Indlela makangahlukani nendoda yakhe 'igazi omncinane'?

Kuba abathile, umsantsa - yinto yintlekele ngayo ebomini. Kuba abanye - isiganeko nzima, kodwa hayi intlekele. Indlela hlukana nomyeni wayo ukuze ukuba gxwa kokudakumba kunye ukuqala ubomi ekuqaleni? Ukupheliswa ubudlelwane yinto engelula nangqalileyo. Akuvamile, isibini eso asinakukwazi bevumelana yonke ngokuzolileyo nozolileyo. Ufumane Iingcebiso wengqondo okanye ingcali kwiingxwabangxwaba usapho Kuya kukunceda uqonde indlela yokwahlula kumyeni wakhe, ahlale naye ngoxolo. Okokuqala kufuneka ibe lo mfazi yena kunye nomyeni wakhe. Kakade ke, abantwana. indlela jikelele ukusombulula zonke iingxaki apho, Noko ke, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ubonelele ngeengcebiso ezithile olulula ukuba ashiye indoda yakhe 'igazi omncinane "kwaye ngaphandle iintlekele kaShakespeare.

Okokuqala ukuhlalutya ozilindeleyo wakho kunye nezicwangciso ezinxulumene nobomi bosapho. Yintoni ayiphumelelanga kulo mtshato evumelana wena ngento engahluthisiyo noko nanini na sixolelanisiwe nje wena? Loo analysis i "isiqalo 'ukunceda kuqala. Umzekelo, ngokweembono bakho isizathu mtshato yi ingqalelo yakhe namanye amabhinqa okanye imbuka. Ngaba ungathanda ukubona oko, naba yinto uncoma. Cinga ukuba unako ukwenza into ukuguqula le meko. Ukuba akunjalo, indlela ekufuneka sibaphathe ngayo? Yintoni kutshintsha ngokwakho ukuze usebenzise amava lesibonelelo? Mhlawumbi lifikile ixesha lokuba ukuthatha unonophelo ngokwawo - inkangeleko yakhe, ihlabathi yakhe ngaphakathi, kwaye uzame zonke iindleko ukutsala ingqalelo iqabane ephumayo?

Okwesibini, ukuba ngaba isigqibo savuthwa isiqhamo, ukuqala elungiselela zokuphila ezizimeleyo. Indlela makangahlukani nendoda yakhe, xa omnye kuni uxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kwelinye icala, okanye abe nabantwana abancinane? Sonke kufuneka sicinge, uze uthethe ngubani oya kuba yaya kuphambukela apho, ngaba uqokelele njani uqeqesho abasafunda ukuhamba. Ukuba umlingane uyala ukuxhasa ngokupheleleyo kuwe ngokwasezimalini, oko kuba yezizathu eziliqela. Mhlawumbi le ndlela yena uzama ukugcina ukukhonya zemali, negunya phezu kwenu ukulawula ukuziphatha kwakho. Okanye uneemina "usapho olunye", yaye uqinisekile ukuba unako ukukwenza oko yawo yonke, abazifumana inkxaso. Khumbula, endaweni aweve ingcaciso konxulumano, ekhwaza ekhala, kuyo nayiphi na imeko ngcono kakhulu indlela eyakhayo. Akafuni ukuxhasa? Ungenza isicelo senkxaso yomntwana enkundleni. Noko ke, okokuqala zonke zama ukuma ngeenyawo zabo. Cela kwinkxaso yentsapho, kodwa musa ukuhamba nokuqukuqela. Khumbula ukuba ubomi bakho busezandleni yakho kwaye kufuneka uqale zonke ukuthatha unonophelo ngokwayo. Fumana umsebenzi oza kukunika ubuncinane lozinzo. Ukuziva abazithembileyo kwezinye iinkalo zobomi, uya kuba ukulungele ngakumbi ukuba komsipha.

Ngomhla umbuzo nini ukuba ashiye indoda yakhe, ngokucacileyo nditsho kwengqondo ukuba baphendule. Enokwenzeka, xa bobabini ukulungele. Oko kukuthi, nobabini unayo indawo yokuhlala, kukho yokuziphilisa, kwaye kukho ithemba lekamva. Kunokuba ukulinganisa kwaye ubunzima, cinga indlela yokutshintsha imeko ibe ngcono. Amaxesha amaninzi, abazali ngabantwana ngokwabo abafumana ngenxa yokuba intombi yakhe umtshato nendoda yakhe. Ngapha koko, kubonakala ukuba avuthululwe iziseko yobomi bakhe. Eyona olunamandla iinkolelo abo badala, eqinisekile yokuba "ngenxa yentsapho 'ukuze bangazilibali izinto zabo baze benze nawuphi na umbingelelo. Yaye eneneni, yonke into ingaba ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye loo mtshato uza kunika ithuba ukufumana ekugqibeleni ulonwabo lwabo, ukuze baqonde ngokwabo, siyaqiniseka ngokwabo. Ngoko ke, eli cebiso eziphambili: khangela nokugxininisa iingenelo discontinuity kunye nobomi elizimeleyo. Amaxesha amaninzi, zininzi kakhulu minuses.