Kutheth 'ukuthini ukuba intombi entle?

Uthando ... Ukuthantamisa ... Weasel ... Ukunyamekela ... Yintoni enye ukubhala amagama athe anxulunyaniswa nomama wethu. Khumbula, kwabantwana abancinane, wasithuthuzela xa sibona kwisitrato ikatana abangenamakhaya, kodwa njengoko ngayo thina ngexesha yokugula, bazisa iziqhamo, akazange ukulala ebusuku, ngoko ukuba ngesiquphe ndivuka waza wacela ukuba ndisele, ngoko nangoko wakwazi ukuba . Ngaba Uyakhumbula njani xa efuna into enjalo, kwathi gqi ukusuka kwenye Itshokolethi bha. Nokuba zingaphi "ofuna 'yaye' ukunika 'kuthwalelwa phandle?

Kwaye ngoko ke yobudala nzima, kwaye aqala ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba nonina babengazi ukuqonda isizathu sokuba into kokutyhutyha kwaye ulungise ixesha xa kufuneka ukuba ube ekhaya ngokuhlwa. Kutheni uya ukuvumela kuhamba nam njengezinye amakhwenkwe namantombazana? Kutheni ucinga ukuba into ukuba yenzeke? Kwaye ngoku phantse sonke sele abantwana babo yaye siyayiqonda into Ukuba ayisazi phi yaye nabani kid yakho xa ebuya umva, ukuba abayi kungena na nomonakalo? Ngoku sele mobile phone, yaye ngelo xesha? "Mama, ndiyakuba apho, ungakhathazeki! '- yaye ucinge into oyifunayo.

Kutheth 'ukuthini ukuba intombi entle nomama wakhe kunye nomama kuphela? Indlela ukuqinisekisa ukuba wayezidla intombi yakhe, yaye ezithile ophakamise indoda elungileyo?

Lijongene zonke izenzo, kungekhona ngamazwi kodwa nangezenzo ukungqina oko kuthetha ukuba intombi entle. Biza ixesha, kwaye hayi xa ikhowudi kufuneka icebiso okanye ukuboleka imali. Ngokuba umntu ngamnye neendlela zabo indlela ibe elungileyo ntombi. Umntu ubiza izihlandlo eziliqela ngosuku ukunikhumbuza amayeza, umntu ngokwaneleyo kunye amaxesha isibini ngeveki. Umntu uyeza emva komsebenzi ngokutya kumama wam, yaye umntu nedoprosishsya kwaye kanye ngeveki ukuze bazise iitapile. Umntu onesazela ecacileyo bafudukela kwelinye ilizwe kwaye ngokwenene unomdla, nendlela apho nonina, yaye umntu yaye soze ukuya khona, apho kungekho unina. Wonke umntu umbono yabo oko kuthetha ntoni ukuba intombi entle. Yonke into isihlobo kwaye umntu, ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba sisondele na ubuso. Noko ke, wonke umntu uyaqonda ukuba kukho imigaqo ekufuneka ilandelwe ngokupheleleyo bonke abantwana - kukunceda, zombini zemali kunye yokuziphatha bakhe abazali, kunye nothando, umdla kunye nokubandakanyeka ebomini babo. Ngamanye amazwi - zonke okunike abazali bakho xa kancinane.

Ukuhlonipha abazali babo - na imeko engundoqo. Kwaye kule minyaka imashumi mane, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba unina phambi kwakho - umfazi nina wazalwa apho, ngubani na okunike zonke kum, wafundisa, bekhathalelwe yaye egadile, akufumana ithuba, kwaye maxa wambi nkqu nangaphezulu. Yaba lowo esakuthwalayo esiswini sam, oko lingcoliswa amadolo ezaphukileyo Ipeyinti eluhlaza, yaye ke yena wanceda ukufumana indlela yokuphuma kwaye lithemba, kwabonakala ukuba iimeko. Kwaye ngoku, emva kweminyaka, into embi ukuba oomama nootata - kukungabi nantlonelo kubo zisabonakala.

Ukukholisa abazali uthanda ezithandekayo yaye yabeka izinto, ngokuba izimanga ezinqwenelekayo. Bacele ukuba ukuhamba, sibe nomdla ebomini babo. Indoda maxa wambi iimfuno ezincinane ukuze sonwabe ...

Indlela ukuba intombi entle - kukuba ukusombulula iingxaki yabazali babo hayi kuphela xa kungokunje ndimdala, kodwa kakhulu ngaphambili.

Musa ukuba wokuzingca ngokunxulumene kubazali, khumbula ukuba nawe lowo ungowam kakhulu kunene. Nzima ukubona indlela ukwaluphala inikwa kubazali kwikhaya lokonga, ukwenza ubomi babo lula. Yonke into, bathi, uye waphila lakhe, kwakungeyomfuneko ... njani elizothe ukuva eludongeni ukukhala ummelwane ememeza unina, ezibhedini iziqalekiso zakutshanje, yoyikekayo nayibonayo iminqweno? Ndiyazi ukuba umfazi lowo kwiminyaka engama-40 eyadlulayo aluka pigtails kunye nentombi kamnandi-Interface malunga isiphelo sakhe athandaze ukuba balindelwe kule ngxaki?

kuthetha ntoni ukuba intombi entle, wonk 'uxelela intliziyo kunye uthando nomsa unina, ngubani kufudumeze ngaphakathi. Yiba nenceba, unovelwano kwaye nombulelo ukuba oomama ngenxa yomsebenzi wabo onzima kunye nexesha, kunye nabantwana bakho baya kuvuya.

Kumnandi ke xa une unina!