Babe ndlongo-ndlongo umntwana. Indlela kuthethathethana angaxokozeliswa luncinane?

Yintoni ndlongo?

Ndlongo - yindlela ebalulekileyo yokuziphatha, eliza othile ezendeleyo ngomntu wonke. Le yenye yeendlela yokuzikhusela. Ukuba umntu omdala uyakwazi ukulawula umsindo wakhe, umntwana izakhono enjalo kodwa. Ngoko ngaba thethana njani na angaxokozeliswa luncinane? Bonke abazali mhlawumbi ubuncinane kanye baye babona umntwana squeals zabo, uphumle, ndinemivuyo ... Ngaloo mathuba u lizibone zingenamandla. Kutheni kuphela ezi "buy, buy!" Kwiivenkile! A ootitshala isikhalazo pugnacity kwinzala yakho? Sicinga, intetho iinkcukacha malunga yini wenze oko. Kubhetele ukuba uzame ukufunda indlela oza kusabela ngayo kuhlaselo olo sana zintanda.

Yintoni ukwenza ntoni?

Okokuqala, kufuneka sifunde ukuba ukulawula iimvakalelo zakhe. Kholwani ndim, ukuba babe ndlongo-ndlongo umntwana - yinto eqhelekileyo. Kunzima ukulawula okanye ekulawuleni. Kwaye musa ukubeka umntwana umlomo abasisigxina ukubonakalisa umsindo wabo, umzekelo, "Musa ukulila!", "Musa ukwenza ingxolo!", "Musa akufuneki axangxathe wakho!". Banike nayo akufuneki ukuba, ngenxa yokuba ngoko lo mntwana uya koyika ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zabo. Oku kungakhokelela ekubeni yokuba asuke abusithelise kuwe iimvakalelo zabo oyinyaniso. izithintelo abasisigxina zingenza umntwana "ulitatasholo" ngubani na kuba nako ukulwa emva imeko efanelekileyo. Kodwa ngoyaba le yokuziphatha unyana wakhe, nabo, lowo akanako ukumshiya. Phambi kokuba ngaphandle ukuphumeza amanyathelo sazela, kufuneka aqonde ukuba "apho pinches yezihlangu ', nto leyo esisizathu sokuba unyana okanye intombi yakho intanda kangaka ziqala ukuvakalisa ukungoneliseki kwabo yokuziphatha ezifana ndlongo. Lo mntwana kakhulu izizathu zale. Okokuqala, khangela ukuba ingxaki ngokwayo.

Ukungabi ingqalelo

UMama noTata - oku yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kwaye nabantu iphambili ebomini wosana olo. Wakhula umntwana rhoqo beva ngabazali abathandekayo: "Mna matimba swinene ngoku, ukudlala ngokwabo," - eqalisa ukucinga ukuba akukho mfuneko ukuba. Kid uva ubuhlungu ngenxa yokuba umama kunye notata, njengoko kubonakala ukuba bayeke ukumthanda. Kwaye wenza oko unako ukukwenza: ukumemeza, hit amanqindi, uwisa zokudlala. Bafuna ukuhoywa. Umntwana liyayeka ukoyikisa isohlwayo, njengoko kwadala umgaqo "ukuba ndithe ukukhwaza xa kum ukuba anikele ingqalelo." Le meko kudla ngokukhokelela ekubeni ndlongo lwenzeka ebantwaneni.

Yintoni ukwenza ntoni?

Impendulo aphakame kakhulu ilula: sinikele ingqalelo angaxokozeliswa yakhe encinane. Maxa wambi kuyimfuneko ukuba kabini amandla. Nangona ucwangciso yakhe exakekile, ukudinwa, zama ukuthetha nomntwana, ukuphendula yonke imibuzo yakhe, qiniseka ukuba ngesisa. uthando olunjalo abantwana ukuzola kakhulu overactive. Mthande umntwana wakho kwaye ibonisa rhoqo kangakanani na inkathalo ngayo.

ndlongo ubukele umntwana

Ukuba ngaba usana lwakho ngesiquphe ngaphandle kwesizathu baba yokuziphatha kakubi, loo nto luphawu kubonisa ndlongo kwisixando sokwenziwa. Ekubeni kunzima ukulwa nje ngumntwana akayiqondi isizathu sokuba ukuziphatha okunjalo.

ndlongo yomlomo ngendlela umntwana

Olu hlobo sohlaselo na ekhubekisayo ezahlukeneyo, unxibelelwano ekrwada ekhubekisayo. Kukho iindlela ezininzi apho ungazama ukoyisa le ukubonakaliswa. Eyona yokuqala eqhelekileyo ithathwa kukhalinyelwa ngqo. Le yesibini ingabizwa ngoyaba ukuziphatha womntwana. Eyesithathu - indlela ethe a amatakane eliphezulu. Umzekelo: "Mna bendicinga ukuba nguwe oko ezilulamileyo lam, kwaye, oko kuvela kakubi kakhulu baziphathe". Nantsi imizekelo embalwa yendlela abazali kufuneka baziphathe xa ujamelene kwithuba ndlongo kwi umntwana. Good luck kuwe uze umthande kids zakho!