Indlela ahlangane mfo lula unobtrusively

Yonke intombazana wakha wazibuza ukuba uqhelane njani na lo mfo. Kodwa umbuzo elingephi ubusithelisayo imiba emininzi: apho baqhelene ukuqala njani, oko kukuthi, ukuqonda indlela noba okanye hayi ukuqhubeka incoko nje ukuba bangene imeko osisiyatha ... kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi.

Ukuqala ukuqonda isihloko njengoko ukuhlangana wokuqala ukuma intombazana, Kakade, kunye ukhetho lwendawo. Kusenokuba umsebenzi wakho, okanye iziko, yembutho njalo iindawo (zemiboniso, imiboniso, amathala eencwadi), iyadi ekhaya, izithuthi zikawonke-wonke, iivenkile. Kakade ke, zikho iimeko iqela kuphela yabafazi, iklabhu umdla kuthiwa "ukusika kunye nezifundo bokuthunga", kunye neendawo watyelela sivame ekhaya nasemsebenzini, masidibane esitratweni okanye zezithuthi zikawonke kubonakala ukuba abe yinto olungafanelekanga. Ntoni ngoko? Search. Injalo loo nto, musa ithemba intlanganiso nje kwaye inzame omncinane ukuqinisekisa ukuba le ntlanganiso kwenzeka. Elilandelayo ukumisela ukuba uhlobo womntu ofuna. Ukuba umntu owomeleleyo sporty - ezifanelekileyo wakho, emva koko uye izihlandlo ezimbalwa club kwezemidlalo okanye lubonwabele ubugcisa bokulwa, okanye uqale Ukuskiya, ngokubanzi, njengoko isitsho njalo intetho, hlanganisa ishishini kunye ukuzonwabisa. Ukuba wena into ephambili amadoda ubukrelekrele kunye nemfundo, kuyimfuneko ukuba bakhangele kwithala leencwadi, imiboniso, ababhalisa izifundo uncwadi okanye imbali, yiya zinkundla. Kakade ke, ivenkile "Hunter and Umlobi" anokufunyanwa Ph.D., kodwa kwiindawo 'weendawo "lilonke iphezulu kakhulu.

Umba esilandelayo kuthotho "ukuhlangabezana njani na intombazana" yeyona ndlela ukubona ngokwakhe. Uninzi kwamadoda kuzo indalo kunye nabancedisi, kodwa ngenxa yendlela okanye nokuthozama, bona zingabonakaliyo. Kulo mzekelo, kufuneka uncedo oluncinane. Indlela elula aqhelane a guy - ukuyibuza umbuzo okanye ukucela uncedo. Umzekelo, ukuba wayethanda mfo wabona kwisikhululo sebhasi, unako bambuza umbuzo, apho ibhasi kuthatha ukuba ngesingxi ethile, buza ukuba akubona xa edlula 56 ( "kunye nesiphatho saso, yaye akukho, apha kakade ukuba uthandabuze ingaba uhamba apha zonke "). Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba akukho nto uyithethayo, kodwa yintoni ubabulele incoko, ngoko ukuba uthanda a guy, oko-90% yenkxaso yakhe.

imeko Win-win njengoko ahlangane a guy - kukuba ukuza ivenkile iingcali ukuthengiswa gear ucele mfo uyakuthanda ukunceda wena ukhethe gear bangumnikelo Pope (bazalwana, oomalume). Ukuba ngaxeshanye ukongeza enyanisekileyo ngokupheleleyo ubugxwayiba, "ndzi musani ukuqonda oku, kwaye ubengumntu ongcono ngokunjalo kuzo zonke ezilungileyo 'okuye Akukho mntu uya kuma phambi kwenu.

Ukuba unexhala umba, njengoko neloqobo ukudibana a guy, koko apha ezinye iindlela ezilula: ukuba aye mfo wokuthengisa kunye ngokugqibeleleyo ekhuselekileyo ukuthetha into efana: "Hi, njani Oleg kunjalo? Kwikhulu leminyaka enamashumi Andimbonanga. " Xa a guy iqalisa ukukuxelela ukuba wenze impazamo, singakwazi ukuthatha kuphela neentloni kwaye uqale uxolo, kwaye emva koko ke mfo ukuba ukuqhubeka nencoko yena, ngenxa yokuba akukho bani "nene lokwenyaniso" akayi kuvumela le ntombazana waba buhlungu ngenxa impazamo osisiyatha onjalo . Enye indlela kakhulu a original, kodwa ke kuphela sizithembile amantombazana efanelekileyo. Ehamba ecaleni mfo kamnandi ngathi uthetha efowunini nomhlobo (ungakhwazi esitratweni, kodwa ukuze eve) kwaye uqale i "incoko 'ukuchaza oko kuza indoda mfana umdla kufuphi kuwe. kakuhle indlela azifuna (inani elikhulu, kuhle, ngoko Iinkuphelo enxibe, iinwele zakhe nje oluphezulu, kwaye ngoko ke uluhlu siqhubeka), yaye nokuba xa uqala kubonwe indlela clever yena, emangalisayo kunye ochwayithileyo. Emva weva into elungileyo kunye nokuzila kuya kuba nakwenza ngandlela yimbi ngaphandle ukuya ukuze nazi ukuba konke oku kuyinyaniso.

Ukuba usoyika wokuqala simazi kakuhle a guy kuba nje ucinga ukuba unokukhangela etyeni okanye eyinqaba, ngoko bachitha nje i mini-lokulinga. Buza abafana 10 abahlobo bakho njengoko amagama amabini ukuchaza intombazana oya ukuza kumkhawulela ke, uya kubona ukuba phakathi iimpendulo,,, "ongaqhelekanga" akayi kuba 'nobugagu "' umdla 'omnye' emini." Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ukuze ukhumbule kuyimfuneko ukuba uqhelane lula kwaye unobtrusively, ebangela okanye ukuziphatha silwe apha nje olungafanelekanga.