Izindululo abazali enkulisa. Iingcebiso kubazali

Inguqu evela lwazi ikhaya ukuba kokuya esikolweni - kwibakala ebalulekileyo kubomi nawuphi na umntwana, yaye kuya kuwa ingaba iingcebiso luncedo kakhulu kubazali. Enkulisa, uxanduva umntwana wakho iwela umkhathaleli, kodwa kunjalo igalelo lakho kukumelana sayo iya kuba yebaluleke gqitha.

Ukuma kusasa emnyango, nawe, isoyika kwekhono amaqhosha kwaye kukho inkxalabo gentle ukubukela usana lwakhe, nto leyo buzinze asitsala ibhatyi na ilizwi ebalulekileyo: "! Musa ukunceda mna, ndenze ntoni" Emva kwemizuzu embalwa, isigaba esitsha ebomini kuqala kuye: ezincinane umntu amanyathelo engazinzanga ehlabathini lohlengahlengiso loluntu, apho ulindele lukhulu ngamava amatsha kunye sifumanise izinto ezimangalisayo. Wakhuthaza kwaye ngumonde, kwaye ubone yonke iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo ukusuka isiqabu ukuphakuzela, kuthekani ukuba akayithandi? Ke ukuba umntu akakwazi ukwenza abahlobo kunye nabanye abantwana? Kwaye, bathi, abantwana baqalisa ukugula kakhulu, xa baya abancinane ... Ewe, le nkqubo entsonkothileyo yaye iphikisana, nento eniyithethayo.

Ekondleni umntwana enkulisa

Ukutya - ingongoma ebalulekileyo kakhulu ukusebenza kunye nophuhliso omzimba womntwana. iingcebiso zethu uchaze ukuba abazali babe ngabangcwalisiweyo ngakumbi kule mzuzu.

Uqeqesho kufuneka uqale kwiinyanga ezimbalwa: ikhosi olufanelekileyo ngokutsha uya kuba imo samandla ngokungqinelana lowo balindelwe umntwana wakho enkulisa.

Ngokuqhelekileyo sijongeka njengoku:

• Breakfast - 8:30
• Isidlo sasemini - 12:00
• Umthamo - 15:00
• Dinner - 17:00

Kubalulekile ukuba oomama nootata bafunde icebiso kwangethuba ukulungiselela abazali babantwana zabasakhasayo, ezingabo inguqu ukusuka ekhaya ukuya enkulisa yokudla. Wakuba wanceda usana lwakho ukuba ziziqhelanise eminye imithetho yobomi ekhaya, nokuba izilumle kubo kuya kuba lula ukusuka. Oku mna nawe lula ukutshintsha indlela yakho ukusoloko izenzo ukuziqhelanisa, umzekelo, yeemeko ebezingalindelekanga, yaye indoda encinane ngokucotha uyilumle imikhwa kanye ukusekwa. Ukuba Bamfaka etafileni ngaphambi kunesiqhelo, yena nje akafuni ukuba - kuba wayedla ulambile rhoqo.

Ngoko ke, ngokuthe ngcembe ukuhambisa ukudla imizuzu eli-15, de indlela ingu kufutshane enkulisa. Kungakuhle, ngoko ke kufuneka zigcinwe nje umntwana akabi aye kwiklasi yokuqala. Iingcebiso kubazali yamsukela utitshala okanye intloko yeziko, kuya kunceda abazali ukuba kuhoywane bokuqonda ukuba alungiselele yosuku ngalunye.

imenyu kid ngayo

Umthamo servings enkulisa kulungisiwe kwaye kuxhomekeke ubudala umfundi. Suite iimveliso kakhulu ezahlukahlukeneyo. Noko ke, abanye abazali badla ukukholelwa ukuba kukho umntwana wondleke. Ngenxa yoko - kukuzingxala ngokutya kunye nokungaphumeleli wolawulo ekhoyo. Ukongeza, ukuba umntwana akasayi kusetyenziswa naziphi izitya okanye nje andizange Wazama, mhlawumbi egadini, wayesala kubo. Ngako oko ke kucetyiswa ukuba ukungenisa umntwana wam borscht, isuphu, kunye casseroles - xa eziguqulweyo na izitya kakhulu eqhelekileyo, kunye nabo basoloko aza mali ubuncinane ngamanqatha.

izakhono Self

Izindululo abazali enkulisa, kakade, kuya kusinceda ukulungiselela umntwana iimeko ezintsha ebomini, kodwa nokuziqhelanisa kuya kwenzeka ngamaxesha nzima ngakumbi ukuba izakhono ubuncinane self-nkonzo nangoku yayintsha usana lwakho. Ukubamba icephe kwaye usebenzise ukuba uhlambe izandla phambi kokutya, yawo ukubeka ubuncinane kwezinye izinto isinxibo - zonke ezi zakhono kakhulu lula ubomi umntwana enkulisa. Kakade ke, utitshala uya kuba khona, ukuba kukho ubunzima, kodwa kuyimfuneko ukunika ngenxa inani labantwana kweli qela - nokuba nomnqweno onamandla yenye (nakuba sikho ngoncedo oonesi) abakwazi ukuba ukondla ngecephe ngalinye.

Izikhokelo abazali, kuba lowo nto intloko umyezo, kwakunye ngumongikazi, baya kuwa kwiimeko ezinjalo kunokuba luncedo kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba imikhwa ezifunyenwe ekhaya, kudlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ixesha isidlo malunga neyure. Kaloku, ukuba le ndlu umntwana wakho ibihlaba abonela ixesha eliqingqiweyo.

Ngosuku lokuqala - yena kakhulu kunzima ...

Ngaba axhobe zonke iingcebiso eziyimfuneko kuwe. Ukuze abazali enkulisa katitshala lobuhlobo uya kusoloko ukufumana awona mazwi achanekileyo, ngenxa yokuba ukuqonda ixhala yakho nditsho iyaxhalabisa encinane kunye nawe. Nantsi ke, ucango baziswa ukuba kufuneka ukuba ushiye ubutyebi bakho niye ngokuhlwa - kwaye enyanisweni de kutshanje wena iyure ukuba nako ukuhamba kude kuye! Musa ukuphaphazela! Abantwana uziva, ngoko akukho intlokoma - nabuganga uthembe abasebenzi kumaziko epriskuli.

Unxibelelwano kunye nabasebenzi

Qiniseka Naladte uqhagamshelane kunye nabanonopheli ndiyaniyaleza ummangaliso babo. amanani banikana ukuba isoloko kwebala. Buza ukuba kukho thethwano abazali - oko ithuba elikhulu simazi nabasebenzi enkulisa kwaye uzithembe yabo inokuthenjwa. Khawusixelele umntwana wakho ukuba ubona kufanelekile, kwaye nkqu nangaphezulu - maxa wambi nkqu obonakala izinto olungephi kusebenza njengesixhobo kumsebenzi kunye nabantwana. Themba le ndoda - yaye umntwana wakho uthanda, kakhulu, ukuba simthembe, kwaye sele ibe yimpumelelo. Yenza usana lwakho ngendlela eyakhayo, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, wamazisa ukuba uya kubuyela kuye. Kakade ke, kuyabonakala! Kodwa yena - kuwe.

lithathelwe social

Abanye abazali bakhetha ukuba iqela naye umntwana ekuqaleni, ukuba kunokwenzeka. Kubalulekile ukuba ungayibaxi ngononophelo - oku kuya kukunceda migaqo ilandelayo. Ukuze abazali, ixesha nolwamkelo abantwana efanayo akukho lula - ngokuba lawo onke ya indoda encinane bebona nje ezabo. Apha eyona nto ibalulekileyo - musa ukuphazamisa zoqhagamshelwano komntwana kunye noontanga babo. ebusweni bakho ezicacileyo ukuze ukudala imeko ingacaci, kwaye endaweni edlala kunye noontanga babo, umntwana uya kukhula ukuba amadolo - hayi abavumi.

Iluncedo ingakumbi ke iingcebiso kubazali iqela eliphakathi. Nangona inani izakhono, abafundi kwiminyaka 4-5 ubudala ukuziqhelanisa nokuba nzima ngaphezu oogxa babo. Ezi abantwana asetyenziswa kokuba kwiziko ingqalelo yentsapho iphela, ngoko akukho lula ukufumana ulwimi eqhelekileyo kunye nabo. Ngokufuthi waphoswa kakhulu ukuya kwenye - ngoko ke sonqene ukucela uncedo komkhapheli, ngoko, phezu koko, unqande ingqalelo yakhe kwabanye abantwana, ezama ungayicima ngokupheleleyo kuye.

Ezi zikhokelo zilula kubazali enkulisa kuya kukunceda uphephe iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo, kunye kid yakho - isiqalo ngempumelelo ehlabathini kobudlelwane nabanye. Oku kuya kuba isiseko esihle sokuphuhlisa ubomi abadala.