Indlela ukuba utshintshe ubomi bakho namhlanje ngcono

Umbuzo of ukutshintsha njani ubomi babo ngenxa ngcono, inkxalabo kwabaninzi. Makhe ukuphendula kuyo.

Thina abakhomba yeentshukumo

Ngokufuthi amaphupha elizayo, sibona thina onwabile xa ezinye iziganeko. Sibona ekupheleni eyunivesithi, ukuthenga imoto entsha, ahlawule imini. Kakade ke, abo amaphupha Sipheni HIV, kodwa phakathi sifumana kuphela luxanduva bekulindelekile.

Le umyalelo zinto - lula. Noko ke, singakwazi ukuguqula le meko, uthi wena: "Ndifuna ukutshintsha ubomi bam!". Kwaye namhlanje singaqala ukuba uvuyo bonwabe.

Masijonge amaphupha ethu, iinjongo, ze-odolo yazo

1. Thina injongo, akunamsebenzi nokuba yintoni, nokuba loo nto ukuthenga imoto, indawo yokuhlala, ahlawule isixa semali. Kwakhona umsebenzi owuthandayo, lowo sasifuna, apho sithanda. Kodwa ke de kufikelelwe kule njongo, hi musa uvuyo nolonwabo. Ngoku khawucinge ngako oku, ngenxa yokuba phambi kokuba waphupha ngalo msebenzi ezisa ulonwabo nawe? Ngoko ke kutheni izinto rush, nivuye namhlanje, musa sukela. A imoto, indawo yokuhlala, Cottage, imali - uya kuza ixesha.

2. Enye tyala ivame kakhulu, kodwa ngaphantsi ezinqwenelekayo. Kukho injongo, kodwa ukufezekisa oko kufuneka kubingelela luvo yakho, ixesha into enye. Umzekelo, umsebenzi engazisi akukho uvuyo, akukho mnandi, kodwa kukho into kunceda ukuphumeza le njongo. Ke kaloku, nanku umbuzo wokuba ingaba kunjalo igudileyo kukuthi yakho injongo, ephupheni idini babekho ngenxa kuyo.

3. Eyona rhoqo, kwixesha elizayo yenzeka ukuba, ukuba kufikelelwe kule njongo, siyaqonda ukuba mawuhlawule phezulu kakhulu ngexabiso.

I sigqibo? Ukuxolela, ekhohlwa amaphupha akho? Kodwa indlela ezinokonakala ngayo ukutshintsha ubomi bakho? Kukho nenye indlela yokuphuma kule meko, impendulo yombuzo ukutshintsha njani ubomi babo bube ngcono. Impendulo ilula - ukubamba umzuzu ngoku! Qala novuyo kunye novuyo namhlanje.

Ngoko ke, sikhetha kwakhona usukelo lwethu, kodwa yiloo ndlela siza ukukhetha eyahlukileyo. Kuqala kwinto zonke, siza kuqwalasela ukuba namhlanje kwaye ngoku kusizisela ulonwabo nolwaneliseko. Not fun, kodwa ke kuyanelisa, kuba umbono capacious ngakumbi, oko kuquka uvuyo nolonwabo, imiqobo weyisayo, nto leyo akusoloko kumnandi. Oko kukuthi, ke musa ukunikel 'ingqalelo isiphumo, ze uqale bagxile kwinkqubo. Uninzi iinkqubo ngobomi ukufezekisa iziphumo, yaye zibaluleke kakhulu kuthi ukuba sifumane impendulo yombuzo ukutshintsha njani ubomi babo bube ngcono. Ukukhetha usukelo entsha, kubalulekile ukuba xa intliziyo inkqubo, hayi umphumo.

Umzekelo umsebenzi apho usebenzisa iitalente yakho, Musa ukukhangela ngokwayo, injabulo yokuqhuba ngendlela esempilweni yobomi, kunokuba ukuphumeza ezinye uhlobo uhlobo ngokwasemzimbeni, ndavuyiswa uqhuba imoto entsha endaweni awuthenge. Umphumela abatheni. A yinkqubo ethatha ixesha elide.

Ngamanye amaxesha siye sicinge ukuba utshintshe njani ubomi bakho bube bhetele, yaye kubonakala ngathi, sibona impendulo kwi utshintsho olwenzeka kwi nomsebenzi ohlawulayo. Kodwa ukuba ngumgibe? Masibe nobuntu ngokwabo. Umsebenzi omtsha ubonakala kuthi a imivuzo mnandi, xa siye ekhaya kunye isixa ngeenxa imali. Ngoku khawucinge Ezinye iintsuku ezingama-30 xa imivuzo bengahlawulwa kwaye kufuneka basebenze, hayi kwi ndawo, usuku emva kosuku, unyaka emva konyaka.

Akukho ngcono ukusebenza apho uya konwaba? Kwaye le yindlela ukuphucula imisebenzi yabo nempumelelo.