Kutheni Nakulala - masibone!

Kwaye ngenene, kutheni abantu amanga? Yintoni eyenza ukuba ngesondo ngokomelela, kuba kakhulu nempumelelo, abazizityebi, ngokuqinileyo emi ngeenyawo zakhe, ngesiquphe ofihla amehlo akhe, uncumo neentloni, bahlazeke, ngokuqulunqa kabuhlungu ibali ethile Amazing?

Kubonakala ukuba, ukuba ngaba uthathe ingqalelo amaxoki zophendlo lwezifo okanye iimeko ezifana jikelele umhloli, isizathu lokuqala ubuxoki baye iyafana naleyo sonke; ukoyika ukuba abaqondi, ayaziswa, engafunwanga. Xa sihlalutya imeko eqhelekileyo - kutheni Nakulala - icace phandle ukuba iingcinga ubukhulu becala ukuba ityala. Man ezininzi kakhulu "shoulds": kufuneka imali kakuhle, ukuba abe yintloko yekhaya, ukuba babe nako ukwenza yonke into ekhaya, ukwakha umsebenzi, vula i-akhawunti yebhanki eqinileyo ... Kulindeleke ukuba izisombululo ezizodwa, isiluleko sobulumko, izenzo sobudoda. Ukuba umntu uyavuma ubuthathaka, ukuba akusoloko ukumelana isibopho sakhe? Ngapha koko, sonke - abantu, yaye abantu akhonto yayintsha kuthi, namadoda - kuquka! Kodwa ke oko kudla uthi ndacela indlela kubantu umfazi, umntu otyholwa, phantse ulwaphulo-mthetho. Buhlungu kuye, kodwa kufuneka kunkqangaza, musa ukubeka! Kunzima, kodwa yiba nomonde, musa khalaza! Alizange liphumelele ekwenzeni izinto, esithukuthezi entliziyweni - nto kugcina lophawu, into embi! Yiloo nto amadoda amanga! Hayi loluthando axoke, kungekhona ukusuka umnqweno ukubonisa off, ukuba bathathe mhle kuFeliks. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba ezinye zazo - iyivume, ngaphandle iimoto abangenamakhaya kwaye zindala zobuqu, kodwa isipaji ezinqinileyo epokothweni, abafazi akusoloko ukulungele ukwamkela. Ke ukuba umntu uqalisa ukuthetha ngeengxaki zabo, ukuba kuvela ukuba akunjalo, kodwa kufuneka igxalaba, ndiboleke ukunceda - buhlobo nomnye umntu, Ngokwezibalo, ezisibhozo ngabafazi abalishumi akayi tie.

Le - lokuqala kunye sizathu Nakulala phantsi. Ke namanye - ukungafuni kwamanye amalungu wesini eyomeleleyo komelela kunye noxanduva. Isizathu soku mhlawumbi kwi iindleko zemfundo kukhathalelo engeyomfuneko kunye ucingo inkwenkwe, kwaye ke umfana ubomi enkulu. Bobusana, koluntu bezisoloko iSifo kuluntu mihla kunye nempembelelo kwindlela yokuziphatha omabini kubini abantu. Kodwa ke kwakhona, ukuba abafazi umboniso wabo uthi ntle, kwezinye iimeko, ngokuba abantu, yeha, akukho. Ubudlelwane kunye nendoda eyakhelwe phezu kwizikim esele ukusekwa ngaphandle kwiimeko ezithile.

elide Kuye igcinwe ukuba umntu ithatha unonophelo umfazi lowo emnceda ukusombulula iingxaki, phuma iimeko ezinzima, ekugqibeleni, inikeza uzinzo kwezemali. Nangona ukulwela ngoku ikhula, abafazi ngakumbi nangakumbi bayakwazi ukufumana imali yokuhlawula iminqweno yabo, imigangatho zentlalo yokugcina ayikenziwa wanikela. Ngenxa efanayo, ukuze nomelele, umntu siqinisekile ukuba mncane amantombazana, nokubetha amashiya ngendlela amaphiko ebhabhathane - namnye kubo akayi kuyinyamezela ecaleni abantu bakhe njengempahla eyindoda abanako ukhenketho de amandla. Abazithembileyo winner yayo elizayo - yiloo nto bafuna!

Ngubani ofuna umntu? Ibhinqa liya kuba yintoni na. Ekubeni zonke izakhiwo, zamorochki amabhongo akuphumelelanga, amandla kunye nobuthathaka. Le kwengqondo phakathi kwamadoda nabafazi ziyahluka. Kakade ke, musa ukulibala malunga nomtsalane, zesini, ukukwazi ukusebenzisa ngokwabo, ukuba ukubaleka indlu yaye ezinesiqalelo - ukupheka. Ke zonke iimpazamo kule ndawo iinkunzi neemazi uxolele ukuba isibini iya kuba ukuqonda kunye nentlonipho ngokunyanisekileyo. Ukuba umfazi oyinkosikazi nje kuphela, kodwa abe umhlobo, umhlobo ethembekileyo nonyanisekileyo.

Esinye isizathu - abantu bacinga ukuba banokulala ku "usindiso." Khusela abantu esibathandayo iintsizi ezingeyomfuneko, ingakumbi ukuba ezi ngxushungxushu zenzeka sisiphoso zabo, ukuze bafihle inyaniso, ukuze sibe sibi - bebona kule a ilikhubalo lokunyanga obuninzi kelwa. Kakade, esi sikhundla njengenciniba, bangcwabe iintloko zethu esantini xa ingozi, kodwa asebenzise ngayo.

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