Iingcebiso abazali: xa amantombazana sihlale phantsi

Wonke umama ochaphazelekayo imiba ngenyameko olululo kunye nophuhliso ngexesha umntwana wakhe oyintanda. Ingakumbi ukuba umntwana umhlobo bukaThixo sele engabambe yona iNtloko, ukukhasa, ehleli, kunye nosana lwakhe akakwazi ukwenza njalo. Enye le mibuzo rhoqo ukuba abazali cela ugqirha oselula kuxa ungakwazi uhlale phantsi amantombazana. Apha iimbono oomama kunye bezifo bengavumelani. Nkqu oogqirha ayisoloko uthetha kwaloo nto ngayo.

Kweli zathu kukho iinkolelo malunga behleli phantsi amantombazana. Umntu uthi xa kwenziwa kwangoko kakhulu, apho kuya kubakho i aguqe wesibeleko, yaye kwixesha elizayo kunokuba kwiingxaki ezimandundu kunye nenkqubo ngokwesini amantombazana (umzekelo, azikhuli, nangokurhala, kwaye okubi - ubudlolo). Abanye bathi umnqonqo ayikho kodwa ilungele umthwalo enjalo, kwaye naxa ingumbandela ozaliswe ziziphumo.

Ngoko ke ngubani zonke efanayo? Sesikolweni xa engakanani ngobudala ukuhlala phantsi amantombazana? Okokuqala ndifuna ukuthi uqhagamshelwano phakathi bokuqala ukuhlala phantsi uze Wayitsala isibeleko ayikho. Ngaphezu koko, akukho sifo kulo naliphi na ilizwe ngaphandle lalisakuba yiSoviet Union. , Nakuphi na ukutenxa ngasemva ekhohlo okanye ekunene omnye iingcali zangaphandle ingqalelo nanjengokwesimo kwaye akujongwa zophendlo lwezifo. Ingakumbi musa ukumisela unyango oluthile. Kuphela oogqirha yethu "like" ukubeka le isifo.

Yona yomqolo, ukutyala ekuqaleni ayikho impembelelo kakhulu kuyo. Kuyinto elide kuvele. Kwaye le nyaniso kuphela amantombazana. Akukho yobudala ethile apho umntwana akakwazi kuhlala phantsi, uze emva koko unako. Yonke kid yahlukile. Xa wayeza kuba nako ukuhlala phantsi, oko kuxhomekeke kuyo.

Ukuze uqonde xa ungakwazi uhlale phantsi amantombazana, makhe nomfanekiso-mfanekiso ulandelayo. inkxaso Spine amaqela kwezihlunu ethile. Ukugqiba umsebenzi kufuneka ukuba livelise kwaye ufumane namandla. Ukuba oku kwenzeka, yaye umntwana abuyiselwe kwindawo tye, umthwalo yonke ishenxiselwe kwalapho. Kodwa kuyingozi. Ngoko kukho IiCD herniated kunye ugobile.

Xa ungakwazi ukuhlala phantsi amantombazana? Vumela umntwana uya kukuxelela xa ulungele. Akukho mfuneko yokuba bangxame izinto uzibeke imvuthuluka. Kulungile ukwenza umyalezo imihla kunye umthambo, sishukumisa aqala. Ku nga nje ukuwonakalisa usana, kodwa kunceda nokomeleza inkqubo musculoskeletal. Uhlale intombi yakho yena xa kufika ixesha.

Ngamafuphi. Vumela umntwana wakho ukuba. Asinto mfuneko yokuba amanqaku makalungiswe ukuba ilingane umntu le eziqhelekileyo. Akwenzeki ukuba utsibe phakathi naliphi na inqanaba lophuhliso. Musa ukusondela ukuba ahlale phantsi intombazana, ngokuba kungekho nto iintsomi ayinyaniso okanye akunjalo, akukho okulungileyo akayi. Musa ukuphulaphula icebiso beyazi esazi yonke abamelwane kunye oomakhulu malunga nomba nokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba uhlale phantsi amantombazana, ingakumbi phantsi owazenza "Ndenza konke kulungile." Olu hlobo amava Ayibonisi ukuba yenziwa ngokuchanekileyo. Kakade ke, abo badala wazi yonke into yonke, ngokuqala nesibakala sokuba uyakwazi ukuhlala phantsi amantombazana, ziphethe nesibakala apho "Bat" kwi computer. Kodwa lumka ngeengcebiso zabo - akwaziwa iziphumo ezibi ubonakala ngokwabo njani yaye nini. Kwaye ekugqibeleni - uyamthanda abantwana bakho, bezila! Xa kungekho tyala musa ukubanyanzela ukuba benze into ningekalungi.