Kufuneka ibe yintoni umatshini yokudlala

Wonke umzali, ingakumbi uTata, njalo ufuna kunyana kunye indlalifa ikhule womelele, ukhaliphe. Ngoko ke, ukuba wavuya gqitha xa nkwenkwe idlala bayawafundisisa Zakwantu "indoda" izinto, ezifana imoto okanye umpu kumatshini yokudlala. Yaye abaselula bedla kangakanani uyise uncoma ujonge imodeli ingakumbi nice, wathi: "Kutheni ebuntwaneni bam ezinjalo akazange"

Ingaba Kufuneka umatshini abantwana

In, izixhobo zokudlala jikelele - yinto kwisihloko esahlukileyo kwimfundo. Inyaniso yokuba, ngenxa ezahlukeneyo zosasazo, kunye kumava, kuba kakhulu enxulumene nathi, nalo ndlongo. Ngoko ke, oko kuyenzeka ukuba oomama abatsha, koyika izenzo zobundlobongela olungalawulwayo, kuphelisa oomatshini zokudlala nezinye izixhobo iingubo abantwana. Kodwa ke, yeha, siphila kuluntu! Ke kaloku umfana wayedlala nabanye abantwana okanye ukubukela iikhathuni, ebona indlela kunokwenzeka ukudubula. Emva koko uya kuzama ukusebenzisa njengoko izixhobo izixhobo busondele; kumasebe kunye like. Ngoko ke, enoba okanye ukuba kude kakhulu? Enyanisweni, umnqweno ukudubula ayikho yingozi. Kid andifuni ukuba ingozi. Lowo uthanda nje umsindo befuna ezinxulumene nokusetyenziswa kwezixhobo ezinjalo, ngathi yokudlala automaton. Imidlalo ezihlobene ukudubula, amaxesha amaninzi ehlangeneyo. Kuyinto kakuhle kwaziwa oobawo bethu kunye kwanootatomkhulu "voynushki" okanye "namarhataa kunye wabaphangi." Bafundisa abantwana ukuba bazibekele iinjongo ezifanayo, ukuba basebenze njengeqela, ukwenza abahlobo kunye ukunceda abanye. Yaye enoba oko ayinyamezeleki isandi unakho, xa abantwana efanayo ziqhotyoshelwe yethu esisityebi zobuqhawe. Apha ke ukuba umama ezolileyo nenkathalo kakhulu.

Yini na ukuba

Zorhwebo ezifana yokudlala oluzenzekelayo, kuveliswa zize zithengiswe namhlanje enkulu. ahluke ngayo izinto ezo zenziwe njengempahla okanye isinyithi, iplastiki, iinkuni njalo njalo. Kakade ke, kukho oomatshini ezahlukeneyo ngobukhulu. Ukususela kwabancinane, nokukhanya ngokwaneleyo ukuze enkulu, leyo ndaphakanyiswa ngezandla ezibini kuphela. Indlela yesi sixhobo nayo ezahlukeneyo: zomatshini kunye zombane. Kwaye ukudubula ngokwahlukileyo. Abanye abaqapheli ukuba babulawe bonke, nje ibonise izixhobo. Okunye izibane ezidanyazayo ezahlukeneyo kwaye wenze izandi. Okokugqibela, kukho imifuziselo ezivelisa edubuleyo ntoni ezinye iingqalutye, iibhola okanye enye into imikhosi eyahlukileyo lokwenene.

ukuphepha

Izinto ezifana kumatshini zokudlala, kunokuba yingozi abantwana. Okokuqala, xa ukhetha yokudlala kufuneka ithathele ingqalelo ubudala wosana. Ngoko ke, lo mntwana umatshini stroller maxa onke ukuba nantoni na. Oneminyaka emithathu-toddler sele kakhulu ngokukhawuleza, ukubaleka adlale kunye nabahlobo emfazweni, kodwa into ebuhlungu ncinane. Ngaba kuba yinxalenye zombane yingozi kumatshini, amatakane ungancamathisela emlonyeni kwaye wabaginya namalungu amancinane kuphela izixhobo, kodwa iibhetri. Ngenxa yoko, ukuthenga omtsha umntwana ayithandayo Thompson umatshini zokudlala, kungcono ukubukela ixeshana, indlela iyisebenzisa. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, kukho into ebonisa kuye. Kodwa ukuba kukho izizathu inkxalabo, kubhetele nithi xha kude kube ngoku, xa unyana wam omdala ulumke.

Ukukhetha izixhobo ezifana kumatshini zokudlala, kufuneka sisekelwe eyodwa ingqalelo elula: kuya kuba umdla nakubafana. Yaye musani ukuba buhlungu xa imodeli eninzi kwaye zinhle uyazifohloza kumcimbi iintsuku okanye iiyure. Wondle ubabalo lwakhe, wanika kid uvuyo. Kwaye ngaxeshanye ukwazi ndoqhayisa kwabazana, indlela ekhawulezileyo na umntu yakho encinane ukuncothula into eza kunyuka omdala, okrelekrele abasemzini zobulumko umalume ngumdala.