Isizathu sokuba babe ndlongo-ndlongo nabantwana kuba umama ifi ngexa lokukhulelwa?

Khawube nomfanekiso-ngqondweni komithiyo abalangazelela omfuthelayo phezu icuba. Ngokuqinisekileyo uyakwazi ukucinga ukuza nangoko umntwana ngaphambi kunye enobunzima obuncinane kakhulu, nto leyo kunzima ukulwa umphefumlo wakhe wokuqala umoya. Kodwa akunakwenzeka uya ezithi qatha umntwana ndlongondlongo. iziphumo zophando Entsha zibonisa ukuba ukutshaya kunye nokukhulelwa awahambisani, ekubeni lo mkhwa unobangela ndlongo ebantwaneni.

Association phakathi ukutshaya unina nolaka umntwana

Ezi izigqibo zisekelwe kuphando, eyinxenye ye monitor enkulu, kujongwe indlela abaziphatha ngayo abantwana 1745 abaneminyaka ukusuka kwiinyanga-18 ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu enesiqingatha. Njengoko ukuziphatha silwe ingqalelo izinja, ayekelele ezipalini, kwakunye impendulo silwe nabanye abantwana. Uprofesa wezifo kwiYunivesithi Montreal Zhan Seguin, ngubani na naye intsebenziswano umbhali zesifundo, wathi ngokutshaya abasetyhini abakhulelweyo ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: "Ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kuba sisigqibo embi. Ukutshaya ichaphazela luvo komntwana ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, nokuba ndlongo - le yenye obubonakala. Ngenxa lo mntwana ngenxa yokuba ukutshaya kuba nzima ukulawula ngakumbi. "

iziphumo zophononongo

Uphononongo zahlola amanye amanani umdla. Koomama abakhulelweyo kunye imbali bazikhethe, ngubani etshaya imidiza ubuncinane ezilishumi ngemini, ukuba nokwenzeka ukuba umntwana wabo uya kuba ndlongondlongo, landa ngama-67 ekhulwini. Kwabo oomama etshaya imidiza ubuncinane ezilishumi ngemini, okanye zange ndatshaya konke konke, ingozi yaba ncinci - ekhulwini 16 kuphela. Uphononongo kwakhona lwafumanisa ukuba icuba abantwana lunamandla kakhulu iintsapho umvuzo ungaphantsi kwe amane amawaka eerandi ngonyaka. Nale imali abatshayayo wafumana ingozi sorokaprotsentny ukuba abantwana babo baya kuba ndlongondlongo, ngelixa abo iintsapho ingeniso ngaphaya eli nani kungaba wazola; ngokuba unyule bona ipesenti nje-8%.