Izimpawu emtshatweni: unokwenza ntoni ongenakuba ngabazali, iindwendwe, abasanda kutshata? Amasiko kunye nemiqondiso yomtshato ngomtshakazi

Umtshato mhlawumbi ungenye yeemeko ezibalulekileyo ebomini bomntu. Eli liyinyathelo elibalulekileyo, ukuguqula ubomi ngokubanzi, ukudibanisa iintliziyo ezimbini zothando kunye nanye-intsapho.

Imisebenzi yomtshato ibonwabile kakhulu kubini abasanda kutshata, kunye neentsapho zabo, izalamane kunye neendwendwe. Ngcaciso nganye, yonke iminithi yombhiyozo, ejoliswe ekulungiseleleni ulonwabo lwasemncinci, ucingelwa ngazo. Ngelizwi, umtshato! Imiqondiso kunye namasiko kulo mhla oyingqungquthela iya kubaluleke ngakumbi. Injongo yabo kukukhusela abazalwana kwiintsilelo zentlalo yolonwabo kunye nokulondolozwa kothando iminyaka emide. Ewe, akubona bonke abakholelwa kwimimiselo yomtshato (enokuthi yenziwe kulo suku oluphawulekayo), abaninzi bayabakhathalela, bacinge ngokubandlulula, kodwa ulwazi lwabo aluzange lonakalise nabani na.

Iimpawu ngaphambi komtshato

• Ubonakaliso emtshatweni womtshakazi uthi umtshato kwinyanga entsha - ubomi obutsha obonwabileyo, ngokunyuka kwenyanga-ukunyuka ngokukhawuleza kwemali, kwinyanga epheleleyo-ubomi buya kufana nekomiti epheleleyo. Ukuba udibanisa umtshato kunye neenyanga ezinqabileyo, zonke iintlungu nosizi ziya kuhamba.

• Ukuba ngomhla womtshato osasa kutshatyalaliswa okanye izalamane ziya kufumana, le thambile.

• Umyeni ukhubekile emngceleni wendlu yowesifazane - kuya kuba nomnye umtshato.

• Ubomi bentsapho buya kuphuhliswa xa umtshakazi ebusuku ngaphambi kokuba umtshato uthwale igumbi lokulala ngaphakathi, kwaye phantsi komsila uya kufaka isibuko.

• Imiqondiso emtshatweni yombiko womtshakazi: ukuba umntu osandul 'ukutshatyalaliswa walahlekelwa iglavu okanye aphule isibuko ngaphambi komtshato, oku kukubi.

• Ngomhla wokutshata, umtshakazi akaze ambone umyeni phantsi kweyiphi na into engathandabuzekiyo, makungacingi ukuba iqabane elizayo akumele limbone kwimpahla yomtshato, ngaphandle koko umtshato awuyi kuvuya.

• Kuze kube ngumtshato (ukudweba) umtshakazi akufanele azibone kwisibuko eengubo ezipheleleyo.

• Awukwazi ukunikela enye iifoto ngeveki yakho ngomfanekiso wakho.

Iimpawu malunga nezambatho kunye neengubo

• Imiqondiso yomtshakazi ngosuku lomtshato uthi kuyimfuneko ukutshata nomfazi onolonwabo eesiswini kunye nesinqe esivaliweyo nesithende. Ngoko ulonwabo aluyi kuphuma endlwini. Kwaye ukuba ubeka imali yentsimbi kwisiguwu sokunene, ubomi bentsha buya kuphumelela kwaye butyebi. Ukutshata ngeembadada - ukuba ungenasiphatho.

• Ukuba umtshakazi uncedwa ukuba agqoke kwisambatho somtshato umfazi ophumelele emtshatweni iminyaka engama-7, umtshakazi uya kuba nempilo kwaye uphumelele.

• Umtshakazi akavumelekanga ukuba umhlobo wakhe eme phambi kwakhe kwisibuko, ngaphandle koko lo mva uya kumbetha umyeni. Kuyafana nakumyeni kunye nabahlobo bakhe.

• Kubantu abasandul 'ukutshata, ukuze niwakhusele kwilihlo elibi, kufuneka ukhawuleze iphoyinti yokukhusela kwiimpahla kunye nentloko yakho phantsi : umyeni - kwindawo ye-boutonniere fastening, umtshakazi-ngaphakathi kwintambo yokugqoka. Kwakhona, umfazi ovuyayo ucebise ukuba enze ezinye izibonda ngaphakathi kwengubo ngaphakathi ngaphakathi ngemisonto eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka: njengoko iimpawu zomtshato wabasandul 'ukutshata bathi, oku kuya kusindisa umtshakazi kwiso elibi.

• Izicathulo ezindala kumtshakazi - inhlanhla kwintsapho entsha. Ngoko ke, ngenxa yosuku okanye ezimbini phambi kombhiyozo, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uhambe ngeesigada eziza kugqitywa ngomtshato.

• Beka umtshakazi emtshatweni weeparele - kwiinyembezi zakhe.

• Iigrafti zesiganeko esiyimfuneko asifanele sigqoke - ubucwebe nje - yindlela imiqondiso ephawulekayo ichaza umtshato.

• Yintoni ongayenza ukuba abazali bangakwazi? Kumama omabini abancinci kufuneka abekwe kwiingubo ezilodwa (ezingafanelekanga), ukwenzela ukuba ubomi bentsapho babantwana babo bungayi kuba neengxabano.

Ingubo yomtshato

Imitshato yomtshato kunye nemitshato yinto enye, kuba isiganeko esibalulekileyo siyabaluleke ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuthobela ingqalelo yonke into. Oku kusebenza kwimpahla yomtshato yomtshakazi:

• Umfazi wexesha elizayo unconywa kwimpubo yomtshato ukuze ahlambe i-lyubistka yeqabunga ukuba uthando luyomelele.
• Akukho mntu kufuneka avunyelwe ukulinganisa ingubo yomtshato, nangemva komtshato.
• Kukholelwa ukuba ixesha elide ligugu, ixesha elide ubomi bentsapho.
• Ugqoke ulutsha kufuneka lube luphelele, kodwa alufani (umzekelo, i-corset kunye nekhati), ukuze kungabikho ubomi obuhlukile.
• Ingubo kunye neengubo zangaphantsi kufuneka zibe mhlophe.
• Ingubo yomtshato imele ibe yindoda kuphela - ngeemilenze akunakwenzeka.
• Kunokucetyiswa ingubo yomtshato ukuba igcinwe ubomi bonke kwaye ingathengisi naziphi na izinto ukuze kuphephe ukuhlukana komtshato.

Ikhefu lomtshato

• Imiqondiso yomtshato (unokwenza ntoni ukuba awukwazi ukuyenza kubantu abancinci) ngokuqinisekileyo ukuqinisekisile ukuba akukho mzekelo ukuba umyeni makanikele ezandleni zabani na izidumbu zintanda yakhe, ade ade yena.

• Umtshakazi kufuneka akhusele isixhaso sakhe sobusuku; Ukuba ikhutshwe, injabulo iya kubaleka. Kwintlanganiso yomtshato, inokubeka phambi kwakho etafileni, kwaye ukuba kukho imfuno enkulu, mvumele umyeni okanye unina.

• Umtshato womtshato wawela phantsi - ukuba ube ngumnye umtshato kule ndlu.

• Yiyo yeentombi zamantombazana, ngubani oza kubamba umtshato womtshato, ozayo uza kutshata.

Ring Ring

Awu, le miqondiso yomtshato! Yintoni ongayenza ukuba ungeke uyenze nabasandul 'ukutshata nabakhonkco? Lo mbandela ujabulisa kakhulu abantu abatsha.

• Ukufumana amasongo omtshato ngumsebenzi womyeni.

• Izindandatho mazibe zihamba kakuhle, ngaphandle kwamatye kunye nokuzibandakanya, ukuze ubomi buphephe, ngaphandle kwemifula.

• Umjikazi womtshakazi kufuneka ube mkhulu kunomngeni womyeni.

• Akukho mntu kufuneka anikwe ukulungelelaniswa kwezigodo zokubandakanya: akukho ngaphambi nangemva komtshato.

• Ngomhla womtshato, akukho namathanga omtshato angagqithwa.

• Umtshato kunye namacenge omzali kukuphindaphinda ubudlelwane babo kwintsapho.

• Ukulahlekelwa ingqungquthela yokubandakanya ukuhlukana, ukutshatyalaliswa kwentsapho.

• Ukuphosa umtshato womtshato ngaphambi kokuba ugqitywe ngomnwe kuyimfuneko embi.

Ngaphambi kokushiya i-ofisi yobhaliso

• Xa abantu abaselula bayishiya indlu yabazali kwindlu yesiganeko, kufuneka bafefe ngemali kunye ne-rye - ukuze bafumane ubomi obonwabileyo nobutyebi bentsapho. Phinda ufanane xa bephuma kwi-ofisi yokubhalisa.

• Ukushiya indlu, iimoto kufuneka zikhangele ngokukhawuleza, zisoyike kuyo yonke imimoya emibi ngale ndlela.

• Endleleni eya kwindawo yokudweba, abantu abaselula akufanele bajonge emva koko, ukuze bangaqhotyoshelwanga ubomi obudlulileyo.

• Xa umtshakazi eya ecaweni, unina umthumelela intsapho (i-brooch, isiphambano, isongo, isalathisi) ukuze amkhusele ebomini bentsapho yakhe.

• Ukutshata odade, umtshakazi ekuphumeni kwindlu yomzali unconywa ukuba athathe ityhula etafileni yomzali engacatshangwanga.

Endleleni eya eofisi yokubhalisa nakwiofisi yokubhalisa

Indlela eya kwisiganeko esibalulekileyo iyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yenkqubo eqinileyo. Ngoko ke, kuyafaneleka ukuqwalasela iimpawu zomtshato. Yintoni ongayenza ukuba awukwazi ukuyenza kwindlela eya kwi-ofisi yokubhalisa abantu abatsha, abazali babo kunye neendwendwe?

• Awukwazi ukuwela indlela eya kumtshakazi nomyeni, ukwenzela ukuba ungabalandeli inhlanhla ebomini. Ukuba kukho ingozi enjalo, emva kobungqina obuncinane kwaye ubungqina kufuneka buhambe.
• Kwiofisi yeRejista kuyimfuneko ukuba uhambe kumashishini ahlukeneyo okwakusenokuba nexesha lokucinga malunga neenguqu ezibalulekileyo ebomini.
• Kunzima kakhulu indlela umyeni kunye nomtshakazi abahamba ngayo, uvuyo luya kubakho ubomi babo bentsapho. Kwimihla yakudala, izitimela zomtshato zazikhetha iindlela ezintle kakhulu kwicawa ukwenzela ukudukisa umoya obi.
• Ukuba indlela iwela ikati, kufuneka uhambe enye indlela.
• Phakathi komtshakazi nomyeni akukho mntu kufuneka adlule ukuze ubomi bentsapho buvuyiswe kwaye buzolile.
• Emva kokushiya i-OFISI YE-REGISTRY, abantu abaselula bayishiya, bebamba izandla. Lowo onesandla esiphakamileyo uya kuba ngowendlu.
• Ukuba uthinta iindandatho zomtshakazi nomyeni, ngokukhawuleza uya kuhamba emtshatweni wakho. Ukuba, emva komgcini-bhalisi, umntu uwela indlela eya kumtshakazi nomyeni, ubomi bentsapho abuyi kusebenza. Yiyo ndlela iimpawu ezihlonishwa ngayo ixesha lomtshato osasazwayo.

Yintoni ongayenza engenakuyenza ngosuku lomtshato?

• Ngaphambi kokungena endlwini, abantu abaselula kufuneka baphule isitya ukuze banwabe.

• Umtshakazi endlwini uzisa ezandleni zomlingane osemthethweni ukuba aphile ubomi bakhe ezandleni zakhe.

• Ngethuba lobusuku, abazali kufuneka baqinisekise ukuba akukho mntu ulungisa izambatho zabaselula.

• Ukudanisa emtshatweni, abazalwana kufuneka babe kunye kuphela. Ukuba umdaniso kunye nabazali ucetywayo, emva koko abazali kufuneka bahlangane kwakhona nabantwana babo.

• Ukuba umtshakazi unesithende, lo "ubomi obunzima" bentsapho.

• Ukuba ingubo yomtshato yayiqwengqelekile, yayiba ngumkhwekazi omubi.

Umtshato

• Ibhokisi emakhondweni omtshato kwinkqubo yomtshato ithatha loo ntombi efuna ukutshata ngokukhawuleza.

• Umtshato enqatsheni-ukuqhawula umtshato, kwisigqubuthelo esifutshane-kubantwana abagulayo, ngaphandle kwesigqubuthelo - ukukhohlisa nokuhlupheka.

• Ikhandlela lomtshato kufuneka likhuseleke kwaye likhanyise uncedo ekuzalweni kokuqala.

• Emva komtshato, abatsha ngexesha elifanayo bafanele bajonge kwisibuko esisodwa - oku kuwuphawu lobomi obunexesha elide nolonwabileyo.

• Ukuba imvula iqalile ngexesha lomtshato, le ntsapho iya kubonelelwa.

• Ukuba umtshakazi wehla ihekhi, emele phantsi kwesithsaba, abe ngumhlolokazi kuye.

• Ikhandlela elitshisa ngexesha lomtshato, owokuqala uya kufa.

• Ukuba ikhandlela liphuma ngokukhawuleza, ubomi obunzima bentsapho okanye ukufa kwangaphambili kulindele abantu abatsha.

• Amakhandlela omtshato kufuneka aphephe ngexesha elifanayo, oku kuya kuba yintloko ebomini novuyo.

MaNgqina

• Ukuba a mangqina ahlukanisile, umtshato wabaselula uya kusongelwa ngokutshatyalaliswa.
• Ukuba ngamangqina atshatile, le ngxwaba.
• Ukuba amangqina isibini esitshatileyo, umtshato wabo uya kulahla.

Umthendeleko

• Ngaphambi kokungena ehholo, abatsha abasandulana nabo baphatha esinye isonka sesonka. Oku kufuneka kube yithuba lokugqibela abaxolisayo.
• Emva kwe-REGISTRY OFFICE, isihlobo esihloniphekileyo sibamba intsha malunga netafile yeholide kathathu, oku kubonakalisa uxhumano olungapheliyo lwe sibini esitshatileyo.
• Qinisekisa ukuphula iglasi yokuqala kunye ne-champagne - inenhlanhla! Ukuba umtshato ubetha izitya, le thamsanqa.
• Kwitheyibhile lomtshato, abantu abaselula bayadingeka ukuba bangahlali kwiitrone, kodwa kwibhentshini enye, ukuze ubomi bentsapho bubuhlobo.
• Kukho uphawu olunomtsalane: ukuba umtshakazi wayesephuza ngephanyazi kwi-grey of the sucked, oko kuya kuthatha yonke imivuzo yakhe.
• Ngoko ukuba abancinci babehlala benemali, abasandul 'ukutshata bafaka ihekethi phantsi kwebhentshi ngeenkomfa ezomileyo.
• Ukuba umntu uye walahla isiqwenga sokutya phantsi, abantu abaselula baya kuhlala bebaninzi.
• Ukuba intombazana yomtshakazi iphosakele engxenyeni yengubo yomtshato, ngoko kufuneka ishade ngokukhawuleza.
• Ukuba umfazi osemncinci uguqula iglasi epheleleyo, umyeni wakhe uya kusela.
• Ukuba kukho abantwana abaninzi emtshatweni womtshato, oku kubomi bentsapho obonwabileyo kunye nomsindo.
• Ukuhlobisa okhethekileyo kwetafile yikhilo lomtshato. Yinqumle umtshakazi, kwaye umyeni uyayisekela umsi. Isiqephu sokuqala sekhekhe senziwa siselula - inenhlanhla.

Kubuhlungu!

Njengoko uyazi, akukho mnye umtshato waseRashiya ongenakwenza ngaphandle "Mbi!". Eli qhelo lidala kwaye liphakanyisiwe ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: omncinci wayeqhele ukujikeleza zonke iindwendwe ngeetayiti, apho bafaka khona imali. Kwakukho iglasi kwi-tray, isitye sakhe samanzi waza wathi: "Kubuhlungu!" - njengophawu lokuba iwayini iwayini lidakiwe, kungekhona amanzi. Emva koko, abamenywe bamanga umtshakazi, bathabisa ngaloo ndlela besuka ebukrakra obunxilisayo. Kancinci, le ndlela yatshintshwa ngumyalelo wokubanga kubazalwana.

Izipho

Umcimbi obalulekileyo wosuku oluqingqiweyo uthathwa njengezipho zomtshato. Iimpawu malunga nale nxalenye yosuku olubalulekileyo lufundwa:

• Awukwazi ukunikela izinto ezibukhali: imimese, iifolokhwe, ezithwala amandla anesibindi anokuzalisa intsapho entsha. Ukuba loo mnikelo yayisaboniswa, umniki-mali kufuneka anike iincinci zemali, ukuze ebomini akukho nto ingabikho.
• Awukwazi ukunika umlindi, kuba baya kubala imizuzu kunye nemizuzwana yobomi ndawonye, kwaye kuya kuhlala ixesha elide isipho siza kusebenza.
• Ubhedlele bucetyiswa ukuba abatshatileyo bazikhethele bona, kuba ubomi obusondeleyo bubuqu, abukho loluntu.
• Awukwazi ukubeka itilesi kunye neehokethi, ukuze ungabagwebi abo abasandul 'ukutshata bezinyembezi nosizi.
• Iimpawu zinganikwa kuphela ngabantu abasondeleyo: abazali, oogogo, oothixo, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo nesipho esibaluleke kakhulu, amandla e-genus athatyathwa kwizandla zabantwana. Ukuba nabani na omnye wamenywa ukuba enze isigqibo esinjalo, ngoko kufuneka ukuba uphawu lube yingcwele kwicawa.
• Kwakhona, akufanele unike izidalwa ezitshintshiweyo ezigcina amandla wabanikazi bangaphambili. Emva koko, baya kuba nefuthe kwintsapho entsapho ngendlela yabo, kwaye akusoloko impembelelo enjalo inokuzisa.
• Awukwazi ukunika isibuko. Le nto ingumlingo, kwaye ibonakaliswe kuyo - ukubonakaliswa kwe-astral yento yonke umntu ayibonayo ngokwenene. Njengoko isipho somtshato, isibuko siya kuba ngumnyango kwihlabathi elifanayo (olukhohlisayo), oluya kubangela abantu abatsha ukuba bakhokele indlela yokuphila ebini.
• Awukwazi ukuvelisa ubucwebe beeparele, mhlawumbi okokugqibela kuza kukhale nokukhalazela ebomini bentsapho.
• Kwakhona iindwendwe akufanele zinike amashishini kunye ne-cufflink nge-amber, amandla awo angabangela ukungaphumeleli kwimisebenzi yabo. Kunconywa ukubonisa ezo zipho ngokukhawuleza.
• Kuba kwindlela yokuphila njengesipho, umtshakazi kufuneka athathwe ngendwangu yamatye emhlophe.
• Awukwazi ukunika iiresi ezibomvu. Kungcono ukuba bakhethe iindidi zeentyantyambo zasendle ezivela kwi-daisies, i-cornflowers, i-medinitsa kunye nabanye, ezibonakalisa uthando nothando. Imvelaphi yokuqala njengesigqatshana somtshato iya kuba yiminduze yentlambo-isimboli sokuthandana, ukuzonwabisa kunye nokunyaniseka. Ungakhetha ukhetho lwakho kwi-violet - intyatyambo ebonisa ukuhlanzeka komphefumlo kunye neengcamango.

Iimpawu zeendwendwe

Abamenyiweyo abeza Siyavuyisana ukutshata, kufuneka sazi ezinye imiqondiso lomtshato. Yintoni ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba iindwendwe kule mini kubalulekile ukuba abantu abatsha?

• Aninako ukufika beze emsithweni banxiba ezimnyama.
• Inani neendwendwe kumtshato kufuneka limnqakathi.
• iindwendwe izihlalo kufuneka kwenziwe ngokungqinelana nobudala babo. Ulutsha ukanye umtshakazi nomyeni, ilandelwe ukuze wokuba ngubani omkhulu. Abantu abaninzi abadala bahlale phezu kwamathole kwi ekupheleni icala kwetafile.
• Umenywe umtshakazi kuhlala ngokunxulumene kuyo kwicala lasekhohlo umyeni - ekunene. Ngapha koko, kwicala lasekhohlo lwe isithuba umfuzisela nababhinqileyo, ekunene - eyindoda.
• A indawo abazali - ekupheleni kwetafile zehlobo.

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• Ukuba ngethuba lokuqhubeka umshado uqhwithela, oko lilishwa.
• Ukuba ngemini yesabatha kulo ukutshata, a iqabaka enzima, inkwenkwe wokuqala ukuzalwa - uphilile kwaye womelele.