Kutheni njengephupha isidumbu. Indlela ophatha Dream Miller

Lidla uvuka kusasa andikhumbuli thina amaphupha abo, enoba eliqaqambileyo kangakanani. Kodwa maxa wambi amanye amaxesha ukuba sihleli ezingqondweni ayakhanya kwaye kucacile ukuba nje ubabeke. Maphupho zithathwa kubalulekile ebomini bomntu. Kukholelwa ukuba utoliko oluchanekileyo amaphupha ezingalibalekiyo kunokuba ngakumbi nefuthe nxi, nokuyitshintsha ukuba ngcono okanye mandundu. Enoba uyayikholelwa okanye akuyikholelwa, wonke umntu uzenzela isigqibo ngokwakhe.

imincili ngakumbi, mhlawumbi, kuba umntu ngamnye amaphupha ezifika imifanekiso yezihlobo yabafileyo okanye abantu abasaphilayo akukho elide. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba kwimeko enjalo, loo mntu ngoko nangoko pops lo mbuzo, kodwa umzimba iphupha? Maxa Ekuqaleni, ukuze nobunzima kwi aura kwaye waft iingcinga udakumbile. Noko ke, ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuya kuyo zonke izinto ezimbi ukuba senze ebomini nokulungiselela okubi, oko kufanele azi ukuba oku ngokwenene akulunganga bephupha isidumbu.

Amanye downers kunye neetoliki kuba watolika umbono ephupheni ngokwahlukileyo. bonke Oku kuxhomekeke ekubeni ngubani na ke umbhali wale ncwadi, kwakunye saliphosa lulonke kunye nemixholo. Ethandwa kakhulu phakathi kwezinye iincwadi ngoku ngokufanelekileyo kuthathwa Dream Miller. Cinga ngendlela uphendula umbuzo wokuba yintoni waphupha isidumbu.

Miller, iphupha lakhe ncwadi inika utoliko eziliqela xa umntu kubonwa ofileyo ephupheni. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba, phantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko kunye neenkcukacha ezigcinwe iphupha.

1. Okokuqala, isidumbu yephupha Ngelishwa, umbhali ukholwa. Kusenokubakho iindaba ezimbi yaye ukusilela kwimicimbi enxulumene ngemali. Kwakhona, ngokuba umntu oselula ukuba intwasahlobo ukuphoxeka.
2. Ukuba kuthetha isilwanyana esifileyo, oko kukuthi ngentetho evakalayo njenge ukuhla kwimpilo, ngokunjalo ukusilela kwezoshishino.
3. Nkqu ezimbi ngakumbi bika umntu ofileyo, enxibe ezimnyama. Nomdla ntoni? Phupha nesidumbu enxibe abamnyama, ngokoluvo Miller, ukuze ukufa kukuba umhlobo osenyongweni okanye umhlobo. Kwakhona kukho inguqulelo ngokufa ngumlinganiswa, nto leyo singazibambezeli ngani na ngeendawo zakho.
4. Kutheni uphupha kwesidumbu intombazana ethile? Yena kufuneka uliqaphele phezu-kukuthembela ebantwini, njengoko kungenzeka kwixa elizayo ingafunyanwa phakathi kwabo mbekile ngokupheleleyo.
5. Jonga kwi abafileyo iphupha umzala wakhe isifo esinamandla umntu evela kumalungu osapho. Kwimeko izibini ezitshatileyo okanye abathandi luphawu yokuba ulwalamano lwabo akunakwenzeka ukuba ihlale ixesha elide.
6. Loo phupha kwakhona ukuba angamchukumisi up umntu phezu uvavanyo oluneenkcukacha zonke wesenzo abazinikeleyo.
7. Xa uphupha ungaboni nje umntu ofileyo, kodwa avingciwe amehlo akhe iinkozo, kufuneka ukuba ziqwalaselwe ukuze iintshaba olunokubangela wena, wenzakalisa zemali. Ukuba ngqekembe obekwe kuphela omnye umntu ofileyo iliso, inxalenye ilahleko kusenokwenzeka ukuba babe nako ukwenza okanye abuyele kungekudala.
8. Xa uphupha nabona izidumbu eziphezu entsimini emva kokuba idabi wamagazi, iluphawu, ngaphezu kwabo bonke, imeko-nkqubo angaphandle nzima. Mhlawumbi ngokuhlwa sekumbovu imfazwe. Ingakumbi kuyimfuneko ukuphulaphula lo umqondiso kwiinkokheli kunye nabantu abo naliphi na igunya sikarhulumente.
9. Ukuba intombazana ebona ngesiquphe ephupheni emzimbeni umnini mbutho apho enayo ukusebenza, ngoko oko kube ngumqondiso of fan okupholisa okanye iimvakalelo zomntu umfana lowo sele lusekiwe ubudlelwane ezizinzileyo
10. Ukuba umzimba kwi ebhokisini kwaye umi phakathi kwe ivenkile, loo nto luphawu embi kakhulu, nto leyo efuzisela ingxaki enkulu, isikali eziya kuchaphazela umntu ngaphezu kwesinye, kodwa abaninzi.
11. ndiyakuthanda okanye isebe intloko kwesidumbu elele nomfazi - kungenzeka intwasahlobo twine nxamnye neentshaba zakhe oliqhophololo.