Imithandazo yokothuka ebantwaneni. Gobe yokothuka

umaleko ethile yalo psyche zabantu ukuba zininzi izinto esifana kunye nehlabathi isilwanyana. Oku kusebenza neemvakalelo ezisisiseko yokuzalwa, umzekelo, ukuzala kunye basinde. Enye ezibonisa yokugqibela yi imvakalelo yoloyiko ezibangela ukuba siphephe yingozi kwiimeko ubomi kunye nempilo. Kwelinye icala, kukho umba uloyiko uloyiko - inyathelo reflex ngokukhula ienjini. Ukuba ngemvo kusekho yoloyiko nga kulawulo ngendlela ethile nabemi ulawulo lwakhe abazi, xa ngesiquphe kwabonakala nodano ukubuyisela isimo kunye nempilo yakho kunzima kakhulu ngakumbi.

Konke oku kuyasebenza kubantwana abancinane, ngubani na nani nangoku musa ilifa ndikuphaphele iphuhlisiwe, akukho amava ubomi, akukho mali kolwazi. Ngoko ke nethuku busa phezu kwabo amandla ngokupheleleyo endalo yawo yamandulo ingalawuleki. Iingozi Special zabangela uloyiko uziqinise ukuze umntwana kukuba imiphumo kunokuba kubi kakhulu, uhlale ubomi. Oku kungenxa yokuba psyche zobuntwana aze usana umzimba azinayo omzimba ngokohlobo iindlela zengqondo komzimba Nokwethisa mintlhaveko etshabalalisayo ezifana noloyiko kakhulu kunye emadolweni. Ngoko ke, abazali kunye nabagcini zibaluleke kakhulu ukunqanda iziganeko lo hlobo impilo nentlalo-ntle umntwana.

Indawo yakade ukothuka umntwana walwa ezahlukeneyo ngcono iindlela. Enye athandwa kakhulu yaye ukho kuzo zonke iinkcubeko iindlela waba preporuchenie iivoti umntwana kwamagunya aphezulu - izithixo, imimoya, iingelosi, kuzo kunye namanye amaqumrhu azithanda abafunda imithandazo ezahlukeneyo uloyiko kunye neso elibi. Ukongezelela, ngokusebenzisa umlingo kunye namakhubalo abantu bazama ukuthintela iimpembelelo ezimbi amandla eziyingozi kunye needemon ezahlukeneyo komntwana.

Ukususela ngoko, kwathabatha iinkulungwane ezininzi, abantu baye bafunda ukuba idade ngapha iilwandle, ukulawula isimo sezulu, wasungula umbane, waze waqala ukubhabha emajukujukwini kunye nezidalwa eziphilayo eyenziwe. Kodwa umlingo, inkolo, usathandwa phakathi kwabantu. Ngamnye ngokwakhe uchaza isizathu sokuba oku. Umntu kakhulu bakholelwa ekubeni ukhona siyibambe parallel angamarhoqorhoqo, ngokomoya, yaye ngubani na onxulumanisa ukusebenza kwengqondo of self-hypnosis. Nakuphi na enyanisweni, umthandazo yokoyika ebantwaneni, kwakunye nezinye izinto isiko, usebenza okwangoku. Kungenxa yoko le nto iyavakala ukuthetha ngazo ubuncinane ukukhokelwa jikelele.

Kuhlobo yokoyika

Ethetha ngesothuso, simele siqale bachukumise isihloko hormone. Xa ingqondo ifumana uphawu lwangaphandle, nto leyo aluthatha "SOS", ngoko nangoko Zakhululwa isabelo ingonyama igazi ngayo iadrenaline, nto leyo izama umzimba yokulwa ingozi. Kwelinye icala angene ukusebenza kunye nezinye iihomoni kunye neurotransmitters, ezahlukileyo kwabasetyhini kunye namadoda. Ngoko maxa wambi ndiye koyika ezilawulayo kunye ngokoqobo ubophelela izandla zabantu neenyawo. Ingakumbi yingozi kule ndlela, cholecystokinin, elinoxanduva iimvakalelo ukwesaba, ixhala, badandatheke kunye ukugula ngokwasemzimbeni ngamaxesha yoloyiko.

Iimpawu yokoyika abantwana

Ifunk amaninzi kubonakala umntwana ekhala, ukuziphatha Ndandingonwabanga, ukwala ukuba nidle, kwaye amanabukeni ezimanzi. Oku kunokuba zombini izinto zangaphandle, kwaye kusekelwe yofuzo. Eku sunguleni, ngasendleleni, kuthathelwa ingqalelo xa amabala amayelenqe ethile kunye nemithandazo yokothuka ebantwaneni. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba unobangela yokugula baby - kuba uloyiko, hayi ezinye iimeko kunye nezifo.

Imithandazo yokothuka ebantwaneni

Kumazwe ahlukeneyo kukho kwakhona bafunde izithethe ezahlukeneyo, imibhiyozo kunye nemithandazo woyisa uloyiko. Oku kungenxa awohluke yesiko lendawo kunye nemfundiso yonqulo ezikhoyo. ERashiya, umzekelo, ekubeni imithandazo lobuKristu becala Orthodox ukusuka kukothuka isicelo. Nangona parallel yaye wayehlala ibonisa onombono yobuhedeni. Ke wona umthandazo lamaKristu, uphawu inkululeko yawo yokuvakalisa izimvo ngomlomo. Nje ngeso babuyele kuThixo uze ucele amazwi akhe phezu Child Protection. Ukuba unengxaki amagama wakho, Thandazo Orthodox ezifundisa iindlela esele zenziwe ukukhetha kuzo. nazo zingasetyenziswa Kugqityiwe umthandazo ukothuka usana, kodwa kufuneka kumazwi abanye ukutyala ukholo lwabo umphefumlo. Kungenjalo, kuya kuba nje gibberish nokufunda amagama ngamampunge.

Gobe yokothuka

Ngokuphathelele kule izinto zemveli nethandwayo ezifana sebali, iye iinkalo ezimbini ezibalulekileyo. Okokuqala, ayikho umthandazo. Umthandazo ukothuka baby yahlukile kule necebo ngomthandazo sicela uncedo ngaphezulu kwaye ukudala amandla yayo wokhuselo namandla sebali. Lo msebenzi osemqoka yesibini kukuba ibandla bobabo izigameko ezimbi kakhulu - ubugqwirha kugqalwa isono esinzulu gqitha, sivuma ukuba dyavolosluzheniyu. Kunjalo iziza yokoyika eRashiya ebesoloko wanda, yaye ngokufuthi babeze kakhulu Umbala zamaKristu, ixesha yenguqu ukugqiba umthandazo luloyiko ebantwaneni. Sebenzisa okanye hayi - wonke isigqibo ngokwakhe.

UMZEKELO onge kukothuka

Emva koko funda sebali phezu kwamanzi, wathulula kwisitya encinane. Le manzi ke kufuneka ahlambe usana kusasa nangokuhlwa, kwaye kwakhona ukumnika into eselwayo.

Okubhaliweyo: "Ioann Krestitel kunye noKristu, lo unguye uMsindisi indebe zaye, bamiselwa amanzi. Ndithatha i Voditsa, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama) ahlambe, ifunk wakha eziqeshiweyo. Amen. "