Yintoni umntwana ephuphayo - inkwenkwe? Ukuchazwa ngokubanzi

Abantu babesoloko bekhangela "ukujonga" amaphupha abo. Le mibono yasebusuku idla ngamanye amaxesha ukuxela iziganeko ezizayo, ukucacisa ngokwenene kwaye unike isibonakaliso sokuba unokulungisa ebomini bakho. Kuyaziwa ukuba amaphupha anikwe ukubaluleka okukhulu kwiinkulungwane ezimbalwa ezedlulileyo. Ukususela ngeli xesha, amaphupha aqhelekileyo aqokelelwe kwaye atshwankathelwe - abo banokuphupha ngabantu abaninzi, kungakhathaliseki ubudala babo, isimo sezentlalo kunye nesini. Ezi zibandakanya amaphupha aquka abantwana, ngakumbi ngokubonakala kwinkwenkwe. Abaninzi banomdla kakhulu kulowo uphupha umntwana - inkwenkwe? Ukuba intombazana ephupheni ibhekwa ngokuba yi-"harbinger" yezinye izinto ezinokumangalisa kunye nokuphazamiseka, ngoko a makhwenkwe afanekisela ezinye iziganeko.

Umntwana uphupha ntoni? Inkwenkwe - kwimpumelelo yemali kunye nenzuzo

Ukuba ukhangele kuzo zonke iincwadi zokuphupha ezidumileyo zokulala nokuthatha inxaxheba kwabantwana, ngoko ngokubanzi ukutolika kwabo kuncitshiswa kukukhathazeka, ukukhathazeka kunye nenzuzo. Nangona kuninzi kuxhomekeke kwifom ebonakala kuyo kumphuphi. Abonwabileyo, abonwabileyo, abantwana abadlala kunye nabanxibe kakuhle bafanekisela ukufika ebomini kweenzuzo ezingalindelekanga, ukuchuma, ukuchuma nokuphumelela kwimiba yonke kwimicimbi yezoshishino okanye umsebenzi. Kubi ukuba abantwana bayagula, bethandeka, bathukuthele kwaye bembethe kakuhle. Ngokukhawuleza elo phupha alithethi into enhle: kungekudala, izifo, ukulahleka kwezinto eziphathekayo kunye nezinye iinguqu ezintle ebomini "zinganqanda". Kwaye umntwana uphupha ntoni-inkwenkwe, ingakumbi encinci? Abafana abathandekayo, abonwabileyo nabonwabileyo - oku kusoloko kuluphawu oluhle. Ukubona iphupha elinjalo kuthathwa njengempumelelo enkulu, kuba (ukuba ungayifumani ingqalelo kwiimpawu ezinokungalindelekanga), isilungiso esihle semali kunye nekhosi ephumelelayo yezoshishino.

Kuthetha ukuthini xa umfana ephupha?

Phantse zonke iincwadi zephupha zichaza amaphupha kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kwabancinci njengento efanelekileyo, engokwesiprofeto nokuthembisayo kwimali kumboni. Kuthetha ukuba abantu balindele inzuzo ngokukhawuleza (iibhonasi, amafa, ifa, ukwandiswa kwemivuzo), kunye nokutshala kwezimali kakuhle kwiiprojekthi, ukukhuthazwa nokuziphatha kweeprojekthi ezintsha. Le mi sebenzi emitsha ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuhlawula kakuhle, ukuze ukuchuma kunye nenhlalakahle kungeke kugcinwe ulinde. Nangona kunjalo, kukho enye inguqu yenguqulelo. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu omdala ubona njengenkwenkwe encinci, okanye ukuba uyasana umntwana, oko kungabonakalisa ukungavumelani ngexesha lokumiswa nokukhula. Ukubeka nje, indoda ifuna ukucinga malunga nexesha lokukhula kwaye "uthathe iipenties ezimfutshane". Iintsana zivame ukubonakala, ngoko abantu banomdla kwizinto ezinokuthi umntwana uphupha ngamaphupha? Ngokomgaqo, uphupha ngemali, impumelelo yempahla kunye nokuchuma. Into ephambili ukuba wayemomotheka kwaye uyonwabile, kwaye iphupha lilonke lashiya ukuvakalelwa nokukhuthazeka. Abafazi abalinde okanye abanomntwana banokuzibuza: "Yintoni umntwana aphupha ngayo-inkwenkwe?". Kubonakala ukuba, abo sele benabantwana, le nkwenkwe iphupha njenge "echo" yosuku oludlulileyo kunye neenkxalabo kunye nokukhathazeka malunga nezingane. Kuthiwa umntwana usemntwana uthembisa umntwana ongenaye umntwana ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili kunye nokuzaliswa kwintsapho. Oko kwakhona, ngaphandle koko "inzuzo" (ukusuka kwigama elizayo) awuyi kuthi igama.