Indlela ukuqaphela gay: isini kunye nokuziphatha

Ngamanye amaxesha kubalulekile ukuba ulwazi ekunene malunga umntu othile. Ngokomzekelo, ukuze isigqibo ukuvumela ukuba kuye isangqa yakho yasekuhlaleni okanye hayi, ukuba ngaba kuye usebenziswano okanye ayeke ukwenza njalo. Malunga abantu abakwazi kugwetywa kuphela iimpawu ezithile yokuziphatha kwabo, umlinganiswa yabo kufuneka zithathelwe ingqalelo ngokupheleleyo. Emva koko, siza kuyihl 'amahlongwane le iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo, njengoko isini kunye neendlela umiselo lwayo lomda.

Ukuba intombazana entle, mhlawumbi uyazibuza ukuba kutheni umntu omthandayo, zange unikele ingqalelo. Mhlawumbi ke omnye? okanye nje umfazi akanamdla? Impendulo yalo mbuzo, uya kunceda ukuba wonge ixesha elininzi. Okanye, ukuba wena a guy, kungoko ke orientation unayo yonke into ukuze, ngoko ungafuna musa ukudibanisa i "blue '? Okanye, mhlawumbi, phezu koko, ufuna ukudibana-nye? Oko kwenzeka kakhulu. Ukuba unomdla impendulo kweminye yale mibuzo, eli nqaku ubhekiswa kuni. Ngoko ke, makhe sithethe malunga nendlela yokuqonda gay.

Uphawu lokuqala - i inqaku eliphezulu: ukuba wena a guy kwaye ubone indlela abanye ukuba eyindoda, ezazingaziwa ngokupheleleyo, ezibonisa ukuba nomdla ngesiquphe kunye nobuhlobo. Umzekelo, ukuba iqela entsha ngokupheleleyo lo mntu ukuba baxoxe nawe iye ngaphezulu kakhulu kunokuba kunye nabanye abantu. Ngokwendalo, oku akukho sizathu ukuqwalasela ukuba i "blue". Kodwa khangela iyafaneleka. Indlela ukukwenza oko? ujongo Long kwaye nzima kuye. Ukuba umntu abayikhathalelanga (njengoko kufuneka kulo mzekelo), iya kukhangela imizuzwana embalwa iza kuthatha icala. Kodwa ukuba uvavanyo iqhubeka ixesha elide ukukhangela ngqo emehlweni kwaye zehlisa kubo, oku uphawu lokuqala. Uphawu kunokwenzeka yesibini - ngoncumo. yamadoda, ukunxibelelana kunye nezinye, kubalulekile kakhulu badla ngokungabikho. Ukuze smile xa lilungisa - neenkumbulo ezimnandi, okanye emva kokuba yintlekisa ngempumelelo.

Indlela ukuqaphela gay? Ngokuqhelekileyo, kuba umntu ahlangana nabo. Ukuba umrhanelwa sikhetha abafazi, le "phakathi". Ukuba, phezu koko, uthanda amadoda, ngoko indoda ebizwa ngokuba "gay." Kodwa njengoko sithetha nzulu, kukho ezinye izinto ezimbini ezibalulekileyo eziza kuthi lukhulu ngaye. ngobubele ukuba utshatile? Ngaba unayo intombi? Ukuba sithetha umntu sele iminyaka 28-30 ubudala, iimpendulo zale mibuzo Lubonakala ngokupheleleyo. Kakade ke, kungenzeka ukuba okwexeshana kubudlelwane okanye ngesibhambathiso nyulu, okanye ilanga uFaro. Kodwa kukho nenye indlela kwezi kuqikelelo, nto leyo ngoku akuqhelekanga, hayi nje kumazwe ukumelana eYurophu naseMelika, kodwa kwilizwe lethu.

Ukuphendula umbuzo malunga nendlela yokuqonda indoda eqaqambileyo, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba uninzi umntu awathethe imbonakalo yakhe. Ngaba unalo icici indlebe yokunene (ubuncinane - ekhohlo)? Nokuba ufuna ukuba ngenyameko? Ngaba maxa wambi uzama ukufumana ngaphambi fashion? Nokuba enxibe extravagantly engaqhelekanga? Ingaba kukho umsesane esandleni sakhe encinane? ukuba ufuna ukuya kuba phakathi, kodwa xa sithetha kubafazi enika iimpendulo banal kakhulu, ebonisa kuphela yokungabi namava? Iimpendulo zale mibuzo kuya kunceda kule ngxaki, ukuba baqaphele indlela gay.

Abo ukufunda eli nqaku, kuyimfuneko ukuba anikele into enye ukuba bacinge ngokuba injani na uhlobo lolwazi. Ukuba uselula yaye Andibanga amava onjalo, kubalulekile ukukhangela neqabane wesini esifana nawe? Ingakumbi xa ucinga njani imiphumo zingachaphazela ukuzithemba kwakho, ukuzithemba kunye nokuba isiqalo hormone kumzimba. Ngokutsho manani, eUnited States, abafana gay yilani ipesenti bengabalulekanga yabantu, kodwa benza isahlulo sesithathu zonke ezibulalayo. Ngokucacileyo, oko ubomi elungileyo, aba bantu benze oko. Abathandana intsha ukuba okuba izihlandlo ezisixhenxe ukuzibulala bondlekile ngaphezu kweentanga zabo. Kuyinto kusefashonini bathi obufanayo - oku ke kuqhelekile. Kodwa enyanisweni ngayo unxulunyaniswa iingxaki ezinkulu - zombini impilo kunye nasengqondweni.