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Nanny kunye umnakekeli - isixhobo kubalulekile ukuba oomama abaselula

Ekuqaleni, ukunceda umama nosana kukho unxibelelwano. Ukuzama ukwenza yonke into ngokwakho, anisayi ngokukhawuleza kuphela silahlekelwe lokugqibela lamandla akhe, kodwa nawe kufuneka ucele uncedo. Ngaphezu koko, fatigue efunde kukhokelela urhulumente edandathekileyo, yaye mhlawumbi uxinezelekile kule meko Kulula ukwenza intshukumo ephosakeleyo kwaye kwenzakalisa umntwana.

Mhlawumbi oncedisayo efanelekileyo inokuba uninakhulu le usana. Kodwa ukuba ukholelwa ukuba, nangoku ibongoza kuni, njengoko lusana, ngeli nqanaba kweziganeko kubhetele noko lokwala uncedo yakhe. abazali encane ngokuqinisekileyo ufuna ukuziva nenkathalo ngokupheleleyo, ngoko ke kungcono ukuba umntu olusondeleyo ngamava abantwana nenkathalo, kodwa inkampani ogama uyazi imida beneentloni kwaye ingqikelelo ubuchule.

A ukhetho ezilungileyo kuba ukuqhwaya ngumkhonzazana okanye umongikazi. Ngapha koko, ukuba iinkonzo zayo kuphoxa kuwe, wena inxalenye ngokulula nayo. Nezihlobo ukuba sithuthe akunakwenzeka. Qaphela ukuba igumbi uya ukuchola kwinkampani okhethekileyo.

Kuba yintoni ixesha bexesha kungcono ukumema oncedisayo? Oku kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezahlukeneyo:

- on izakhono zakho zemali

- on umnqweno wakho ukuba uzimele

- imeko emzimbeni kamama nempilo yakhe

Kamsinya nje umntwana ekhula, unina liqala ukubuyisa amandla yaye uyakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi ngakumbi nangakumbi. Noko ke, ukuba nokuba 2-3 iiveki emva kokubeleka, usafuna ndiba buthathaka, zama ukufumana indlela ubambe abancedisayo ukulungiselela ixesha elithile.

Oomama abaninzi abaselula boyika ukuba apaha ubuchule babo ukuze anyamekele usana. Ngoko ke, ukuze ufumane ezinye izakhono balahle ixhala, ngelo xesha uya kukwazi ukuba kusetyenziswa ukunyanga umntwana.

Maxa wambi kuyenzeka ukuba umama oselula uhlangabezana njani na umntwana, kodwa phantse akukho ixesha wasekhaya - ukuhlamba, ukucoca kunye ukupheka. Kule meko kuyimfuneko ukumema oncedisayo ukuba amaxesha 1-2 ngeveki. Ukongezelela ekusincedeni ngeenxa zonke endlwini, uya kuba nako ukuhlala nomntwana wakho njengokuba nawe mhlawumbi izinto ezibalulekileyo ukuyenza, nangaphandle kwekhaya.

Njengoko kuba abongikazi, akayi nje kuba ngumncedi enkulu abazali, kodwa kunceda umntwana ukuba ukuzimela kwaye kukho ucwangco.

Maxa wambi kulula ukumema nanny kuphela ebusuku ngenxa yokuba abantwana abaselula badla liphele. Kodwa kulo mzekelo, oko kuyimfuneko ukunika ixesha umntwana emva kwemini, ngoko ndikuqhelile umntu omtsha. Enoba ubuhlobo bakho kunye nabongikazi, akufuneki kutshintshwa rhoqo kakhulu. Mema aba baqeshwa ngcono ngokusebenzisa arhente yokugaya ezizodwa kwi nokukhethwa housekeepers.

Ubudala nanny ayikho kubaluleke kakhulu, kuba kwindawo yokuqala, indoda lo msebenzi kufuneka ube onesimilo esihle kwaye akwazi ukufumana kunye nabantwana.

Xa kunjalo, umntu kufuneka abe nomsindo kakhulu, njengoko kuya kuchaphazela kakubi zombini umntwana kunye nabazali.

Xa nanny yokutyumba okanye umnakekeli sele sivunyiwe, kuyimfuneko ukuba bazifunde yakhe yonke imithetho kunye nemigaqo ulawulo lemini entsatsheni. Kuyinto elula ukuba ube nencwadi okhethekileyo, nto leyo iya kunikwa: yosuku ngalunye lo mntwana, izinto umntwana unako ukucela iinombolo zeminxeba iinkonzo ezingxamisekileyo kunye nabamelwane, kwakunye iikhonsepthi owasemzini kunzima ukukhumbula kwixesha lokuqala, ezifana: apho kwaye ubuxoki ekhitshini, apho ugcina iitawuli nezinto nelinen ebhedini, indlela vula iphinde ivale kwiinkqubo ezahlukeneyo apha kule ndlu.