Imigaqo yokuziphatha kwabantwana besikolo samabanga asekuqaleni nasezikolweni. I-Etiquette kubantwana

Kubalulekile ukufundisa abantwana ukuba bahloniphe ukususela kwiminyaka yobudala. Kule nto kuxhomekeke ekubeni umntwana uya kulungele njani kuluntu lwangoku, ngokukhawuleza uza kujonga imigaqo yezoshishino aza kuyidinga kwixesha elizayo. Imithetho yokuziphatha yabantwana isebenze ngabaninzi beengqondo, nangona kunjalo, kufuneka banikezwe kubazali.

Yiyiphi imbeko?

Le ngcamango yindlela ethile yokunxibelelana phakathi kwabantu, ngenxa yobuphi ubudlelwane obusekwe phakathi kwabo (ubuhlobo, uthando, intsapho kunye nabanye). Isiqinisekiso sabantwana besikolo esikolweni kwezinye izikolo zifundiswa kwiiklasi ezincinci, kwaye abanye ababenayo ingcamango encinane yesihloko esibalulekileyo. Kukuqinisekisa ukuba abafana kunye namantombazana kwixesha elizayo banokuhlala behlala kuluntu, abazali kufuneka bafundise le ndlela yokunxibelelana.

Ngaba wazinikela?

Ukujonga indlela yokunxibelelana kwabantwana abaselula, abaninzi abanokholo kwengqondo bayazibuza ukuba umgaqo-siseko awuzange uphume. Nangona kunjalo, bathuthuma ngokukhawuleza, bethetha ngokuba akunakwenzeka ukwakha ubudlelwane obuqhelekileyo ngaphandle kwayo, kuba kuya kuba ne-backback (ukuhlaziywa) kwexesha eliphantse. Imigaqo yokuziphatha yabantwana inokuhlukaniswa ngamaqela ngamaqela amaninzi:

• Igumbi lokudlela (indlela yokuziphatha etafileni);
• Indwendwe (indlela yokuziphatha ngokutyelela kunye neendwendwe);
• Intetho (indlela yokuthetha noontanga, nabantu abadala, abangabazi);
• Kwiindawo zikawonkewonke (indlela yokuziphatha kwizithuthi zikawonkewonke, ipaki, ivenkile, ithala, iisksi, i-cinema kunye nabanye).

Bonke aba bazali banokugonywa beselula, ngelixa ingqondo ikhuphe ngokukhawuleza ulwazi kunye nokuziphatha. Kuyaphawuleka ukuba umyalelo wabantwana besikolo sokufunda isikolo uquka zonke izinto ezikhankanywe apha ngentla, ngokuqwalasela nje iimpawu zobudala.

Iminyaka 2-3

Ngeli xesha, abantwana baqala ukuthetha kwabo abakhutheleyo ngentetho ngehlabathi elibajikelezile. Kwaye ngeli xesha sifanele siqale ukuchazela kubo imithetho elula yokuziphatha yabantwana. Okokuqala, igumbi lokudlela. Uyintoni na? Ikhowudi yemithetho encinci, kodwa imigaqo ebalulekileyo ekufuneka yaziwe kubantwana.

Etiquette yeTable

Okokuqala, abantwana abafanele bakhiphe ukutya, bayibeke phezu kwetafile, bayiphonye ngaphandle kwesitya. Lo mthetho ngowona siseko. I-label yetibhengezo kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-2-3 ayininzi kakhulu. Kwanele ukuba abantwana baziphatha ngokuthula baze bathule etafileni, abayi kuthetha xa besidla.

Inkcubeko yeNtetho

Abantwana balesi siko kunzima ukunika amagama anzima, kodwa akusiyo isizathu sokubanika. Iintsana ezisuka kwiminyaka yobudala zifuna ukuthetha amagama "omlingo", ekuza kuba luncedo kwixesha elizayo. Ngalo:

• Ndiyabonga;
• Nceda;
• Sawubona (siyabonga);
• I-Goodbye (yehla);
• Ukutya okunomdla;
• Ubusuku obuhle;
• Ulungile ekuseni.

Ngomlinganiselo ofanayo kubalulekile ukufundisa umntwana ukuba angakhubeki kwizinto ezincinane, kungekhona ukukhalaza ngabanye. Kule nto kuxhomekeke ekubeni uya kuba ngumqeqeshi kangakanani kwiqela elikhulu (esikolweni). Izifundo zokuziphatha zabantwana abaneminyaka engama-2-3 ziyakwenziwa ngendlela yezemidlalo, ngoko kukhangeleka kwaye kulula ukuba abantwana baqonde ulwazi olutsha. Umzekelo, ukubetha amathoyizi ozithandayo kunye nale nto okanye loo meko (i-bunny yatsho ibhere le-teddy "niyabulela" ngenxa yamasila).

4-5

Kule minyaka, abantwana sele bevumile ukufumana ulwazi olutsha, kwaye baninzi bavulelekile kubonxibelelwano bezonxibelelwano, kuba isigama sabo sesele sikhulu kakhulu. Kwaye imfuneko yokuthetha kunye noqhagamshelwano iyanda kakhulu. Kuyiminyaka engama-4 ukuya ku-5 unokuqala ukufundela "i-etiquette kwiqela" kubantwana.

Imimiselo yomninimzi wolwazi

Okokuqala, ukuya kumhlobo okanye kumhlobo, kufuneka uthabatheke kakuhle kwindlu. Ekubeni abantwana beli bakala badla ngokuzityelela zabo, abazali bafanele bajonge ukuba umntwana wabo ufuna kangakanani ukuhamba kwindawo ethile. Ukuba umfundi okhuselekileyo unomsindo okanye uxinezelekile, akukho nto inxibelelwano naye ayikwazi ukuphuma.

Okwesibini, awukwazi ukufuna into evela kumnini wendlu. Abazali mabaxelele umntwana ukuba abavumeli nantoni na ukuba bayichukumise kwiqela ngaphandle kwemvume. Kwaye nangakumbi! Apha ukuza kuhlangula amagama "omlingo", enokuba umntwana angabuza oko akufunayo, kumnini wendlu. I-Etiquette yezingane zasenkulisa zibonisa ukuba umntwana uya kukwazi ukumisela uxolo ngokuxhomekeka.

Okwesithathu, awukwazi ukuhlala ngokukhawuleza. Nangona ufuna ngokwenene, nangona zonke iimidlalo ziye zafunyanwa kwakhona, kwaye izinto zibuyiselwa kwakhona. Kuyafaneleka ngokukhawuleza (ngaphambi kokutyelela ukutyelela) ukuba uchaze umntwana ukuba umninimfuno kufuneka adle ngexesha, hlamba uze ulale, kungakhathaliseki ukuba utyelelo lwakho, oko kuthetha ukuba kufuneka uhambe ekhaya xa abazali bakho banquma.

Ukuba umhlobo ufikile kumntanakho, ke inkosi yakho kufuneka ikwazi ukuziphatha:

1. Yabelana ngamathoyizi akho nezinto.
2. Musa ukucaphukisa kwaye ungabethethi.
3. Iidywidi kunye nezidlo ezidlowayo.
4. Ngenisa isivakashi ukuze angakhathazeki kwaye acinezelekile.

Imigaqo yokuziphatha kwabantwana ayikho into eyinkimbinkimbi, kodwa ukuba uyaphuthelwa ubuncinane omnye wabo, kukho umngcipheko wokufumana i-egoist kunye ne-brewer esikhundleni somntwana onothando nothando.

Abafundi besikolo samabanga aphantsi

Emva kokuba i-kindergarten sele isele emva, umntwana ufumana uxinzelelo oluthile, ehlaselwa kwisikolo esincinane. Nangona kunjalo, imigaqo yokuziphatha ayiguqukiyo kuye. Ngaphezu koko, zanda kuphela. Ngoko, umzekelo, kule minyaka, ithebula elongeziweyo, intetho kunye ne-public ethics etiquette iyafaneleka.

Indlela yokuba etafileni?

Kuloo mthwalo kulowo umntwana sele wayesazi, imithetho emitsha emitsha yongezwa:

• Musa ukubeka iindwangu zakho etafileni;
• Qala ukutya kunye nabanye, kungekudala kwaye kungekhona emva kwabo;
• Ukugqiba isidlo kunye namazwi okubonga, nangona kwakungekho mnandi;
• Ukudumisa ukutya okucetywayo;
• Vuka etafileni kunye nabanye okanye ngemvume yabantu abadala.

Ewe, izinto ezininzi apha ngasentla azidibana nakwabazali ngokwabo. Kule meko, kufuneka uqale nawe, kwaye ufundise abantwana. Ukongeza, kubalulekile ukuba ungafundisi abantwana ukuba badle egumbini okanye phambi kweTV, kuba kukho indawo ekhethekileyo (itafile yekhitshi) kule nto.

Yintoni enokuyenza kwiindawo zoluntu?

I-label of children-age age-school imisela imithetho elandelayo yokuziphatha:

1. Nika umdala kwizothutho.
2. Vumela abafazi bahambe phambili (ngokwenene kubafana).
3. Vula iingcango kumamazana (ngokwenene kubafana).
4. Ukuze uvumele abantu baphume emnyango, ngoko uhambe ngokwakho.
5. Musa ukuphosa nabani na ngomunwe wakho.
6. Ungakhethi ekhaleni, ungabuyiselanga, ungagcini, ungagxothi nadvidu (unako kwisiketi okanye ngombindi).
7. Ukuba udibanisa okanye ukhwehlela, gubungela umlomo wakho ngesundu okanye umkhonto.
8. Musa ukuhlamba ngaphandle kunye nakwiindawo zoluntu.

Olu lwazi oluncinci olufanele luchazwe kumntwana ngabazali. Ngokuba uza kukuthobela kangakanani le migaqo, kuxhomekeka kwindlela inkcubeko eya kukhula ngayo, ingaba iya kuthatha njani ingcambu kwintlalo yanamhlanje. Imithetho yokuziphatha yabantwana iyanceda ukuba ube mncinane kwaye uvuleleke kwilizwe langaphandle. Iingcali zenzululwazi zichaze ukuba kulula ukuba abantu abahloniphekileyo bafumane umsebenzi, baqale intsapho, baphumelele kwimpumelelo, kunokuba bangabikho kwezobuhlanga kunye nabangasebenzi.