Abafuna unyango lwe ukuchama ngaphambi kwexesha?

Kunye ulwakhiwo ukuchama obungazinzanga okanye ndingekho yaphambi na kanye ezintathu ziqhelekileyo kunye namadoda kakhulu amanwele le kwekhono ngokwesini. Eneneni, uvuyo encinane, xa kusekho ijelo uthando isiqhazolo, uve indlela ezichulumancisa esimnandi, nabacinga amathuba amyoli, yaye "umhlobo" wakho sele ezinobungozi wenza into yakhe waza washiya umdlalo. Ukuphoxeka ukuba omabini amaqabane, bawuphanga isimo, udandatheko ... Kwaye nje kwimeko enye, kwakunye kakhulu ukuchama ngokukhawuleza uba eqhelekileyo (oko kukuthi, ngokwenkcazelo, akanakuba) - oko igcwele imbonakalo izakhiwo, komsipha yonxulumano, yokuwa ngokupheleleyo ubomi olusondeleyo. Ngoko ke ukuba unyango lwe ukuchama ngaphambi - asingomkhwa, kodwa kubalulekile.

Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba wenze ubhukisho kwaoko; asingabo bonke abantu abacinga ukuba "skorostrelami" kulungiswe iyadingeka. Ubude sobuhlobo - into ngamnye kunene, kunye novavanyo kwakhe ubunzima ukujongwa olukhulu. Ukuba ngokwenza uthando zihlala imizuzu embalwa yokuqala ukuthetha ukuchama ngaphambi kwexesha besebenzisa naluphi na ungenelelo. sexual zonke preludes, okuhlala malunga elishumi imizuzu - ngakumbi kunesiqhelo, ngenxa yokuba ixesha eliqhelekileyo ubudlelwane "olunyulu" ayidluli nokuba imizuzu emithathu kwi-avareji. Kokuba kube nokuqwalaselwa ukuchama mveku kuphela ukuba kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza emva kokuba lobudoda lifakwa kwilungu lobufazi, okanye "kwi emaphandleni". Kuphela kulo mzekelo, ingxaki kusenzeka kwaye ingqalelo isifo, kodwa kule meko ke kuyimfuneko ukuba ucinge ngendlela balahle ukuchama kwexesha. Ukuba umntu "waqhubeka" umzuzu okanye ngaphezulu, ukuba unako ukuphucula ubuchule bakho ngesondo, kodwa kunjalo hayi 'amandla', kungenjalo nje kwakhwelela linyathelo ngokubaxakanisa lokuqala.

Ngoko ke, akukho mfuneko ukusondela Me kakhulu ebaluleke, awufuni ucinge ukuba kwabo phansi. Vumela encinane wakho abe nesibindi into yokuba malunga nama-35 ekhulwini eyindoda womelele elinikiweyo liyasetyenziswa ukuchama kwexesha. Izizathu zoku inokuba nomahluko. Mhlawumbi oluqhelekileyo - ukoyika ukuba aluhlaza ngesondo, woyikela ukuba ngesondo ukuze uphumelele. Ukuba ilungu ziyakhawuleza ukuba "umoya" umnini yaye ngokukhawuleza egqitha ziphumo zinqwenelekayo, leyo ujika ube kwexesha. Kukho uloyiko nokukhula ukungaphumeleli - kwaye kwenyusa amathuba okuba ukuchama kwexesha. umnqweno rhoqo kakhulu ukuba 'babe fun' inokuba kwakhona ukuphuhlisa ukuchama mveku - umzekelo, amalungu esini ngokugqithiseleyo, injongo yakhe eyodwa iyona zakuqala ulwaneliseko ekubeni. Ilungu uhlobo 'ukuze asetyenziswe "ngokukhawuleza ukunika umnini efunekayo yaye kamva sele na umsebenzi ngesondo kwangoko ejaculates. Kakade ke, kukho kwakhona nezifo - imiphumo yokwenzakala kwengqondo esibuhlungu, ukuphazamiseka kwamadlala, izifo intambo esezantsi emqolo, kodwa pesenti incinane.

unyango ukuchama aguge yenziwa kumacala ezininzi - umntu ukunikela ingcaphephe (kwaye oku yeyona ndlela ilungileyo), omnye umntu ungakhetha eyakho.

Impembelelo elungileyo lufumaneka ngokusebenzisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo sesichengeni lwengingqi - igrisi kunye gel equlathe iintlungu. Ukusebenzisa kwabo ngqo umthondo unciphisa uvakalelo wayo, nto leyo evumela ukuba abambe neentlobano zesini. Kukho condoms nezi izinto zokuthambisa. Le ndlela ulungile kuba akukho Izimo. Kodwa ukuba endaweni yamafutha ngenjongo efanayo yokunciphisa uvakalelo iipilisi asetyenziswa, kufuneka udibane nogqirha.

unyango yokuziphatha - unyango lwe ukuchama ngaphambi apho umntu unengxaki, inxaxheba yaye ngomonde kunceda neqabane. Xa iinzame ezibambeneyo, ngokwenza amaphutha, esebenzisa ubuchule ezahlukeneyo, ezifana 'stop-ekuqaleni ", kunokwenzeka ukuba kuzuzwe iziphumo ezilungileyo babuyele obuqhelekileyo" nethuku zokuziphatha "ilungu.

Akumkhululi indoda ingcambu sifo, ihleli uloyiko ezahlukeneyo, kuhle ukuba Unyango, unqwenela ukubhenela iqwalasela kakhulu nzima yaye kulihlazo. Enyanisweni, xa neengxaki zesini, njengawuphi na izifo, akukho nto amanyondololo embi; Ukusuka lo mbono unyango ukuchama ngaphambi akukho ezahlukeneyo, umzekelo, unyango lwezifo isisu okanye ezinye izifo.