Dream Ingcaciso: into amaphupho amahobe

Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, amahobe zithathwa umqondiso woxolo, ulonwabo nempumelelo. Kudala-dala, ngemihla negobo, ezi ntaka elihle ayaziswa ubunzima ngegolide, yaye namhlanje ukuba ehlonitshwa kakhulu eluntwini. Iperi namahobe angene esibhakabhakeni emcimbini emsithweni, lo msitho -sibonisa ngokonwaba utshatile kwaye uthembisa Ukongeza ngokukhawuleza kusapho. Mhlawumbi yiloo nto isizathu sokuba ebambe uvelwano lelinye igobo, nto leyo edla kungabonwa izitalato.

Kuthekani ukuba amahobe kuvela emaphupheni zethu? Sithembise ukuba amaphupha ezinjalo? njani obaphatha ngayo? Ngamanye amazwi, yintoni amaphupho amahobe?

Kuyinto ezisitheleyo ubuthongo - yinto umyalezo khowudi ye zingqondweni zethu. amaphupha abaninzi malunga iminqweno zethu, uloyiko namaxhala. Abanye bayakwazi ukuba alumkise ingozi esondelayo okanye ibonise impendulo umbuzo ohlupha umntu ebomini. Ngoko kuyo nayiphi na kwezi ndlela zikwaquka iphupha apho umntu ubona igobo?

Abaphandi iphupho uyavuma ukuba levukuthu - yenye ngeesimboli kakhulu kangaka. Kuxhomekeka into eyenzekayo ephupheni, ngoko wenza umfanekiso. Ngokubanzi, nawuphi na iphupha apho ubona negobo esempilweni ithwala umyalezo entle. Ukuba ubona ezinye blue okanye umhlambi yonke abaziva Ndiyalila, lo gama nisaphumle kulula: nomkhaya wakho uya kuba ngukumkani ngokuvumelana, uvuyo kunye nokuqonda.

Oku jikelele, kodwa ngoku makhe sithethe iinkcukacha. Ngoko ke, ukuba oko ezinzulwini ngamaphupha?

Ukuba ubona lelinye igobo eziphaphazelayo, ngoko ebomini kufuneka ube abafuna kancinane, musa ukoyika ukungaqondani ezahlukeneyo kwaye unike ukuba ebunzimeni - ekugqibeleni yonke into ihamba kakuhle. Ukongeza, kukho iphupha apho ubona lelinye igobo eziphaphazelayo, efuziselwa iindaba ezivela kumhlobo elikude.

Umyalezo "negobo" uphupha iphupha elingaqhelekanga ithwala amantombazana abangatshatanga kunye nabasetyhini. Kutheni iphupha kukumagobo angatshatanga ladies? Ukuze isicelo yokuqala umtshato, kwaye Union ngokuqinisekileyo ziya komelela kwaye wonwabe. Kuba namankazana, lelinye igobo ephupheni kwakhona ifuzisele ukukhulelwa zeenqwelo zezigulane.

Okubangel 'umdla kukuba Freud, ababekholelwa ukuba yonke phupha Ubusithelisile ulwazi malunga iminqweno abasondeleyo itolikwe ngoko ke umfanekiso efuziselayo ihobe, ebomini bakho, kukho unxulumano olukhulu lobuhlobo, ulwalamano zikaPlato yonwabe kakhulu kunye neqabane lakho. Ngaphandle kokuba ufuna ukukhawulezisa Dynamics ulwalamano, akufuneki ungangxami, njengoko unako alwe kuphela into ingqalelo yakho.

Kwaye ngoku, siphaphazela, linamafutha aqholiweyo. Sele sibonile ukuba uphupha lelinye igobo - uxolo, uvuyo, umtshato, wemvula wosapho, njl Noko ke, kukho caveat: konke oko kuyinyaniso kuphela xa lelinye igobo ubona ephupheni, ephila, yaye ngokuxhomekeke ukuba bahlasele ngumntu.

Xa uphupha ukuba edubula amahobe for fun yabo, ngoko ke kufuneka kwakhona isimo sakho kubomi: iphupha uthetha ngokuxhalaba ngezinto inkohlakalo ngokugqithisileyo zenu. Kwakhona sebenza njenge silumkiso: abalibali iinkanuko ukwanelisa kunye neminqweno. Xa uphupha ihobe efileyo okanye onesifo ihobe yodwa phupho lubonisa yelishwa.

Okubangel 'umdla kukuba, loo Kunjalo malunga amaphupha apho ubona i amadada abafileyo okanye usisiqhwala. Ukuba ucela abaphandi amaphupha, yintoni amaphupho amadada, zisabela ngokuzithemba okukhulu, lowo umqondiso ezilungileyo Sibonakalisa utshintsho emnandi, kunye nezipho wekamva. Kodwa kuphela xa amadada bayaphila kakuhle. Kungenjalo, kuyimfuneko ukulungiselela kusilela ezayo nelahleko.

Ukuba ephupheni ubulala Dada, kodwa baqhubeka amadada ubomi, ngoko phupho sesona ilandelayo: oyenzileyo ebomini bakho (okanye wenze) ububi obukhulu, kodwa kukho ithuba lokuba balungise izenzo zabo.

Yiba nenyameko amaphupha akho. Kwaye ngoko niya kuyiqonda kakuhle amaphupho kukumagobo amavukuthu.