Isipho nomyeni wakhe ngenxa yokuzalwa kwakhe; iingxaki unsolvable musa yenzeke

Ukunika izipho - oku njengoko kulungileyo, njengoko, nelokwamkela kubo, okanye bhetele, emva lonke ixesha elichithwa ndifuna isipho eyayibanjelwe nje kwi engenanto ophuma ukuyothenga, waza wachitha inkqubo enobuchule ngokwenene, yaye iimvakalelo ezaviwayo ngexesha umnikelo, xa mna ubone ukuba isipho weza ukungcamla, kwaye tostuemy bavuye ngokwenene ukumbona, asifani nantoni na eyenye. Ngelishwa, kukhetho lo isipho - oko akusoloko into lula yaye umnandi: kwezinye iimeko iba yingxaki kakhulu, yaye enye iimeko ezininzi kakhulu lwezonyango - isipho umyeni wam ngenxa yokuzalwa kwakhe, kwakunye nayiphi na enye iholide.

Wonke umfazi owendileyo lijongene nale meko nyaka ngamnye: eneneni ukuthenga isipho lokuzalwa umyeni wam - akukho nto efanayo Siyavuyisana oyintloko okanye umzala yesibini. Kwimeko yesibini, kwanele ukubonisa ingqalelo yabo luyabiza, kodwa isipho akukho esibophelelayo, hayi ithwele into zobuqu. Ukulungiselela le njongo, ezifanelekileyo umdla, kodwa yayixakekile kwaye cala njengezikhumbuzo ngezipho: iibhola Newton, iwotshi itafile, paperweights, iipeni, iidayari njalo njalo. Kwimeko omthandayo bekuya kuba enqwenelekayo ukukholisa, ukufumana nokuba eqolo, kodwa isipho esesikweni, ube ngumnikelo wokudla oko kuluncedo ngokwenene kwaye uza kuba ngumthombo yekratshi, hayi kuphela into ngokwayo, kodwa ngumfazi wayo, owaba nako ukuqonda umntu omthandayo kwaye intando yakhe. Kakade ke, kulula kakhulu ukuba wenze isipho nomyeni wam ngenxa yokuzalwa kwakhe, ukuba uyazi kakuhle into ayifunayo, kodwa, mhlawumbi, kwiminyaka ukuba babehlala kunye, ube nako ukwenza yonke amaphupha akhe, kwaye uqale zintsha izihlandlo ezithathu ngomnyaka, kokuba lokuzalwa kwakhe ngoFebruwari 23 uNyaka oMtsha alusoloko lusebenza. Kufuneka wenze ntoni kule meko?

Ngoko ke, silibale ziwe ishawa, neziqholo, amaqhina kunye nezinye ububhanxa: le nto ke izipho, izinto ezifunekayo, kwaye uzithenge lokuzalwa hayi kakhulu zichanekile: sifumana wadimazeka xa thina ngeeholide kunika ngentsimbi okanye isicoci cleaner. Le ndoda - izipho oyinyaniso, nokuba yinto ivili umdlalo - ungakhathazeki: namhlanje ngabo bonke. Kakade ke, ukuba umntu ikuba, isipho kwindoda yakhe lwakhe lokuzalwa ukwenza lula kakhulu, kuba impendulo ilele phezu komhlaba. Yaye ukuba akayeki isibakala sokuba eli into esizonwabisa ngayo kuwe kakhulu ikudika: ngenene ekucaphukisa, akunjalo, kodwa into yokuba liye elithile wathabatha yonke ingqalelo yakhe. Kuyinto isipho esinjalo uyakwazi ukulungisa le meko: Okokuqala, indoda iya baqonde ukuba ahlonele kwaye ingqalelo izilangazelelo zabo, yaye okwesibini, uya kuba isihloko esitsha kunxibelelwano. Umzekelo, ukuba ngaba aya into okukruqulayo kukuba ebusuku zakho intanda babehleli kwigumbi hayibo ke, mnike iseti hayibo, hayi nje ukuba ubuyo nwabele kunye ngokuhlwa, kodwa ufumana ithuba lokuphumelela into ebangel 'umdla. Kwaye ukoyika musa ukuba aniyi kule ingqiqo: ngokuqinisekileyo wena uyazi ukuba Ungathanda njani ukuba asifundise.

Kwaye ukuba akukho ihlombe, okanye zitshintsha kwi ngesantya kufutshane nendawo yokuqala? Emva koko ke nika yinto engabonakali. Namhlanje, kukho imibutho emininzi zibanga kwezi zipho abasifundisa na iziqinisekiso isipho ezahlukeneyo. Isenokuba ezahlukeneyo izinto ezifana paragliding okanye parachute, kwaye babe kunye excursions umdla, iiklasi inkosi ezahlukeneyo okanye izifundo. A lot yokuvela kunye neemvakalelo alunakuqinisekiswa. Ukuba isipho onjalo esinokudibanisa isiphelo uthando kwemini, le lokuzalwa akayi kulityalwa ixesha elide.

Unakho ukwenza isipho umdla ngezandla zabo, ebonisa ezona ngqondweni kunye nobuchule. Oku kunokuba ijezi zakudala ezinithiweyo kunye inshorensi kumnandi ibhegi yefowuni okanye kwi laptop yakho yeselula - okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba isipho enjalo utshatise incasa kunye nesimbo yabanyulwa bakho omnye.

Ke kaloku, malunga into ukunika: ukongeza phindwe ngasentla kunye nempahla yonke imihla, musa ukunika into ongayiqondiyo, kuba ingozi ukudanisa okanye ukufumana into kakade, nto kakhulu phezulu. Ukuba uyathandabuza - engcono ukwenza ezinye trinket intle ukuthenga nje kwaphela.