Esi sicwangciso ienjini iphembelela ukhetho abahlobo emsebenzini

Xa Syama Meger, oyingcali kwicandelo isebe e-commerce othenge le ezaziwayo-kakuhle chain American Barneys New York, uye wafaka isicelo ukwandisa, oko Ukuphumeza iinjongo zayo ezinde. Eli bhinqa Bendilangazelela ukungena isebe locwangciso ukuba ziyabavumela ukulawula inxalenye enkulu weshishini. Noko ke, loo nto yinto ukoyika: oku umngcipheko yobubhetyebhetye ngokweemvakalelo, kuba uninzi lwethu baxhomekeke izimvo oogxa. Kwaye kwaba yindlela ngqo ukuba abantu bazi malunga bafuna ukukwenza.

Xa ekugqibeleni abazange bayifumane promotion Syama, indawo umviwa kuvela kwenye inkampani, ukuba wadana kakhulu. Njengabantu abaninzi, senze ukungaphumeleli emsebenzini, ukuba icele ukuba inkxaso kumakholwane. Le meko kunokuba clichéd: efuna inkxaso novelwano ngabanye. Nangona kunjalo, kulindixesha "behavioural Ecology" iziphumo zesifundo, esithi ukuba akukho basoloko nako ukubona ngokwaneleyo ekhoyo kunye agwebe ebantwini.

Ezi ziphumo yabonisa ukuba ukukhetha oogxa, lowo phi inkxaso, kuxhomekeke isini yethu. Amadoda zama ukufumana sizana ukunceda ukusombulula iingxaki ezinzima okanye acebise nantoni na, nabafazi balindele uvelwano kunye nenkxaso yokuziphatha. Ke kaloku, njengokuba umthetho, esi sicwangciso sisicwangciso esinatyiswe buhlungu.

Apho ungajonga inkxaso?

Uphononongo ababandakanyekayo Abantu 246: Amadoda 121 nabafazi 125. Baye benyusa iimeko-2: inxaxheba lupwa ngokwasemzimbeni kunye ukoyiswa ngayo, kwakunye uloyiso okanye ukoyiswa edabini ukuba kwisikhundla esiphezulu. Kwimeko nganye, le ngxabano yenzeka nomntu wesini esifanayo. Emva koko, nxaxheba lubonise iifoto "abahlobo" 20 kunokwenzeka Abaxhobele ukunceda okanye inkxaso. kwafuneka ukuba bakhethe kubani Ajika ke uncedo, uze uchaze oluntu na ngokwabo ngaphakathi.

Ngubani na umhlobo kwaye ngubani na lutshaba?

Kwimeko ilahleko kukhuphiswano ngokwasemzimbeni, abantu abaninzi khetha inkokheli oyindoda ngoko- ekhangela. Women ikhetha angamantombazana ndijongeka yesini sakho. Ngoko ke, abaphengululi bagqiba ukuba iimpawu yobuso ethambileyo, amehlo ezinkulu nemazi abantu bakholelwe ukuba ukurhwaphilizela kubo ubukho kuyanda kunye novelwano ebantwini. Ezi iya ikakhulu bafuna uvelwano kunye nokuxhasa ngenxa yokwenzakala emzimbeni.

Kwimeko ukukhuthaza leri omsebenzi, kunye namadoda kunye nabasetyhini bakhetha ukufuna namahlakani phakathi kwabafazi, nokuba siyintoni na isiphumo yomlo. Kwathi kanti loo msebenzi kunye hayi isini, kwaye ngethuba ekoyiseni iingxaki.

malunga engaguqukiyo

Ngokutsho uChristopher Watkins, omnye ababhali isifundo, kwaye emandiyenze kwi ngezengqondo kwiYunivesithi Aberdeen, abantu bakholelwa ukuba abo bacinge iinkokeli lubalaseleyo (by parameters wangaphandle) ukuze akwazi ukunikezela ngenkxaso yokuziphatha, kodwa kukunceda xa kuziwa isidingo amanyathelo azinzileyo. Kulindeleke ukuba uthethe ngaphantsi, kodwa ngaphezulu ishishini, kwaye ke ngoko akukho lula ukuba uvelwano. Noko ke, ababhali isifundo siyaqaphela ukuba ezi iingcinga, nto leyo isixelela ienjini, kwezinye iimeko, babe kude inyaniso.

Ukuzisola okanye nokwenza?

I Syama efanayo Meger wathi emva kokoyiswa kwi edabini ukuba sikhundla bafune inkxaso kumakholwane ezahlukeneyo, kunye nempembelelo gqitha abantu bakhe nje iimpawu zobunkokeli. Bamcebisa isigqibo obengo, ngoko ndafudukela kwesinye isixeko, waza wavula ngokuqinileyo bakhe, wakwazi ukufumana capital elungileyo. Ekugqibeleni waba nombulelo gqitha ngelo xesha abahlobo andizohlwayi nje yaye nabonakalisa uvelwano kunye wazama susumetela ukuya phambili. Ngezi esisebenza ngobubele kude, kwaye abanye babo baya ukusebenza kwinkampani yakhe.