Indlela nokubuyisela omthandayo omnye ingcamango kumgama

Kuba umfazi, wayishiya indoda, intombi abaphethwe uthando ezingabuyekezekiyo kuzo, nangoonina ngokuzimisela kuqhubeka ukuba balinde "besililibele 'ukufika abantwana babo, amadoda waqonda ukuba igama elithi" Force "Unengqondo okuninzi - zonke isithokothoko udakumbe ezinikele uqinisekise ukuba ufunda . Inqaku Material esingenisiweyo uphendule lo mbuzo: ". Indlela nokubuyisela omthandayo omnye nge ingcamango" Kuzo zonke ngezantsi uya kuqokelela ulwazi ngendlela yokulawula indlela ubomi babo kwaye nomawukwenze ukuze utshintshe ngokugwebayo ubomi bakho a ngcono ngokomgangatho. Akukho deal enkulu, kukho kuphela - zixhathise lwethu yaye ubuthathaka yokuthanda, ekufuneka zokwazisela kunye nolawulo. Mhlawumbi ukuqala nto ibalulekileyo.

Sabantu beli hlabathi

yonke ikuthanda omkhulu magingxigingxi obubonakala yayo. izinto ezincinane enkulu yasezulwini zixhomekeke umthetho ofanayo - womxhuzulane. Ukukhanya pholisa, kwaye ubumnyama - isithuba yenguqu karhulumente. Yonke into ihamba kwaye lihlale ukwimeko uxinzeleko. Khawucinge nje umntu eqaphela ubukhulu komyalelo umbhodamo, nengqondo yethu uyakwazi nokuhlanganisa izenzakalo ngamanye amaxesha hoywa yobukho. "Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba babuyele umntu omthandayo omnye ingcamango?" - eniyicelayo. Impendulo iya ibango ukuba akukho nto akunakwenzeka. Kuphela thina ngokwethu, izenzo zethu yaye indlela yokucinga i uhlobo terminators iminqweno yethu. Cinga ngalo, ngokuba sicinga into embi ngakumbi ezakhayo. Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba yonke into subordinated ukuba isiphelo nesimo esinye. Nangona kunjalo, ubukho ithemba negates ngokupheleleyo eli ulahlekiso. Sikulungele ukukholelwa nantoni na, kungekhona ngokwabo. Ngenxa ezinye engaguqukiyo, isicwangciso lobunini ( "ntoni ucinga ngam?"), Okanye nokoyika babengaziqondi umntu azale umthintele. Noko ke, kusoloko kukho indlela yokuphuma!

Bakhululwe umthwalo yobomi bemihla ngemihla

Indlela nokubuyisela omthandayo omnye ingcamango ekude? Oku kuvakala ngathi ukuba umbuzo xa into yokuba umnqweno wethu ukuqhela kuthi. Ngokomzekelo, kwelinye isixeko okanye ilizwe liphakamile. Ndikholelwe, yonke uyenzayo izanuse nabakhafuli, ngokupheleleyo akuzisombululi nto. Mhlawumbi ixesha elithile kuphela umba uzakususwa-ajenda ebalulekileyo. Emva kwexesha elithile elishicilelwe phantsi kwakhona kuphindwa, Noko ke, nkqu njengokubonisa ndomelela ukuhlawulela yonke into ... Njengoko unokuthelekelela, ukuthunyelwa nentando yomntu - imeko disputable ukuba ingqalelo isenzo esihle uncedo lwakho mbuzo: "Indlela ukubuyela umntu omthandayo amandla enye ndacinga. " Noko ke, le yinto yingozi, ingakumbi xa kufikwa izakhiwo exhamle ubuncwane ebomini bethu - izivamvo. Nangona kunjalo, lo umgama ngokupheleleyo akukho ngokubaluleka, xa umntu ethatha amanyathelo ayimfuneko ukusombulula ingxaki xa sisonke, ukuze uliqonde kakuhle le meko, njengoko ukulahleka zezingxoxo Umatshini wekamva.

"Iingcinga zam ..." okanye amagama abakwazi ukuzicima iingoma

Oleg Gazmanov washo kwenye imisebenzi yakhe ukuba iingcinga zethu bakholisa ukufumana bedidekile, uze utsibe ukusuka umfanekiso omnye komnye. Olu hlobo impermanence bangadlala indoda yintlekisa embi. Kwaye ke ithemba umphefumlo wakho - "Ndifuna ukubuyela umntu omthandayo" - ziya kuba into alinakuzuzwa, ngoko ukuthetha, ekhoyo zexeshana. Oku kwacaca ngakumbi xa wayebhekisela imeko xa umfazi awabelana iingcinga zayo, amathemba kunye iinzame ethile yenziwa (iimeko esebenzayo) nentombi okanye abahlobo bakhe, elindele ukuba inkxaso okanye imfesane. Ikwenza oko kuyo nayiphi na imeko engenakwenzeka. Nangona nokuvakalisa kunye nesabelo kunye nomnye umntu akazange esalelweyo, kodwa baba nefuthe kwi ... Kakade ke, namhlanje kuye kusefashonini kuxoxa ngeenkcukacha olusondeleyo ebomini babo nomnye umfana okanye intombi. Ngaphezu koko, kucingwa ukuba ngekhomyutha. Nangona kunjalo, le ndlela elahlekileyo ihlazo unika elinye iqela ilungelo lokuba baxoxe iziqalelo (-eysya) kokomntu ofihlakeleyo kunye uvule ngokuphandle okanye ngasese babesabambelele iilebhile "engathethekiyo" okanye "ngeharika". Konke oku ngandlela kuchaphazela isisombululo kwingxaki: ukuba uyakwazi kubabuyisa umntu othandekayo?

Undoqo ulonwabo, okanye ukhuseleko iindlela izinto ezifihlakeleyo

Ngoko ke, siza nakwezona nxalenye ibalulekileyo yale nqaku. Ngokukodwa, kuya ngokoqobo ekufuneka yenziwe nendlela yokwenza ukuphembelela iziganeko ukuze utshintshe i "ayinabulungisa" Imeko ikamva. Okokuqala kuyimfuneko kukuhlalutya ekuhambeni iingcamango zakhe kwaye uzibuze eminye imibuzo, iimpendulo apho mangaza ngokwakho:

• Ngubani na obange okanye yintoni ityala ntoni?
• Njani ubona indlela yokuphuma kule meko?
• Kangakanani na?
• Kangakanani na uyakholelwa kwisiqu amandla akho?
• Kufaneleke ukuba iimvakalelo zakho ibizwa ngokuba uthando lokwenene?
• Uqinisekile ukuba impendulo yalo mbuzo: "Indlela ukubuyisela iingcinga ozithandayo" - aya kukunceda ngokwenene kwi umendo ukuzuza ezinqwenelekayo?
• Kwaye ekugqibeleni, oyiqondayo indlela igama elithi "ithemba"?

utshintsho engokoqobo

Okokuqala, kufanele Tune in unethemba. Misa ukuqwalasela ukuba anibufanele (th) ukuba nantoni na okanye nabani na inokuba. Cinga isiphumo ezakhayo lweshishini. Isicwangciso ubomi bakho kufuneka abe izisombululo nesakhiwo ecacileyo. amagama akuboni - iikhrayitheriya zokubakhetha ezichazwe - yem, ukuziphatha, akagwetyelwanga na indlela, yaye isazela - sisixhobo esiphumelelayo self-iliso. Hackneyed "musa ukunikezela" kunindulula - "! I ' Yazi, "bonke kwaoko" zingafumaneka, kodwa ngenxa imikhwa yethu yatshintsha inkqubo ngcembe "ngokutsha" kufuna ixesha amaxhoba. Thina sonke enhle, yaye wonk 'umntu' amathambo kwi kwigunjana. " Bacinga ukuba akayi kwenza na, akukho mntu, nkqu iingcamango zakho! ngokuvumelana kuphela ngolwazi kunye nokuzithemba iya kukuvumela ukuba ufumane isisombululo ngempumelelo lo mbuzo: "? Indlela nokubuyisela omthandayo omnye nge ingcamango"

Yabona, mna ndakwenza oko!

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Amanye amacebiso ezibaluleke

• Hlala esebenzayo. Kwanele ukuba imizuzu embalwa ngokubaleka kusasa, ishawari kunye sakusasa ukukhanya.
• Jonga wena esipilini kunye ngoncumo. Wena ufanelwe ukuba ube ndonwabe!
• Thatha ujongo kwi ihlabathi ezikungqongileyo kwisikhundla sokuba lerinene. Cinga entle okusingqongileyo kwaye zijolise ingqalelo zabo amahlwempu.
• Ziba yamanje ezimbi. Funda ukulawula oko kwenzeka entlokweni yenu.
• sengqondo Balanced amazwi akhe. Khumbula, ukuba eziphathekayo.
• "Buyela ngamandla akho ndiyithandayo ingcamango" - kungekhona umnqweno kwamnandi, ngokwenene linyathelo ephunyeziweyo, yaye uya kuba nako kwakhona uthando obungasifanelanga, zibandakanya yonke umthamo lwangaphakathi yobuntu bakhe.

Ekuphetheni

Ngoko ke, ngoku kufuneka ukuba baqonda ukuba indlela umntu omthandayo kunye ingcamango. Njengoko unokuthelekelela, kodwa kuxhomekeke kuwe isiphumo ekupheleni. Cinga ngakumbi ngale okulungileyo rhoqo nombono umcimbi ofunekayo. Ngokubanzi, i ayenalo - umhlobo wakho osenyongweni kule meko. Yazi yonke into ngeenxa ngokoqobo bazimilise kamsinya nje ucinga ukuba utshintsho Isiqu ngaphakathi kwenu. look yakho nethemba kwixesha elizayo iza kutsala HIV ngoku. isangqa nezeNtlalo kuhlala injalo, kodwa nabantu abakufutshane nawe uya kuba ezahlukeneyo ... Eneneni, nina ukulutshintsha, uze nawe ihlabathi liphela uya kuguqulwa. Yonke le ndaba ngengcamango nendlela ubona ikamva lakho. Ngoko ke, "Indlela ukubuyisela umntu omthandayo amandla ingcamango" - umbuzo Oku kusonjululwa ngaphandle inxaxheba eyayinaso. Noko ke, imimangaliso iyenzeka! Mhlawumbi ngomso uvuka umntu omtsha, kwaye into ingqalelo yakho materializes phambi kwakho emva ufumana ukusuka umyalezo elifutshane: "Ndicela uxolo. Ndikuthanda kangaka! "Yiba onwabe, ukuthatha unonophelo lowo exabiseke kakhulu kuwe yaye ngenxa obavileyo wena wakha eli hlabathi elitsha!