Fumana crazy okanye alwe

imiba yempilo yengqondo ziye elide iyaxhalabisa koluntu, yaye kwiminyaka yakutshanje kwi yangoku isantya yobomi isangqa yale miba abe ethile kakhulu. Iya isanda, bakubo zethu babuyelayo ukuba bengqondo, oko kwamkelwa kwamanye amazwe. Yaye njani na sicinga lizama yabo yengqondo, xa zinani kunye neengxaki zobomi lula ukusika emhlabeni ukusuka phantsi kweenyawo zakhe. Yintoni eyenza bebesoyikisa ukuya crazy?

Ukoyika uyahlanya kwenzeka kakhulu phakathi abafundi ubuhlakani engqondweni kwanezifundo "psychology clinical" of bengqondo elizayo. Kodwa wonke ummi, sesichengeni engapheliyo izinto ezingalunganga, kungekhona uloyiko lilambathayo impilo yakhe.

Ngokubhekisele yangaphambili, kunzima ukuba sithandabuze engqondweni yakhe xa ezi mpawu yokugula ngengqondo ngamnye ngesiquphe abazifumana bekuzo. Le nto ke iye wada wenza igama layo - 'ikhondo wesithathu sifo. " Ngaloo ndlela, kuyenzeka ukuba ngoxilongo ukukhulelwa kwi umfana ... Noko ke, abaninzi iimpawu zokugula ngengqondo yedwa ubonakala abantu siphilile. Ngesi sifo ubonisa amazwi iimpawu ezininzi kwindawo enabantu ethile.

Njengoko ndawo owesibini, baninzi abantu yonke imihla aphantsi kwedyokhwe kwingcinezelo kweemeko. Kufuneka bahlukane ngabo okanye bafunde kukukhupha iimvakalelo. Thabatha umzekelo eziliqela kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye ubone indlela umntu baphume kubo.

Ihlabathi esiphila Kuyinto ukhohlakele. Yonk 'imihla senza sijamelene ubukrwada kunye ndlongo. Kwaye zethu ukuzithemba rhoqo exhumaxhuma yaye phantsi, kuba oko kuxhomekeke nezimvo zabanye abantu. Khawucinge nje ngoko umntu, nokuba abantu basondeleyo kwizinto na luyacwangciswa, umsebenzi abuxatyiswa, yaye akukho nabahlobo. Kwimeko enjalo, hayi kuphela ukuzithemba iya kuba zero, kodwa hambana-hambana ixesha elide. Kufuneka wenze ntoni kwimeko enjalo, ukuba bagcine uxolo lwengqondo nempilo yengqondo? Okokuqala, yamkela into yokuba ingakumbi abantu ngeenxa zonke kubo, wabathanda utshintsho ayisekho. Indlela ugoba okanye akhwele, njengoko baya kukubona cwaka lowo obona. Kakade ke, kubalulekile ukuba ubuninzi ku bazikhusele kule hlobo bemisebenzi yoluntu. Kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuba ukufihla ehlabathini. Eyona nto iphambili kukwakha wasibiyela ngokwabo ukuba babakhusele ukuzithemba, udonga kwakhe kungaphumi bantwini, nodonga okhusela ukugxeka ngqiqweni, ukuhlaselwa kunye ngempazamo engenanto nawe wayalela ndlongo. Okwesibini, ubophelele zabo ukuzithemba ukuya efanelekileyo ngakumbi kule factor - kunye impumelelo yayo njongo yokwenene, iitalente. Akukho undibonayo, kwaye ukhule kubo. Ngoko ke yakho ukuzithemba kuxhomekeke kwiziphumo kanye lwemisebenzi akho, kunokuba ukusuka ibinzana random ezibalulekileyo kungacacanga ngaye. Nempumelelo yakho kufuneka ukuba ivandlakanywe ngokunxulumene kuwe, kungekhona ngokuzithelekisa nomnye umntu. Kuphela ngale ndlela uya kuba intsingiselo yobomi, ukuzithemba. Indlela kuphela uya kuziva ngathi umntu ngonobumba omkhulu zelizwi. A ukudlula crazy ngecala lakho, njengoko kakhulu ukuba akukho lingenakumbi, sane kunye nomntu uzinzile.

Kakade ke, ubomi usifundisa obuphathekayo, iingxaki esinzima sengathi asixhomekeki imigudu yethu. Kanti ke, abaninzi kubo ziyakuphunyezwa ngesidima asinde. Imvakalelo kunkwantya onamava (PTSD) kungonakalisa ubomi iminyaka emininzi. Apha, kuphela uthomalaliso unako ukusebenza izimanga. Ukufa komntu omthandayo - iqonga nto ibuhlungu ebomini wonke umntu. Kodwa udlula kwexesha. Kodwa umthwalo unyamekela isalamane ogulayo inokuba kukubhuzwa, kuba ihlala factor impembelelo ukuba asikwazi. Njani ukuba hambana-hambana kule meko? Beka iankile - Psychologist. Le ankile zokusindisa ubomi kuba nantoni na kunceda ukuba sibuyele kuye, encothula ngaphandle le meko kwaye kusikhumbuza isidima oyinyaniso ubomi ngenxa apho ungahambisa iintaba. Ngokuba umntu iankile inikwa phantsi isithembiso umtshato - ukuba ube kufuphi kwaye uyagula, kwaye usempilweni (ukuba kufuneka uthathe unonophelo iqabane). Kuba enye - umnqweno ukunika abazali abalupheleyo ...

Ukongeza, umntu ngamnye izixhobo zangaphakathi ezaneleyo ukuze ungaphumi uye crazy kuyo nayiphi na imeko. Enkosi kubo, sinako ngokuba ixesha-abancedisi. Nje ngamanye amaxesha umntu kufuneka asebenzise ezinye iinzame ukufumana izibonelelo obusezintongeni ezo. Nokuba uthando umculo, uhlobo nomnqweno ngenxa ezingaziwayo, ukukhathalela abantwana, ihlabathi kokomoya yangaphakathi.

impilo-ntle yakho isezandleni zakho. Musa ubunzima, musa ukuba ummangaliso, ulindele kuphela ngokwabo. Ukwenza nantoni na eya kuphucula imeko yakho. Cela uncedo, kwanokuba oko akukho kwimithetho yakho, uncedo kubahlobo, usapho, ngengqondo. Owu, musa akabandulula mad. Jonga izixhobo zakho zangaphakathi!