kodwa sewulungile wona, kodwa musa ukuvumela uphuhliso kwalo ithuba. Ukuba ukrokrela ukuba itakane nzulu libe lisalele ngasemva kuphuhliso, dibana wabantwana bakho. Ngendlela, ukuba unako kwakhona kukuxelela indlela ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba uhlale phantsi.

Le nyanga-asixhenxe baby idla sele uyakwazi ukuhlala njani ixesha elide. Xa uyakhathala yokuhlala, ngoko ke ubuxoki emqolo. Ngoku ungakwazi ukuqala ukubonisa umntwana wakho ukuba uhlale indlela yedwa.

Ukwenza imithambo, musa ngokutsala ngezandla zakhe zombini, yaye omnye kuphela - singasathethi ixhaswe. Xa wayeneminyaka eli-iinyanga ezisibhozo, usana kufuneka bafunde ukuba ahlale.

Kwenzeka ukuba pipsqueak uhlezi ungqiyame kumqheba. Indlela uyilumle kuyo? Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlale phezu yabo? Lo msebenzi uza kunceda ukuba ugcine ulungelelwano. Bonisa umntwana wakho yokudlala ayithandayo, iyisa kumacala ahlukeneyo. Umntwana basusa yokudlala iplagi isandla - ngoko ke akuyi kuphinda nayama khona: usukelo lwethu lube yimpumelelo. Enemveliso rhoqo lo msebenzi umntwana efunda ukulawula izihlunu zabo ukugcina ulungelelwano.

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Ekuqaleni, umntwana uya kuzama ukufumana into yokudlala ngesandla esinye, ukugcina omnye. Noko ke, kungekudala uya kuqalisa ukufikelela ukuba into ngezandla zozibini, yaye bakwazi ukuthatha oko emqolo. Ngoku sele nebhongo unyana okanye intombi yakho angacebisa abahlobo bakhe indlela ukufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlale ngokwabo. luck Good kunye nethemba kwi umsebenzi onzima ngumama!