Le iziqu elide-elindelwe kwiBakala 9

Indlela ngokukhawuleza kudlule ixesha. Njengoko ukuba izolo kuphela wokuzisa kwenu isiphatho umntwana wakhe kwibanga lokuqala. Watsho wadideka kancinci, kodwa ngaxeshanye ndinelunda yaye ndonwabile. Ngapha koko, waba kakhulu omdala - emva entsha kwaye i "esinzulu" ubhaka enjalo bavalele isipha ezintle iintyatyambo, awawunika utitshala wakhe wokuqala. Yena impela omdala, ngenxa yokuba uye emva lo walivala ithende enkulisa. Kodwa ke kwiminyaka Kwadlula ezifana imini enye, nokuba umntwana wakho sele egqibile kwibakala lesithoba. Yintoni wenza ntoni emva koko? Hlala esikolweni okanye luzakubhalisa kwikholeji okanye kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo?

Wena mhlawumbi sele kugqitywe ukhetho. Kodwa kufutshane kakhulu elizayo, umntwana wakho ulindele ukuba benze kwibakala 9. Kubomi bakhe sele kwenzekile iziganeko ezinjalo - izidanga kwizikolo zaseprayimari. Ke bona bonke "into yokudlala" wokugqibela - zegala matinee kunye ikomityi yeti kunye ntle kunye notitshala wakhe wokuqala. Kwaye ngoku ukuba ibe ococek yokwenene kwibakala 9. Abafundi kuqala ukufumana uxwebhu yaso ezinkulu - isiqinisekiso lemfundo esisiseko ngokubanzi. Ngokwesiqhelo, le Chicken kwibakala 9 zehlobo ngaphantsi emva kokuphela kwiklasi elinanye, ngenxa yokuba uninzi izidanga baza kudibana kwakhona yesikolo yokuqala kweyoMsintsi.

Kodwa nangoku isiganeko ekubalulekileyo ukuzikhankanya. Indlela engcono tirhisa zeemoto kwibanga-9? Ngokuqhelekileyo abafundi kunye nabazali babo silhouetted ezimbini iinketho ngokucacileyo: ukulahla eligama elishicilelwe phantsi yemveli, nto leyo edla ngokusetyenziswa kwibakala elinanye, okanye ukubamba uhlobo yokuziqhelisa esi sihlandlo - ilokhwe olusesikweni, indawo yokutyela, iintlanganiso ngesifingo, kodwa kancinane elingene ngakumbi.

Ngoko nangoko icela lo mbuzo: ingaba sengqiqweni ukubamba iziganeko ezibini ezifanayo kwizithuba iminyaka emibini? Abantwana abaza kubhiyozela endaweni yokudlela, lichaphazela champagne nangokuhlwa ilokhwe, kodwa hayi ngoku, kamva. Abaphumelele kwibakala 9 usulungekile kunye lwabo kuyo. Linga emva kokuphela iklasi elinanye nabani akubonakali ngathi. Lungisa party iziqu ezinezihloko kwi isimbo iipirate kunye amahippie, hipsters okanye gangsters. Kukho iinketho ezininzi, wena nje kufuneka isigqibo kwaye khetha enye ezifanelekileyo.

Unga sibhiyozele esi siganeko kwindalo. Unokwenza inkqubela ukuqesha yokuzonwabisa okanye uye nje ne ukuhlala ubusuku kummandla wehlathi komzi. Ukudada emlanjeni, ukudlala ibhola yevoli okanye yomnyazi, ngokuhlwa ukuba bahlale isiginci umlilo. Akekho umntu uya nabuganga ukuze ukubhiyozela baphumeleleyo kwibakala elinanye kwaye kwibakala lethoba ukuba ingcamango ulungile.

Ukuba isixeko yakho ayenzeki ukuthatha abantwana uhlobo, sebenzisa enye ingcamango - eziphawula iholide kwindawo nasezirhangeni yokubhowula. Inye kuphela kufuneka sikhumbule, ukuba ukujonga kwindawo yombhiyozo - ukuthatha unonophelo irente kwangaphambili, endaweni yokwenza njalo ngomhla wokugqibela, kuba umntu ukuze ikhawuleze kwaye ndiyakuba aphume ishishini.

Kuyenzeka ukuba ukudibanisa ekubhiyozeleni ococek kunye uhambo umdla kwesinye isixeko okanye ukunciphisa excursion omzi wakho - ukhetho kuphela wena kunye nabantwana bakho.